The older I get the more lean I want to be.
What I have found is the bigger I am the less women like it overall.
The more lean I am the more the interest picks up.
Now for the interesting part. The less I work out and the more sloppy I become the more they love me. Go figure.
I just want to get back to a shredded 240... if not 230. I am 260 with abs now. Not shredded yet but they are there and you can see them when I am relaxed.
I used to want to be 225-235 high single digits BF (Im 5'10") but after chilling out and getting into my 30's Ive decided 195-205 at around 8% would be just the right blend of size, definition, ease of maintenance, and most importantly, HEALTH. It takes a shit ton of work and $$$ to maintain your size the bigger you get from your normal genetic weight.