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How do you value yourself?
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all the whey
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BIKINIMOM said:
calveless wonder
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cool thread.....was thinking about something similar right as you created (my best friend called me out on a bunch of shit in my life the other day)
Eh for me...i'm proud of my unique mix/background. Not too many people can say they're japanese and cuban. I like to think i got the best of both worlds (cuban looks and penis lol, japanese brains). i used to hate it when i was younger, but as i got older i embraced it and it makes me different everywhere i go. The japanese mind gave me great business sense and i guess the cuban side made me a hustler/gave me the gift of gab.
The one thing i can say is that whatever i've given 100% of my attention to, whatever goal, i've always reached, no matter how unlikely. from my pro video game career (lol), to my social life, to my ebay business when i was 18, to my body, to my career (although that needs alot of work right now). I've also overcome alot of adversity and tend to make the best out of bad situations.
was very lucky to grow up with a family that was well off. was able to get a great education, allowed me to travel alot and see all sorts of different culture when i was younger and see most of the world by the time i was a teenager. i'll always have great connections, and opportunities...i just have to make the most of them.
I definetely need to improve myself alot more though...to full my potential.
Everyone that meets me says i have the potential to do anything i want in this world...but there's a few things holding me back.
my work ethic can be pretty weak sometimes, i really have to get in the zone and see results for me to keep going. I got "by" on talent and luck alone for years. My best friend said the other day my biggest flaw is "apathy".
i have terrible habits and organization, and in the past few years i've sat around and contemplated too much instead of just "doing". i haven't been a doer as much as i should. i also tend to neglect my friends/become introverted during down periods of my life (like right now).
probably in the biggest slump of my life because of my failed business venture ,horrible breakup, and just bad location. hopefully that changes soon
Eh for me...i'm proud of my unique mix/background. Not too many people can say they're japanese and cuban. I like to think i got the best of both worlds (cuban looks and penis lol, japanese brains). i used to hate it when i was younger, but as i got older i embraced it and it makes me different everywhere i go. The japanese mind gave me great business sense and i guess the cuban side made me a hustler/gave me the gift of gab.
The one thing i can say is that whatever i've given 100% of my attention to, whatever goal, i've always reached, no matter how unlikely. from my pro video game career (lol), to my social life, to my ebay business when i was 18, to my body, to my career (although that needs alot of work right now). I've also overcome alot of adversity and tend to make the best out of bad situations.
was very lucky to grow up with a family that was well off. was able to get a great education, allowed me to travel alot and see all sorts of different culture when i was younger and see most of the world by the time i was a teenager. i'll always have great connections, and opportunities...i just have to make the most of them.
I definetely need to improve myself alot more though...to full my potential.
Everyone that meets me says i have the potential to do anything i want in this world...but there's a few things holding me back.
my work ethic can be pretty weak sometimes, i really have to get in the zone and see results for me to keep going. I got "by" on talent and luck alone for years. My best friend said the other day my biggest flaw is "apathy".
i have terrible habits and organization, and in the past few years i've sat around and contemplated too much instead of just "doing". i haven't been a doer as much as i should. i also tend to neglect my friends/become introverted during down periods of my life (like right now).
probably in the biggest slump of my life because of my failed business venture ,horrible breakup, and just bad location. hopefully that changes soon
KillahBee
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BM, I disagree. Show me one post where I showed value in external factors. I never have, so clearly you are mistaken there.
Now, if you want to make a case for how I treat others here, I can't disagree. This is something I have worked on for a long time and have made immense strides with. It ain't over yet, Rome wasn't built in a day, ya know?
But I also don't put any value in how others perceive me. Put 100 people in a room and I will have 100 different reputations. This does not matter to me as I have no control over it.
Now, if you want to make a case for how I treat others here, I can't disagree. This is something I have worked on for a long time and have made immense strides with. It ain't over yet, Rome wasn't built in a day, ya know?
But I also don't put any value in how others perceive me. Put 100 people in a room and I will have 100 different reputations. This does not matter to me as I have no control over it.
all the whey
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KillahBee said:
Now you sound like BM saying "show me one post where I..."
Bikini Mod
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Not sure really what my value is to be honest.
I have had my children stolen from me. Even though I fight to the death, it may be death before the fight is over so I can't say really.
My family has grown weary of abuse from a man they did NOT marry. Nearly 7 years and they are fleeing the country to avoid prosecution for protecting my girls (amongst other reasons).
My husband, though generous and kind will most likely grow weary of it too....
I used to have the most amazing ability to make everyone around me smile and feel good about themselves. Now I just hover between life and death....
I have had my children stolen from me. Even though I fight to the death, it may be death before the fight is over so I can't say really.
My family has grown weary of abuse from a man they did NOT marry. Nearly 7 years and they are fleeing the country to avoid prosecution for protecting my girls (amongst other reasons).
My husband, though generous and kind will most likely grow weary of it too....
I used to have the most amazing ability to make everyone around me smile and feel good about themselves. Now I just hover between life and death....
