i go all out on my dates. i even go as far as buying a new outfit. for some reason if i go with an outfit i have previously worn i dont feel the date is special. so i have to feel comfortable so i can let her feel comfortable. i always put on cologne but i dont over do it. i love it when a woman smells good. and french manacures and pedicures are a plus to me as well. shows me she takes are of herself. i always get a haircut before the date. i trust my stylist so she can do it the same day and not mess it up. i make sure my car is extra clean. one time i even rented a limo so we can both have fun and not worry about drinking and driving. and i always open doors for a woman. that is in my blood and i am a new york native, grew up there for 17 years. i let them go first, i treat them like a princess.
as far as the date and where we go depends on her interests. i usually get to know the woman before hand whether we talk on the phone or it was while we met. i always get to know the personality of the woman, if it didnt connect there then we wouldnt be going on a date in the first place. in the past i have taken a date to an off broadway play, nothing boring but fun. but if i feel thats not for her i will take her on a river boat cruise. dinner, dancing, moonlight walks on the boat deck. but if i feel she doesnt like boats then i take her somewhere else. you see, i really get to know woman before i do anything. i ask them suttle questions, they may not understand why at the time, but when we go on our date they always say "so thats why you asked me this".
but dinner is always part of the night. at the end of the night i love to stroll along the river bank here in downtown jacksonville. it is very romantic and you have a nice breeze. and the other place is the beach. if i feel the woman may be insecure about being alone in a secluded place like that then no i wont take her there. but if she trusts me, and most do, i take them to the beach and we walk along the sand in out bare feet. all the while talking about whatever comes to mind. i love to listen. i love to listen to a woman talk and make her feel like she is the center of attention. i will tell her whatever she asks about me but mostly i listen. i have been told that i am a real good listener.
at the completion of the date i always ask if they had fun and if they would like to go out again. thats if i feel it went well and there is a connection between us. i never ask for sex and i always kiss there hand goodnight and put the ball in their court as to the kiss on the lips. and most of the time they initiate it and that is when i move in, slowly with passionate eye contact. i place my hand upon her cheek, and just as i am about to place my wanting lips to her waiting lip, i stop, and at this moment she most likely has her eyes closed she will open them when i stop. i then look her in the eyes one more time and with a very sexy smile (one of my attributes) i gaze back at her and then continue in and the passion explodes. i never put my tongue in on the first meeting of the lips, i kiss her open mouth, close the lips, then slowly open back up and very gentley touch her tongue with mine. and after i kiss her for a little bit i always finish with a slide of my cheek across hers and give her a little peck kiss on her warm cheek. as we are lost in the moment and come back to reality they always have a moment of silence before they open there eyes i say in a warm, soft, voice "thank you for this wonderfull evening" and she then looks into my eyes and say "wow, thank YOU". i then say goodnight and i always wait for them to go inside and close the door before i take a step away.
it is funny, i have never been stood up, i have never been turned down for a second date, but something always seems to go wrong further down the road. and im a full commital type of guy. maybe thats it, i commit too much. oh well.
hope you liked my version of dating.
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