How do you tell your girl?

[looking to lean]

yeah but remember in canada it's not a social or legal issue the way it is in the states. they have a culture thats subtly different in many ways, they have a war on juice as a distraction policy, a rabid media jumping all over 'disgraced' athletes, a government who wants to legislate over grown men playing ball games and all the rest of the shit.

here you could pop dbol in the gym locker room and not get in trouble.. there if you did that, you'd be treated like a pedophile by LE.

it's understandable that something that's viewed by the average american idiot as shameful, morally repulsive and a disgusting act against God and the US way of life would be harder to share with your GF...

oh man... I really didnt even consider that. no kidding.

where I live, the cop that took my chronic last month at a road block (no fine, no nothing, just thanx for the good weed), is at my gym in the morning on a cycle that he got from his dealer with the buds that he took from me! ~hypothetically of course~

in the US... I probably would have been shot for pulling out the bag of weed to hand over to the cop.. when he 'thought i was going for a gun'

 

[ironclaw]

dont tell her anything cuz everytime you arent all smiles she will blame it on the junk. and she will follow the masses and think that you take shortcuts to get your physique. when actually we work twice as hard when we are on.

that's so true, my girl knew I was using gear when we first started going out, then, due to personal reasons, I got depressed, quit juicing, started using a lot of recreational drugs and got really strung out,. She blamed it all on the steroids, go figure. So now, I just tell her I'm all natural and take a lot of prohomones which are legal and she doesn't say anything. Not worth the bullshit I'd have to put up with if I told her I was back on the stuff.

 

[truckdaddy]

My GF of 7 years recently found out about my gear use last month. She was looking through my work bag to find a pen and found a syringe. I walked in to the room, and she's holding up the syringe and says "what's this?..." At this point, I'm thinking to myself "f-u-ck me..ok this it...I'm going to tell her." So I took her by the hand and walked her to our bedroom and sat her down to talk.

To make a long story short, she is dissapointed in me for hiding it from her, but she says that I can make my own decisions. So basically she is O.K. with it. I opened the discussion to her and answered all her questions about my use and the risks/benifiets of AS. We then agreed that I need to go see a doctor to have blood work doen to ensure her that my body is ok. I also asked her to do some research on the internet and read up in it. (She did and read a bunch of negative stuff about it, which didn't help). We are going to have another sit down talk about my use lafter I finish my current cycle.

So anyways, I feel sooo much better now that she knows. I hated hiding that sh!t from her. It was always a pain to have to cover up any suspicions. Keep in mind, I plan on marrying this woman, so she is my future wife. I was planning to tell her soon, so I am glad I got caught.

If you two are just dating, then there is no need to tell her. If she is "the love of your life", then it's best to tell her.

Good luck!

"So I took her by the hand and walked her to our bedroom and sat her down and fucked her in the ass hole"

 

[Pikaberdot]

My ex-girlfriend was cool with it, I sat her down and had her watch the HBO Real Sports special on it, and encouraged her to do some of her own research. Surprisingly, she never blamed any of our arguments on the juice. I told her that if my personality changed at all, to let me know and I would just get off the cycle. It never did. The only catch is, she was a headcase and had anorexia/bulimia, which might have been part of the reason she "understood" my reasons for use.

The only problem is after we broke up, she decided it would be neat to tell all of her friends that I dumped her because she was "too fat" for me, and that I was insecure, and that's why I took AAS. All of which was completely untrue.

I guess the bottom-line is, I would not tell anybody about it unless I planned on spending the rest of my life with them, or if they straight out asked me. If you really think about it, the benefit of "coming clean" does not outweigh the risks/costs that may be associated with it. I just hope it doesn't come up with the girl I'm with now. She notices that all my shirts have suddenly gotten a lot tighter in the past 3 weeks, but I attribute it to food and extra protein/creatine, and she hasn't gotten the least bit suspicious.

 

[CRounder99]

This whole thread I was waiting on bigcracker...

 

[gettnlarge01]

Never tell a girl anything they are all to immature to handle this type of information,besides who wants a girl when they could have a women?!

 

[odoyal rulez]

I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?

Try this..while doggy style..stick it in her ass...HARD...then tell her, she wont really care...honestly..

 

[mikey007]

Dont! Its a fact of life. All relationships start out with peaches and roses and everything nice. When they end most get bitter. Dont give her anything to use as fuel or you will be quitting AAS against your will behind bars. You should wait until you get to know her real well or until you are about to marry or maybe even never. jmo

AMEN!

 

[ole farte']

Don't tell a g/f or anybody ur doing steriods, growing pot, cheating on ur taxes, doing insider trading ,or doing anything illegal at all. WTF, i never could understand why someone wants other people knowing that they are commiting crimes. there's allways a chain reaction to this shit .nobody(men or women) can keep a secret.

 

[looking to lean]

not really a crime here. same witht he weed. and the gov doesnt go after many for tax evasion.

ah BC.. it really is paradise.