How do you tell your girl?

[CO B-man]

I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?

Dont! Its a fact of life. All relationships start out with peaches and roses and everything nice. When they end most get bitter. Dont give her anything to use as fuel or you will be quitting AAS against your will behind bars. You should wait until you get to know her real well or until you are about to marry or maybe even never. jmo

 

[jochensa]

dont tell her anything cuz everytime you arent all smiles she will blame it on the junk. and she will follow the masses and think that you take shortcuts to get your physique. when actually we work twice as hard when we are on.

 

[dawg4life]

Its a catch 22 Bro...Ive been with my wife 4 10yrs and at Thanksgiving she blew the whole circle of trust thing...She has known the whole time we have been together and was never an issue..long story short is she is cool with it but when she smoked some strong ass purple kush she got chatty cathy and told my brother in law and about 4 other people that where at the house..Im not saying I wouldnt do it again but I would have been a little less detailed with the info..Just think hard b4 you do anything Bro...

 

[looking to lean]

i had the same dilemna when I started with my current girl 2 years ago. I was on when we got together. I told her and she decided she would give me my injections. which she is very good at, I must say. she is a body piercer, so I guess it goes with the territory.

lifthard2005 said it best "if you hide it right from the start, then it is already dishonest at the start. if you like her and want to advance it at all, i would just be like, "there is something you need to know, and i dont want ot hide it from you...""

people like wrknonit that hide it from their WIFE of 7 years are really playing with fire. you dont marry someone that you intend on lieing to for the rest of your life. it just sets up more lieing for the future. like adultery and poor gambling habits (etc) that you just opt not to mention... as your relationship gets more and more degraded. I suppose marriage for some people is just an easy way to keep that bar slut around longer.

for me any relationship.. girl.. parent... friends... its all about honesty. even my friends know about my intrigue for AAS. they will get over the initial shock pretty quickly once you tell them. and if they dont, then you know that person isnt worth having around. even a parent. and after the shock has passed... they will start to be interested or they dont care. SOOOO much better than lieing and hiding your true self.

"I wouldnt say anything... to many people dont know the facts about aas" this is true for a group of people. I wouldnt just start talking about your use with a room full of people that know nothing about the subject. but an individual... friend.. girl... parent... if they have any desire to keep that relationship with you, then the subject shouldnt upset them for long. especially when you show them all the knowledge you have on the subject... that you have really done your homework... that you are taking all the precautions necessary to stay as healthy as possible.

its a no brainer... tell her... them... anyone you care about being honest with.


sorry for the rant, but lieing to loved ones about your true self is about the worst thing you can do IMHO.

BE HONEST>>> BE HAPPY!

 

[tupac]

ud have to be nuts to say anything.. All women are crazy to a certain degree. i could see my gf using it against me in soo many ways

 

[looking to lean]

Its a catch 22 Bro...Ive been with my wife 4 10yrs and at Thanksgiving she blew the whole circle of trust thing...She has known the whole time we have been together and was never an issue..long story short is she is cool with it but when she smoked some strong ass purple kush she got chatty cathy and told my brother in law and about 4 other people that where at the house..Im not saying I wouldnt do it again but I would have been a little less detailed with the info..Just think hard b4 you do anything Bro...

wow thats rough. but is it really? are these inlaws hating you now? or are they just alittle more in the know about you? has there been reprocussions from her spilling the beans?

My Ex told my parents about ALL the 'less than legal' areas of my life when I kicked her out for stealing form me and doing blow behind my back. I was horrified to even see my parents afterwards, but you know what? they didnt care. its my life and Im hurting no one. Im well educated, financial stable and happy as ever....

Honesty is an amazing thing.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

If she asks don't lie but if she doesn't ask don't tell until further into the relationship.

 

[looking to lean]

ud have to be nuts to say anything.. All women are crazy to a certain degree. i could see my gf using it against me in soo many ways

u would have to be nuts to be with a girl that would use anything against you. thats a one night stand kinda of slut/bitch. definately not one to have around for any length of time.. or to even have a conversation with.

I dont even have people around me that would info against me. crazy world.. with crazy people. stupid people

 

[immortalis]

Ive been with my wife for a little over 10 years. We have only been married for about 15 months now.

I hid my use from her up until very recently.


The reasons behind me telling her were, A) I got tired of hiding things from my wife... going into the bathroom and hurrying through injections... hiding gear etc, and B) I had to explain the reason(s) why I was feeling a certain way.

Recently I went from a big bulker of 550Test/500Deca for about 15 weeks... and shortly after that went into a LONG cutter with Test/EQ/Winny, and I got my first gyno symptoms ever from that cutting cycle. I jumped on some letro, and it DESTROYED my sex drive. I dont know if the winny shut me down hard also, but I could care less about sex at that point.

Well my wife started making comments about how she didnt think I found her attractive anymore etc. So I felt like I needed to clear the air, because it got really bad there for a while.

I sat her down and I told her something like "Look baby, I never lie to you about anything, but there is something that I have NEVER told ANYONE, that I am tired of keeping from you and I feel that you really need to know".

Then I told her how many cycles I had done, and when... and explained to her why my sex drive was rediculasly low etc and made her feel a lot more comfortable about HERSELF. She also knows that I am a very smart individual and if I am going to do something like that, she knows I am going to be very safe about it. So she was really cool with it.

Now, my wife is bi-polar. We've had tons of problems in the past, which is really why I didnt ever want to tell her. Since I told her, we have gotten in a few verbal confrontations and she has thrown my use in my face 3 times. Each time I told her that my mood is not affected by what I am putting in my body, and that she will not throw it in my face again if she respects me and respects the fact that I told her something that NO ONE else knows. The 3rd time it happened I told her again, and I told her that I was "on" all last year and she never said ANYTHING about my mood or anything like that, so what she was saying now was rediculas and she needed to quit.

Since then she hasnt brought it up again, but she has made so many comments about my body. I get the feeling shes really happy now, and happy with what I am doing with myself. So I am not concerned with the fact that I told her.

I dont recommend telling a girl that you are JUST getting involved in, for reasons stated in previous posts. ALL women are fucking crazy. They will twist shit and use information against you if they feel the urge. So I would wait until a GOOD amount of time passes and you are both comitted to each other before i even CONSIDERED telling her. In short, make fucking SURE you can trust her...

 

[SpyWizard]

ok, here's the answer.. tell her it's HRT, you don't need to use the word steroids, just go about your business..

my wife has stuck me in the past, did it like 4 times, she just doesn't like to do it, but she 'll do IGF in my rear delts..

love that..

as long as i look good and the coppers don't come to the door, i'm golden..