How do you tell your girl?

[truckdaddy]

dont tell her, even if she thinks she knows, deny, deny

 

[dawg4life]

wow thats rough. but is it really? are these inlaws hating you now? or are they just alittle more in the know about you? has there been reprocussions from her spilling the beans?

My Ex told my parents about ALL the 'less than legal' areas of my life when I kicked her out for stealing form me and doing blow behind my back. I was horrified to even see my parents afterwards, but you know what? they didnt care. its my life and Im hurting no one. Im well educated, financial stable and happy as ever....

Honesty is an amazing thing.

Yeah it's cool but I just didn't want anyone else knowing...They don't look at me diffrent or anything but I guess in some ways it kinda destroys the myths people have..They see me taking care of my wife and kids and being a loving dad kinda blows the whole " roid rage " theroy out of the water...

 

[looking to lean]

roid rage is nearly a myth. of course if you are an uncentred angry person, then the increased aggression from the juice is going to inflate that aspect.

if you are like myself, a centred, happy individual, AAS use will not make you angry at your loved ones. yes, you can become edgy, but who doesnt? AAS or not.

immortalis.... what a great post of real world application. thats exactly what Im talking about! if you care enough about them, then being honest (although hard to break the ice on the subect) is so much easier. K to you sir! but marrying a bi polar woman... sheesh... you do have alot of stength. my bipolar ex was the one that spilled the beans on my dark secrets to my parents.

since then I told myself I wouldnt have a serious relationship with any more uncentred woman. Centred one's are few and far between, but right after that I found my current girl friend. 2 years coming up in may...longest relationship ever (yay me). and I have never been happier with someone. and truthfully, we may not be together forever, but I can assure you that we wont if I was lieing to her.

 

[krishna]

You don't!!!!!!

 

[looking to lean]

You don't!!!!!!

such wisdom...

 

[niv]

i made it alot simpler guys.. my gf already suspected for a while and told me that if she ever finds out i use she'll never forgive me and that only morons use gear.. so what i did was just break up with her.. a few hours later she came back and as far as she was concerned i could have been a heroin addict and it would still be ok.. (all this was last year in israel.. now i live in LA and after i have enough sex and do enough gear here i plan on going back and marrying her.. )

im not sure this could happen with a girl u just met though.. it has to be a girl that loves u

 

[yonkers weights]

Mine does not like it but deals and even gives me my shots from time to time.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

you think you're going to like ?????

don't tell her shit.

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHA!!! not sure yet
chics start to wear on me after a few weeks so i gotta cut'em loose. You know if treat a girl like dirt they stick like mud. lol

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

I dont plan on telling her anytime soon. Just preparing myself for the conversation. Im the type of person that before i do something I like to think about it ask questions and research.

 

[looking to lean]

I dont plan on telling her anytime soon. Just preparing myself for the conversation. Im the type of person that before i do something I like to think about it ask questions and research.

good plan man. but do tell her if she is the right girl.... if not... "cut her loose" as I just read. tons of girls that want a ripped guy to fuck. that is what you want right? you arent with her for a serious relationship, correct? otherwise honesty would come naturally. you will never seen a guy be more honest or more of a liar when he wants something