How can you ask for a prenob from someone you marry?

[2Thick]

here's a funny storry

my friends dad happend to grow up with this guy who is in one of the wealthiest famillies in this area (250 million) mostly in real estate,

so one day when we are hangin out, we go upsairs to mix a shake and this rich fucker is standing around having drinks with my buddy's dad and his fiance shows up

so I guess she had just gotten back from her attourney and so the rich guy asks her "so what did your att. say about it" (prenup)
and she says "I don't want to talk about this in front of jack"
and he says "oh bullshit, I've known jack since we were kids and I'll talk about anything in front of him"

when we hear this we start busting up

so then she starts to tell him that her att. wants to change a few things in this contract

again he says "bullshit, I paid my att. $2000 dollars to write that up and I'm not spending another dime to have it changed"

the bitch shut up real quick after that, lol

Classic.

It must be nice to have enough money to buy and sell people.

 

[white boy]

Classic.

It must be nice to have enough money to buy and sell people.

oh yeah and this guy enjoys the hell out of it to

here's another storry with this guy

one time I was doing some TI (tenant improvement) work for this guy and we had some guys ripping out the old carpet and throwing it in this one of the dumpsters and this asian business owner starts throwing a fit cause we are filling up the dumpster (he's thinking it is his) and he starts screaming at me cause he thinks that I'm in charge

so we and the rich dude and my friends father had just gotten back from lunch and we are steping out of his Mercedes and the two of them just start lol and then he reaches to shake the asian guys hand and introduces himself and the asian dudes jaw dropped like you would'nt believe because now he is realizeing that this is the guy he pays rent to and pays the garbage bills, lol

 

[Mengy]

All I have to say is this: SK, if you aren’t going to get a prenup, then you better be damn careful who you marry in today’s world.

My wife and I are going on 4 years now. When we started talking marriage, I wanted a prenup but wasn’t sure how to bring it up without sounding bad. As it turns out, she brought it up before I did. She wanted one, just to prove that she wasn’t in it for the money or to trap me. Also, she knew I wanted one but was having problems bringing it up.

The point is this: if she trusts you, and loves you, and never plans to cheat on you or screw you over, then she will have no problem signing a prenup. If her intentions are less than pure, or if she wants to keep the window open on a juicy divorce settlement possibility, then she will fight the prenup.

If you don’t even try to get a prenup, then you will only have yourself to blame if she cheats on you, divorces you, and takes all your money. It doesn’t matter how much you “think” it’s forever, or how much YOU love her, if you leave yourself open to be victimized by the biased law then you are gambling with your future.

 

[sk*]

The point is this: if she trusts you, and loves you, and never plans to cheat on you or screw you over, then she will have no problem signing a prenup.

And, my point is, if you trust her than you wouldn't have to ask for one.

She brought up the prenup, so that's a different story, but since you were thinking about bringing it up ment you didn't trust her fully at the time.

-sk

 

[Tarheel]

You can be sure if I get one of those Russian brides I'll have a prenup.

 

[XBiker]

You are still going on this one, skate?

Funny how the majority of the board disagrees with you.

Mods, please move this to the curling forum.

-X*

 

[Lift Chief]

*Better to be safe than sorry* 'nuff said.... always get a "prenob"

End of story--

 

[Mengy]

And, my point is, if you trust her than you wouldn't have to ask for one.
-sk

No, I trust her completely. I never believed in soul mates until I met her, it's like we are perfectly made for each other. But I'm not perfect, and my judgement (where women are concerned) has never been infallible. Although I believe with my whole heart that she could never hurt me or leave me, I don't know that for a fact. I've been in love before and been completely surprised by how evil a woman can be, right out of nowhere, so I decided to cover my ass in case it happens again. It's just a precaution to help prevent you from getting taken advantage of.

I have watched friends go through living hell while divorcing women they never expected it from. I decided that wouldn't be me. It's your choice of course.

 

[FreakMonster]

Ugh, you guys aren't getting it.

See the problem is that you are talking about divorce before even getting married.

When I get married, I better god damn well know I am not gonna get divorced.

It's about trust, and one of the biggest reasons that the divorce rate is so high in the US is cause the trust has died. People are thinking about how to protect themselves from the person they supposedly love.

-sk

I trusted my ex-wife to the fullest. I thought we would be together forever just like you. But guess what?
PEOPLE CHANGE!!! She used to be the sweetest nicest person you've ever met but when we divorced she was the biggest bitch you would have ever met and she basically took me for everything I had. So when you get married don't think it's gonna be some rosy marriage that will last forever. There's always that chance you will go through hell like I did. I'm one of the guys who wished they would have protected themselves.