Holy shit! I need your help bros!

[madmatt]

I had about a week left on my first cycle. I was using Prop for the last few days when I ran into my first love! We dated from the time we where 12-16 and we took each others viginity. I completely quit working out and figured it would not hurt to take a break. I have become very emotional lately and have made myself believe that I was totally in love with her. I KNOW I AM NOT! I have just lead myself to believe that I am. We had a situation occur just a few days ago and it brought up the point that I was taking it way too quick. So, now we are taking some time away from each other for a break. I hate being away from her but I believe she does not want a serious relationship since she is coming out of a marrage. I am starting to wonder if any of my feelings are true. I have been really tired lately and have been emotional about other things. How do you guys control your emotions while coming down. Right now I am completely fucked up and need some good advice. How can I save the friendship and/or relationship with my ex? PLEASE HELP.....I REALLY HATE THIS FEELING!

 

[Stryker1992]

sounds like teh clomid or incraese in estrogen my advice just be cool with her tell her how you feel and how much you care for her.

go lift and fucking relax.

Dude, you are advising on everything these days. How much do you get an hour?

I Love You Man!

 

[02gixxersix]

I dont really understand the whole quitting lifting thing for a girl or anyone for that matter unless she was gonna die or something if you went to the gym. tell her you need those 2 hours to urself and you just have to learn to control yourself. Don't trust your dick because he only cares about himself and not ur well being lol

 

[Big Johnson]

Sounds like you are talking yourself out of loving her. To thine own heart be true.

 

[flex41]

How the FUCK did you take each others virginity if she just got out of a marriage? Dude, come on!

 

[mvmaxx]

Dude, you are advising on everything these days. How much do you get an hour?

I Love You Man!

I was thinking the same thing. Is your name johnboy?

 

[crsnavet]

I'm presently unemployed and I'm fucking smart what more could you ask for.

I'm unemployed and smart too. I guess I am just not quite as wise as Bumpo LOL

 

[Johnny Cut]

gotta bump BJ, but girls fuck with you....trust me I know firsthand......go jerk off and lift heavy,...u will be ok man

Sounds like you are talking yourself out of loving her. To thine own heart be true.

 

[madmatt]

We dated back when we were younger and had a blast. I guess I expected it to be the same. I don't think I could ever love her. For the simple fact she is not on the same level as me. All she wants to do is fuck and party. She claims she does not want to get serious and that I am trying to tie her down. If you call knowing who she is sleeping with tieing her down then great. If I am sleeping with her I deserve to know. Don't you guys think. I called yesterday to let her know that I just wanted to be friends and that a hotal room would not be a good idea if we do go out on Valentines Day and her husband answered. I know she had him answer it. (They are legally seperated) I found out it was the juice while watching TV I almost started crying over the stupidest shit. I'm not in love with her. Know I would just like to keep in contact so that I can see how her life ends up. It probably won't be good. I just care about her as a friend and may have fucked that friendship up. WHY NOW!!!!

 

[Syphonfilter]

You need to just let her go. You were doing fine before she came back into your life and now it's killing you. You can always love her and care for her, but it's time you let it go. If she's already accusing you of trying to tie her down, don't put yourself in that position man.

She's not the same she once was, she's on a divorce, or upcoming divorce rebound, and she'll try and freak the world to see what she's been missing. You obviously care for her and that is why your feelings have surfaced. She, on the other hand, just sees you as a fling. Save yourself the heartbreak and trouble and cut the cord man. Let her go, if she is meant to be in your life at all when she has calmed down or gotten ahold of her senses, she will find her way back in. Right now you're setting yourself up for hurt and anger. Only you will figure out what to do in the end.