Holy shit! I need your help bros!

[ceo]

dude... this chick is just getting out of her marriage. Congrat's, you've been part of her "rebound." Of course all she wants to do is party, because she feels "liberated" now. She's FREE! She's going to go through this (for who knows how long) until she gets it out of her system. I've seen it before.

I'd say, STAY AWAY from her...for your own good! You've obviously fallen for her on some level. You've already been hurt by her and you'll continue to get hurt by her.

UNLESS (and I'm sure this is NOT the case), you can forego your feelings for her and just "hang out" with her. --WARNING-- if you continue to have sex with her, this most likely wont work (based on what we've witnessed here).

She'll either go on without you and not miss a beat...or she'll come back to you at some point. Then, it's up to you to decide whether you want to take that ho back or not...after she's whored around the town with every cock she could find.

 

[KA-BAR]

What he said.

You need to just let her go. You were doing fine before she came back into your life and now it's killing you. You can always love her and care for her, but it's time you let it go. If she's already accusing you of trying to tie her down, don't put yourself in that position man.

She's not the same she once was, she's on a divorce, or upcoming divorce rebound, and she'll try and freak the world to see what she's been missing. You obviously care for her and that is why your feelings have surfaced. She, on the other hand, just sees you as a fling. Save yourself the heartbreak and trouble and cut the cord man. Let her go, if she is meant to be in your life at all when she has calmed down or gotten ahold of her senses, she will find her way back in. Right now you're setting yourself up for hurt and anger. Only you will figure out what to do in the end.

 

[zeke]

if your x-girlfriend just got out of a marriage, the last thing she what's to do is go get back into to one. think about dude, you just break up/divorce. the last thing you would do is get serious. if you do you are screwing up. give her some time. this would be a perfect apportunity foe you to find out exaclty what happened in her marriage, as a friend. trust me on this one. you will get more than enough information from her about her past relationship as her friend than if your constatly trying to hump her leg all the time. beside's you just saw her again after how long?

If this girl give a shit about you she will call. listen to what ervryone else has said about working out to. DON'T STOP!!! just give her a little time. don't smother her. she'll come around. TRUST ME. and if she doesn't forget about it.

zeke

 

[madmatt]

She still hasn't called and I have pretty much came to the conclusion that I am a cool motherfucker! She's fucked up her opportunity with me for life! All she had to do is say Matt I want to be friends and I am sorry for sleeping with you last week! LOL!

I WILL NOT CHANGE MY BELIEFS ABOUT BEING OPEN AND HONEST IN A RELATIONSHIP! If "the one" never comes a long, at least I can say I was firm in my quest to do the right thing. I feel so better about all this stupid shit!

Thanks bros!

BROS BEFORE HOES

 

[madmatt]

Her husband just called and said they were back together. He was worried about seeing me at a local bar with her tonight and us getting into it. I told him I thought they needed to put off the divorce and his kids are cute! Ha Ha! He finished by saying "well if you go up there tonight we'll see ya there! I wasn't planning on going out tonight but I think it may clear somethings up if I go. Her husband can see that I am no ass hole and that I do care about her kids. What do you guys think?

 

[BloodLust]

You need to just let her go. You were doing fine before she came back into your life and now it's killing you. You can always love her and care for her, but it's time you let it go. If she's already accusing you of trying to tie her down, don't put yourself in that position man.

She's not the same she once was, she's on a divorce, or upcoming divorce rebound, and she'll try and freak the world to see what she's been missing. You obviously care for her and that is why your feelings have surfaced. She, on the other hand, just sees you as a fling. Save yourself the heartbreak and trouble and cut the cord man. Let her go, if she is meant to be in your life at all when she has calmed down or gotten ahold of her senses, she will find her way back in. Right now you're setting yourself up for hurt and anger. Only you will figure out what to do in the end.

I know it isn't often that someone speaks the pure and unadulterated truth... but you're gettin' it here bro. Listen to Syphon and the other Bro's and walk away while you can still walk with your dignity, she'll take that too if you keep pining after her like that

 

[thelegacy]

dude--if i was that husband i would walk straight up and crack you over the head with a bottle--dont go-- let it go and walk away and dont be friends

 

[Quadsweep]

How the FUCK did you take each others virginity if she just got out of a marriage? Dude, come on!

Because they dated from 12-16yo!