Well then hell, apparently I am the person on the informationsuperhighway that is able to be involved in this site heavily and let my personal life get involved.
My post was obviously to the extreme side of things. It's only natural that some of us will gravitate towards each other and form close bonds offline. My main point is that if you do this, you should be smart enough to put in place a lot of measures to keep that crap off the boards. And if it does get on the boards, IT IS YOUR FAULT AND YOU DESERVE ANYTHING THAT COMES YOUR WAY. And it would be nice if you were an adult and a man/woman about it, stand up, and say, "I made a poor decision. I did not use my adult brain to think about future ramifications of my actions. My bad." That's all I was saying.