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Awhile back I tried to get your wife to do this, so she doesn't come across as sexist.
Clearly she has forgotten, maybe a good beating will help her remember? (I know, bad joke)
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Awhile back I tried to get your wife to do this, so she doesn't come across as sexist.
Clearly she has forgotten, maybe a good beating will help her remember? (I know, bad joke)
But seriously, it goes both ways.
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Awhile back I tried to get your wife to do this, so she doesn't come across as sexist.
Clearly she has forgotten, maybe a good beating will help her remember? (I know, bad joke)
I don't have the exact statistics as to male/female ratio here with me. I left them at the office. But the numbers of women who physically abuse their men is very low. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen, because it does. I actually knew of a fella who worked for me and my exhusband as an electrician years ago. He was a big guy but his wife was no small drink either. Regardless this woman would beat the piss out of her husband, sent him to the hospital once while he was working for us. We are talking, an eye swollen closed and he urinated blood for a few days. Even though he made more money than she did, the law sided with her regarding their kids. So he kept going back because she wouldn't let him be in their kids' life if he left her.
It is all about control with these people.
And yes, in gay relationships there are men that are abused by their partners.
The over-whelming majority though are WOMEN.
And The Family Place also helps men escape from abusive relationships. There is no sexism. They help EVERYONE who comes seeking help.
On another note there is something I want everyone to think about when asking the question about why the person who is being abused stays.
1. Is it illegal for the victim to go to their home and live there?
2. Is it illegal for the abuser to hit their partner?
So then, why is it that we expect THE VICTIM to *just up and leave* their entire lives behind one day because THE ABUSER won't stop hitting/emotionally/verbally abusing them?
The question is why would you want a g/f?
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No one punches their girl in the jaw on the first date.
Fear is not how "they get" their gf's. Fear is how they KEEP them.
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And Monkey even though I know you were kidding, I have been beaten within an inch of my life on more than one occasion, almost always by those who I was supposed to be able to trust and who were supposed to love me very much. Only once was it a total stranger in a nightclub.
Trust me when I tell you that you only need to be beaten like that ONCE to know you don't want to ever be beaten like that again. And I don't find ANY humor in joking about it.
Trust me when I tell you that you only need to be beaten like that ONCE to know you don't want to ever be beaten like that again. And I don't find ANY humor in joking about it.
Only about the second part, GOM beating you. Serious about the first as I will explain...
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Anytime an adult raises their hand to another adult, verbally berates them, calls them hurtfull names, makes them feel like they are less than human - it's abusive. I don't care who is doing it to whomever, be they both female, both male or male towards female, female towards male.
IT IS WRONG AND SOCIETY NEEDS TO STOP TOLERATING IT.
IT IS WRONG AND SOCIETY NEEDS TO STOP TOLERATING IT.
Those numbers mean nothing!!!
Why? Because a very low percentage of men report abuse from a woman. I've been abused by a woman, an ex g/f kicked me so hard in the shin it left a bruise the size of a baseball. It hurt for over a week. I have never hit a woman. My mother has hit my father, my father has never struck my mother, both of my parents will openly admit this. Those male/female abuse numbers are too skewed to mean shit.
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