Have you ever had a long term relationship disintegrate in one day?

[biteme]

You really think so?

I don't believe that to be true all around.

I do know that a lot of people point of the obvious - I know I do.

You went from being all positive and lovey dovey about love and relationships to being sarcastic and snide about them and women, one can't help but think that your world has changed.

Well I wasn't referring to you. You're not cruel and transparent.

 

[swole]

actually, no.

I address problems when they're young and small...this way I don't have to worry about them growing into monsters and causing a huge fight from pent-up frustration.

Mature, emotionally-rich people shouldn't worry about a truly healthy long-term relationship falling apart in one day unless one of the partners did something retarded like fucking their SO's brother/sister/bf/dog.

 

[Forge]

actually, no.

I address problems when they're young and small...this way I don't have to worry about them growing into monsters and causing a huge fight from pent-up frustration.

Mature, emotionally-rich people shouldn't worry about a truly healthy long-term relationship falling apart in one day unless one of the partners did something retarded like fucking their SO's brother/sister/bf/dog.

The problem is, sometimes you just don't see the road bumps coming. Life is fluid, things can turn on a dime with little to no warning. It happens sometimes; the signs may be all around you but you don't put two and two together until it is too late.

 

[digimon7068]

no. . .never. . .

 

[fistfullofsteel]

this sounds like a Chesty thread.

the problem is that the only guys that can have long term relationships are the guys who swallow their pride and succumb to a woman. you won't do such a thing and that's why you'll always be alone at the end. that's why most divorces happen, most guys finally wake up cause they can't take it anymore and tell the bitch to go fuck herself. they realize the vagina or whatever else that comes with it, isn't worth it.

 

[rubberneck]

One things for sure, I've learned not to air my dirty laundry on here. The sharks can smell the blood and the wicked ones delight in other people's problems.

sharks??? where??

 

[rubberneck]

She's getting ready for work. I ironed her clothes and made her coffee. I haven't even been to bed.

DAMN!

You"re her BITCH!!!!! J/K

LOL

 

[Forge]

this sounds like a Chesty thread.

the problem is that the only guys that can have long term relationships are the guys who swallow their pride and succumb to a woman. you won't do such a thing and that's why you'll always be alone at the end. that's why most divorces happen, most guys finally wake up cause they can't take it anymore and tell the bitch to go fuck herself. they realize the vagina or whatever else that comes with it, isn't worth it.

You know, that’s actually fairly accurate. A man does have to be willing to swallow his pride now and then in order to make a relationship work with a woman. It’s practically required. If you don’t, the power struggle ensues and eventually the pussy is used as ammunition, which will degrade towards a break up. And different women require different degrees of humility by the man. Too much spinelessness and she loses interest, but no spinelessness at all and she becomes frustrated at her lack of power and will eventually rebel and leave for a man she can have some control over.

 

[calveless wonder]

actually, no.

I address problems when they're young and small...this way I don't have to worry about them growing into monsters and causing a huge fight from pent-up frustration.

Mature, emotionally-rich people shouldn't worry about a truly healthy long-term relationship falling apart in one day unless one of the partners did something retarded like fucking their SO's brother/sister/bf/dog.

for sure.

"one day" is just the accumulation of all problems that have been ignored/overlooked etc.

nothing happens in a day. it takes weeks or months of issues to evolve. most people just pretend like there's nothing wrong.

i think tony robbins uses the sames "kill the monster while it's small" reference

 

[Smurfy]

this sounds like a Chesty thread.

the problem is that the only guys that can have long term relationships are the guys who swallow their pride and succumb to a woman. you won't do such a thing and that's why you'll always be alone at the end. that's why most divorces happen, most guys finally wake up cause they can't take it anymore and tell the bitch to go fuck herself. they realize the vagina or whatever else that comes with it, isn't worth it.

i guess you've never been introduced to an age old concept called compromise? it goes both ways you know. both parties have to be willing and have to want to please the other person while at the same time maintaining a mutual respect and admiration for one another.
anyone who lets another person walk all over them or who sacrifices their own happiness for any reason is a fool.