God told my best friends wife to divorce him

[Sub-Zero]

Wulf, honey, you need to think about this ... what you're implying is that the woman set out with an 8 year plan to emotionally destroy your friend for no other reason than to uh, destroy him, emotionally.

Dude, I hate my ex-husband enough to have seriously contemplated: 1) setting him on fire in his sleep; 2) pushing him down any one of several sets of stairs; 3) actually held a gun in my hand and thought about pulling the trigger ... and even I got tired of that plan after four years or so ...

Trust me, your job is not to tell your friend what a conniving bitch he married, that just compounds his pain by making him feel stupid. Your job is to tell your friend to let go, move on, and realize that people make mistakes and mistakes are good for personal growth.

Your job is to make your friend feel better, you do not want to make your friend feel stupid by making him feel like he was played for 8 years (plus, that's just stupid anyway, see my earlier point). Sounds like two people who made a mistake, let it go, man.

Now, was she pretty, or not? Seriously?

lol we dont want input from a crazed lunatic...

but on a serious note: duh shes pretty, the ugly ones are actually treated normally and know a thing or two about respect and "reality"

 

[Wulfgar]

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[Wulfgar]

Answering questions
1: No they dont have kids. Thank God. Damage control will be minimal since it is really only the house and the Divorce fees(but he wont care since she is paying for them).
2: I dont think she set out for all 8 years to do this. What I do think happened was that she fantasized about what it would be like to be with other men. She was dishonest with her fiance and those fantasies and thoughts finally became action. She denied them so hard she figured if she cemented herself in marriage the "feelings" would go away. Unfortunaely it doesnt work that way and it only made them worse.
I beleive there are no mistakes. She was thinking with her pussy cause she was curious about sex(since they were each others first and only). Mistake? What happened she tripped and fell, landed with some guys cock in her? doubtful @ best.
3. In the long run I agree with you all that this will be the best for both of them. I am not demeaning her when I talk to him or anything. I am mearly there to be supportive as he goes through his stages of denial, dissillusionment, anger, fear, etc. He is a devout Christian so right now he is giving everything up to God. Holding onto the Hope that God will guide him in the right direction., I respect all beings paths so I dont interfere. I just encourage and give a safe space to.
4. He has decided to not allow the annulment and instead make her go through the full on divorce process. Since the judge will most likely order mandatory marriage counselinghe still feels there is hope for reconciliation.

 

[cboogsrun]

If I were her parents Id put a shotgun to her head and make her get counseling

but they SUPPORT HER!!!! wtf? they are doing her such a diservice treating her as this little fuckin princess and condoning this behavior.
unbelievable

treat em like dirt and they'll stick to you like mud. your buddy needs to learn how to be an asshole.

 

[pintoca]

lol @ using God to justify divorce... damn, that is a good one.

I thought God was against divorce, wait, that is the Church (who actually put words in God's mouth all the time).

I think she calls her lover "god"

 

[cranny]

lol @ using God to justify divorce... damn, that is a good one.

I thought God was against divorce, wait, that is the Church (who actually put words in God's mouth all the time).

I think she calls her lover "god"

LMAO! So true. I always wondered why God hasn't ever talked to me about important issues in life like this? Yeah, she was prob. screaming God's name while she was away on her trip.

 

[Smurfy]

hey let's turn this into a religion thread guys!

 

[manny78]

Girl is dumb for:

- having hallucinations about God

- marrying someone to fix their relationship (just like having a kid to save your marriage is dumb)

Guy was in some ways dumb for:

- not seeing this one coming...

 

[WhiteCastle]

Bottom line: Shit happens, Drive on.......and if you are in the military, drink water and do some pushups.

 

[Y_lifter]

So, since they were both Virgins, maybe he is Impotent(seriously), and she is
too embarrased to talk about that, and made up the other excuse.

Or maybe she isn't into sex herself now that she finally had it with a man.

^ serious commentary..

I just don't think she SUDDENLY found another man in the 2 weeks away from him.