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Garza

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I need to know. I have not had a girl in like 2 years...by choice. Anyways, my tip would be...Just be yourself and make them laugh. What are some other pointers you can offer?
 
be yourself, introduce handshake. Offer a drink. Just ask wuestions to better your knowldge about them. Not a hard thing at all. Dont be too agressive. Smile tons, it makes them feel less at ease
 
cheeta said:
be yourself, introduce handshake. Offer a drink. Just ask wuestions to better your knowldge about them. Not a hard thing at all. Dont be too agressive. Smile tons, it makes them feel less at ease

i get so hot when guys ask me wuestions :)
 
wear your zebra pants with the elastic waist,your otomix shoes,valeo lifting belt,burret,and a tooth floss tank top...walk up to her in a bar and hit your most musular pose..it gets them every time
 
macDbol said:

hows the weather like in canaduh?;)

don't mock us eh!!!

we've actually had a really miserable Canada day in Toronto, went from 35 degrees C (about 95F) yesterday to about 18 C today... rain off and on...very windy...

:cold:
 
I used to think there was some big trick to it, but all you have to do is go up to them and say hi. Ask her her name and go from there. Ask them questions about themselves. If there's one thing I've learned in this life it's that people love to talk about themselves (especially women). Of course, it doesn't hurt to be a well-dressed handsome stud like myself!!!
 
macDbol said:
wear your zebra pants with the elastic waist,your otomix shoes,valeo lifting belt,burret,and a tooth floss tank top...walk up to her in a bar and hit your most musular pose..it gets them every time

DO NOT forget the fanny pack.
 
Don't be afarid if you go upp to them and they don't
want to talk to you just say I just wanted to tell you
that you have a bogger hanging from your nose. And walk away. This way you don't lose face.
 
I don't know... actually I find it much more effective if you play the "nice guy" role. Even if they don't want to speak with you, just tell them that you found them attractive and wanted to buy them a drink, and that if they are interested in talking later tell them you'll be around. That way you leave the door open in case she was just putting up a front for her friends, or whatever.

Most girls won't turn you down in a harsh way, so don't be an ass to them. Sometimes they may even be attracted to you, but they don't want to appear that way or look easy in some way.
 
loutocool said:
Don't be afarid if you go upp to them and they don't
want to talk to you just say I just wanted to tell you
that you have a bogger hanging from your nose. And walk away. This way you don't lose face.
i like this idea, i may have to try it
 
OK guys, I work at a strip club and I've learned a lot about women !

Dress sharp. Stylish. Look like money(even if you don't have it). Take some hundees with you if you can but don't spend it. The idea is to let them know you have money and they will think they will be in on the action. Wrong !

Stand at the bar bullshitting w/friends for a while with your back toward the babes. Have some attitude. DON'T look like you're scoping.

Eventually turn around and scan the crowd. When you see the hot hoes, DON'T stare. If you make eye contact look away. Blow them off. They hate this. All women are attention hores. They'll think YOU'RE the shit, even if you're not. It's all about confidence, attitude, and perception.
Chances are one will make a move on you. When she does, act slightly interested and work from there. Don't spend any money on them. If they ask you to buy them a drink tell them you don't buy women drinks.

If you HAVE to inroduce yourself to a woman, chances are she'll be with friends and you'll have to introduce yourself to all of them and be accepted by all to have a chance.

Taking questions......
 
Cool mtime1, thanks. Sounds great. Of course I'm only 17 so i'll have to say something like "bitch, you better buy your own damn dr pepper!"
 
Mtime1 said:
OK guys, I work at a strip club and I've learned a lot about women !


that makes him an expert? dancers are usually not the most well adjusted females so i wouldn't really judge by that...
 
Phemomena said:


that makes him an expert? dancers are usually not the most well adjusted females so i wouldn't really judge by that...

okay, i take that back.. well partially... if you are working at a club where the girls respond to that type of attitude that you described then they probably have issues

seriously, women with a proper amount of self esteem and self respect will see through you in a minute... if you're looking for a insecure golddigger then you're on the right track...
 
All you gotta do is make eye contact. After that you'll know if they're interested in you. A little smile during eye contact, and they're your's! If they look away, fuck em, move on to the next best looking hoe!(sorry girls)

It ain't hard! Or maybe I'm just really good at it!

B-10
 
I agree Bulldog.

Phem, you're absolutely right about the women having "issues", and about the women who have self-respect seeing right through the "act".

My method is only to get me laid.
 
Getting chicks is not a hard thing to do! What do you think the girls are there for. They go to clubs, bars, etc..for the same reason as us. To get laid! They are just more secretive about it! They don't want to seem like sluts, we don't care about that shit!

Good Luck,
B-10
 
Mtime1 said:
I agree Bulldog.

Phem, you're absolutely right about the women having "issues", and about the women who have self-respect seeing right through the "act".

My method is only to get me laid.

at least you're honest :)
 
alptraum said:
A couple of you guys said "ask them questions", what kinda questions? Need some examples please! :)

Well, Im real excited because I think this thread has helped me learn alot about talking to girls.

I would say the questions you would ask are something like this:

1. "Babe I want to make you aware that I have an 8 inch cock. I can get women alot better looking than you, how does this make you feel? Do you like well hung guys?"

2. "Can you cook and suck cock?"

3. "Will you pleasure my friends?"

4. "Will you marry me? I'm rich."

5. "So have you ever dated a wigga before?"

Thanks guys! As you can tell i've gained alotta knowledge from this thread. I'm ready to go out and pick up chicks! Thanks so much!
:D ;) :fro:
 
Garza said:


Well, Im real excited because I think this thread has helped me learn alot about talking to girls.

I would say the questions you would ask are something like this:

1. "Babe I want to make you aware that I have an 8 inch cock. I can get women alot better looking than you, how does this make you feel? Do you like well hung guys?"

2. "Can you cook and suck cock?"

3. "Will you pleasure my friends?"

4. "Will you marry me? I'm rich."

5. "So have you ever dated a wigga before?"

Thanks guys! As you can tell i've gained alotta knowledge from this thread. I'm ready to go out and pick up chicks! Thanks so much!
:D ;) :fro:

yup, that did it for me... i'm hot and ready... :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

lol
 
Damn...I didn't know this shit was really gonna work!! Hey garza, you already got one chick under your belt, now move on to the next one!

LOL! PHEM!

B-10
 
This worked for me

I'm dating a great chick now that I met a club. She was my friend's girlfriend's friend so it helped that I had some level of "approval." I had met her before and knew she was cool. I talked with her for a while, being a really nice guy, then asked her if she was going to let me take her out sometime. She told me she was kind of talking to some guy.

At this point, I said fuck it, ignored her, and started partying and kissing these three chicks. I had almost forgot about her when my friend said "whatever you are doing, keep doing it, she is going nuts." Then she grabbed me and asked me how many girls I was going to kiss. To top it off, I asked her to wipe the lipstick off my face.

Moral of the story: Chicks love attention, and want what other girls want.

Now I'm dating her and she is absolutely fantastic. She is still worried about my hooking up with girls at clubs even though I would never imagine cheating her. Its cool though, it keeps her on her toes.
 
NCLifter.....great story. Like I said, women are attention hores. You're doing the right thing in letting her think there may be a chance you might dine elsewhere if she doesn't satisfy your appetite. (Even when you never would)
Good job man !
 
Here is the #1 tip....Always keep im mind that you are the shit. Every bitch you see is below you, no matter how hot she is. Its all about confidence. I basically know that there is no bitch that is worthy to be with a man of my caliber. Always keep that in mind with every thing you say or do... never sweat a hoe. They will come to you on all fours:supercool
 
Take some GHB!!! They dont call it EZ-lay for nuttin!

I cannot exactly remember next day what I discussed with her but what is important is that:

- i feel relaxt and approachable (therefore she will too)
- You communicate on much more non-verbal levels (females are experts at reading body signs) and they will recognize that your interest is not some fake act....

Be sure some sleezy motels nearby in the area you party. You got to forge the iron when its hot and if you got fish on the hook DONT TALK too much. Females can easily change their mind if you accidently say something insensitive or something that makes them see your handsome body/face really hides some rednex trailor trashing attitude

You know we don't really have much trailor communities here in europe (some gypsies perhaps). It wasnt until this board I ran across the word "white trailor trash" and i really love the mean sound of that word......
:D
 
V-shape you are absolutely right ! That's why sometimes you see a georgeous chick with as good looking as dirt. (either that or he's loaded $$$).

Never let a hoe let YOU go.
 
V-SHAPE said:
Here is the #1 tip....Always keep im mind that you are the shit. Every bitch you see is below you, no matter how hot she is. Its all about confidence. I basically know that there is no bitch that is worthy to be with a man of my caliber. Always keep that in mind with every thing you say or do... never sweat a hoe. They will come to you on all fours:supercool

LMAO... i want you even more than that other guy...

seriously though... attitudes like this will catch up to ya... don't you worry, you'll be a sad, lonely and bitter old man... so enjoy it while you "got it??"
 
bgdaddysmooth said:
I used to think there was some big trick to it, but all you have to do is go up to them and say hi. Ask her her name and go from there. Ask them questions about themselves. If there's one thing I've learned in this life it's that people love to talk about themselves (especially women). Of course, it doesn't hurt to be a well-dressed handsome stud like myself!!!

Yes, this is good advice.

I like it when a man is interested in me, not just my chest. My breast don't speak english.
 
ok it is spelled "ho" and "whore" but other than that good advice, a couple more things, hit on the really hot chicks cause they usually get ignored, or guys hit on them but kind of in a insulting way, like "fucking bitch is stuck up" seriously hot chicks have a hard time meeting quality guys.....uh and smile, because if you smile it will put you in a good mood, it works. Be kind of aggressive, and yeah not buying them drinks is good ,cause all the guys do that .....
 
Good stuff Fiatconspiracy...

It seems we are talking about two different things here too guys. I'm talking only about getting laid. Some are talking about getting a good woman for a long term relationship.

Why not first get laid. Then if you have more things in common and really dig each other maybe it will become a long term thing.

Sex, religion, money, and things in common. If one of these is lacking then it won't work long term.

Did I forget anything ?
 
Champs Lesson On Women (introduction)

Women like any primal animal are instinctually adept for their survival and the survival of their genes. Knowing their weakness's and what they are looking for is the key to success in any situation. The three most powerful aphrodesiacs(*mispelled) are looks, money, and power. If you can display all three, you will be a prime choice for a mate. Only personallity can distinguish between choices of mates. And evey style of Game has its ups and downs.

Confidence shows power, Money shows power and wealth, and looks show health.
 
Champ....you are absolutly right. And in the case of "looks", I think with most women, the more money and/or power you have, the less important the looks are. i.e. Just look at the rock stars, celebrities, and millionairs that are a 1 on a scale of 10 in the looks department but have women who register a 10 on their side.
 
To the guy talking about strippers.I've known too many.Best advice I can give to get a stripper?Play it cool,drink some beer.don't front any money.I don't know about the clothes when it comes to strippers.I've picked sum up whilst lookin like total ass.I think women dig that just got off work look cuz they know you have a JOB. If you are staring hard they know they can have you and you won't get em.If you give em money they see you as a mark.Look confident and relxaed,let them come talk to you?you got em. If your into coke and/or X then you can't get rid of em.at least until teh coke and x is gone

I've personally never picked up a quality woman froma club.If you meet her at a club its fun.Remember to keep it fun and NOT serious.Women at clubs have boyfreinds,husbands,girlfriends,kids,alcohol or drug problems.maybe they are just hooked on a party lifestyle.Any or all of the above in general.

Always try to hit a club with at least you and someone else.I mean hey bro a man needs backup.see 2 hotties?better have a freind for her freind.see one hottie and one dog?Betta have a good freind to take the hit for the team.Get caught up with the wrong woman?Better have someone to help you out(i.e. your sister called we gotta go.family emergency).

as for buying them a drink?don't do it.she can buy me a drink.Letting the women approach you?It may happen.dependin on amount of people in club,time of night etc.

Always smile alot and act assertive but non aggressive.Theres a difference.Drink a little,dance alot.even if you don't dance you dance now.Get out there and give it your best shot.maybe play pool with her.Lose gracefully and by a small amount.

Talking too much can spoil a good thing.That should cover it all.

Theres an old saying "you can't turn a ho into a housewife" remember that.
 
Some People THINK too much!

Look at my dog... when he smells a female dog wearing "that odour" he just runs straight to there without any hesitation and his tail goes back n forth in joyfull anticipation....

The female dog instantly knows he got the right "motivation" Now if she thinks he got some good complementary genes too, he can climb here.

Math class: 1+1=2 mmmkay?


Be sweet but come on strong! ...Oh and respect people that do not want you as much as you want them and vice versa. I am not crazy about every girl that swings my way, but I always give'm change to talk, sometimes you get to know somebody with PERSONALITY and looks become less important....
 
Easy enough. It's all in your head. Confidence does it. The difference between picking up and not is confidence.

Get a good buzz, alcohol+ephedrine is the best combo imo. Increases confidence.

If I am out to meet chicks, I like to go alone, or if you're with friends split up. Otherwise you'll just bunch together, which is not good.

It's weird, guys can't tell, but confidence is so evident to chicks, they can read it on you like nothing.

Also, no pickup lines under any circumstances. If you get eye contact with a chick, wave her over. This shows tremendous confidence and a little arrogance, they love that shit.
 
like krzy said, don't forget the fanny pack...ever. A few reasons why.
1. What if it's time to take a few orals, you don't want them to think you're irresponsible.
2. If you have convinced them to give up their digits, you can write it down on the back of a blister pack.
3. If they seem like they are gonna dis you but ask for some asprin or even x, you can give them some dbol or anadrol instead, at least .you;ll be laughing on the inside!
 
Just be yourself, if they dont like who you are, the next one will, and the best line i have ever found is " lets get outta this place and go somewhere we can be by ourselves " if they go, you got it, if they say no, look for another one, always remember the chicks are out to have fun and get laid just like you. and remember chicks, just like everyone else ....can see through a line of bull sh*t........dress sharp and be yourself To cool to fool...........:D
 
Harb!!
its nice to read a post from a guy can give us ladies a little bit of credit for being able to see through some bullshit. :D Listen up for all the guys who are saying that all you need to do is "act like your the shit" o.k. any women with half a brain can EASILY distinguish between a man who is "acting like he is the shit" and a man who really is the shit. Yes we want to get laid just as often as you men do but we don't want to waste our time with some jerk who is just "acting like he is the shit" we know that guy will just be acting like he knows who he is doing in bed too. Guys, don't "act" like anything it is true just BE YOUSELF if you are not "the shit" (and you guys who are not know it too) then don't try to be that way you just come across as an immature idiot. We do like nice guys and yes sometimes even if a guy is not that good looking his personality can make up for it a little if he is genuine, and funny.
If you are not all that good looking and don't have a good personality and still just want to get laid by a women that doesn't resemble large marge then yes make like you have A LOT of money go to the nearest strip bar where there are good looking girls who will fuck anyone and anything if she thinks she is going to get some money out of him. I used to bartend at a strip club so I know how these women are too, trust me this works.
 
Harb!!
its nice to read a post from a guy can give us ladies a little bit of credit for being able to see through some bullshit. :D Listen up for all the guys who are saying that all you need to do is "act like your the shit" o.k. any women with half a brain can EASILY distinguish between a man who is "acting like he is the shit" and a man who really is the shit. Yes we want to get laid just as often as you men do but we don't want to waste our time with some jerk who is just "acting like he is the shit" we know that guy will just be acting like he knows who he is doing in bed too. Guys, don't "act" like anything it is true just BE YOUSELF if you are not "the shit" (and you guys who are not know it too) then don't try to be that way you just come across as an immature idiot. We do like nice guys and yes sometimes even if a guy is not that good looking his personality can make up for it a little if he is genuine, and funny.
If you are not all that good looking and don't have a good personality and still just want to get laid by a women that doesn't resemble large marge then yes make like you have A LOT of money go to the nearest strip bar where there are good looking girls who will fuck anyone and anything if she thinks she is going to get some money out of him. I used to bartend at a strip club so I know how these women are too, trust me this works.
 
Confidence worked for me.. I met my girlfriend at a dance club.. she was dancing and I went next to her and started dancing with her, then started talking to her.. I dont remember exactly what we talked about but I remember just asking questions to keep the conversation going, eventually she was asking the questions..

Heres 2 good lines:
"Lets go back to my place and do the things Ill tell everyone we did anyway."

Look at your watch. "According to my magic watch you aren't wearing any underwear."Then she tells you, "but Im wearing underwear" so you say, "Oh, sorry, it must be a few hours early..

lol..

I think confidence and having an edge (like the fact that you are different than all of the other pussy hungry guys that are trying to pick them up.) are what is important in picking up a woman..
 
Mtime1 said:
Champ....you are absolutly right. And in the case of "looks", I think with most women, the more money and/or power you have, the less important the looks are. i.e. Just look at the rock stars, celebrities, and millionairs that are a 1 on a scale of 10 in the looks department but have women who register a 10 on their side.


No shit! just look at mick jagger , hes fucking ugly or the singer from aerosmith but mick jagger has a super model wife and aerosmith had a child with a playboy playmate.


But women are alot less individualist than man , so if all their friends do it they will do it and if all the girls think guy X is hot she will want him to
 
take some Inositol in the morning. This shit keeps you looking relaxed and whenever you go up and talk to a girl...you come off as cool, calm, relaxed and in control. Oh yea and most importantly , you come off as confident. That gets the chicks wet more than anything else. Remeber that always fellas: ITS ALL ABOUT CONFIDENCE!
 
FIRST FIND SOMETHING YOU CAN COMPLIMENT THEM ON. INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND THEN COMPLIMENT THEM. AFTER THEY'VE HEARD A GOOD COMPLIMENT(MAKE SURE ITS NOT A TOTAL LIE), THEY'RE WILLING TO AT LEAST TELL YOU THEIR NAME. oF COURSE DONT TELL THEM NICE FEET BECAUSE YOU JUST TOLD THEM THEIR FEET ARE MUCH NICER THAN THEIR FACE. SOMETIMES STUPID PICK UP LINES WORK, SUCH AS, I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU YOU'RE GOING TO MARRY ME, JUST WaNTED TO TELL YOU'RE THE PRETTIEST WOMAN IN THE ROOM. THESE MIGHT SEEM STUPID BUT IT ALWAYS DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION AND WOMAN. BE CONFIDENT BUT NOT COCKY. ONLY HAVE IN MIND THAT THIS WOMAN WANTS YOU BUT ISN'T SHOWING IT. WHAT YOU MIGHT WANT TO DO B4 APPROACHING HER IS JUST GLANCING @ HER TO SEE IF SHE'S AT LEAST A LITTLE INTERESTED. IF SHE SEEMS ALITTLE INTERESTED AND YOU'RE INTIMIDATED BY HER LOOKS, THEN ITS GOING TO BE YOUR PERSONALITY YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PUT TO WORK. OH AND REMEMBER LIKE THE GUY THAT WORKS IN THE STRIP JOINT SAID...MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU GOT MONEY. WOMEN THINK IT WILL BE THEIRS. EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE ALL YOUR SAVINGS WITH YOU, CARRY A LOT OF MONEY WITH YOU AND CARRY IT IN STACKED IN YOUR POCKET AND TAKE IT ALL OUT WHEN YOU PAY FOR SOMETHING. PEACE.
 
Austin Power's Lines

1. (Lick Finger), touch her shirt, hey baby, why don't we get out of these wet clothes

2. I'd like to see your face when you see me naked.

3. (Grab Tit), Oh, I'm sorry, I thought that was a brail name tag
 
bigwillster said:
FIRST FIND SOMETHING YOU CAN COMPLIMENT THEM ON. INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND THEN COMPLIMENT THEM. AFTER THEY'VE HEARD A GOOD COMPLIMENT(MAKE SURE ITS NOT A TOTAL LIE), THEY'RE WILLING TO AT LEAST TELL YOU THEIR NAME. oF COURSE DONT TELL THEM NICE FEET BECAUSE YOU JUST TOLD THEM THEIR FEET ARE MUCH NICER THAN THEIR FACE. SOMETIMES STUPID PICK UP LINES WORK, SUCH AS, I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU YOU'RE GOING TO MARRY ME, JUST WaNTED TO TELL YOU'RE THE PRETTIEST WOMAN IN THE ROOM. THESE MIGHT SEEM STUPID BUT IT ALWAYS DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION AND WOMAN. BE CONFIDENT BUT NOT COCKY. ONLY HAVE IN MIND THAT THIS WOMAN WANTS YOU BUT ISN'T SHOWING IT. WHAT YOU MIGHT WANT TO DO B4 APPROACHING HER IS JUST GLANCING @ HER TO SEE IF SHE'S AT LEAST A LITTLE INTERESTED. IF SHE SEEMS ALITTLE INTERESTED AND YOU'RE INTIMIDATED BY HER LOOKS, THEN ITS GOING TO BE YOUR PERSONALITY YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PUT TO WORK. OH AND REMEMBER LIKE THE GUY THAT WORKS IN THE STRIP JOINT SAID...MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU GOT MONEY. WOMEN THINK IT WILL BE THEIRS. EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE ALL YOUR SAVINGS WITH YOU, CARRY A LOT OF MONEY WITH YOU AND CARRY IT IN STACKED IN YOUR POCKET AND TAKE IT ALL OUT WHEN YOU PAY FOR SOMETHING. PEACE.
Why cant girls chase guys, they need most test! I dont approach girls, if a girl like me, she can come up to me. I'm done with chasing. Fuck, I'm married too! ;)
 
macDbol said:
wear your zebra pants with the elastic waist,your otomix shoes,valeo lifting belt,burret,and a tooth floss tank top...walk up to her in a bar and hit your most musular pose..it gets them every time

holy shit i just laughed into the phone. fantastic.
 
MaGilicuti said:
talking to girls is too hard for me, i just grab their asses in the club and run

Darling,

Definitely try one of George's e-guides: Elite Player's Guide to Getting Laid or The Ugly Man's Guide To Picking Up Beautiful Women. The names tickle me, but I have seen the content and there are actually very good strategies in them -- for boys and girls!

I am sure you are lovely, though, Darling, not ugly. It was just a suggestions to try to help out.
 
Mtime1 said:
OK guys, I work at a strip club and I've learned a lot about women !

Dress sharp. Stylish. Look like money(even if you don't have it). Take some hundees with you if you can but don't spend it. The idea is to let them know you have money and they will think they will be in on the action. Wrong !

Stand at the bar bullshitting w/friends for a while with your back toward the babes. Have some attitude. DON'T look like you're scoping.

Eventually turn around and scan the crowd. When you see the hot hoes, DON'T stare. If you make eye contact look away. Blow them off. They hate this. All women are attention hores. They'll think YOU'RE the shit, even if you're not. It's all about confidence, attitude, and perception.
Chances are one will make a move on you. When she does, act slightly interested and work from there. Don't spend any money on them. If they ask you to buy them a drink tell them you don't buy women drinks.

If you HAVE to inroduce yourself to a woman, chances are she'll be with friends and you'll have to introduce yourself to all of them and be accepted by all to have a chance.

Taking questions......





Dont listen to this guy!!! Sh should not have to ask you to but her a drink! You should offer and not be so tight! HAlf the time she is already going to have to drinks anyways. And cannot old another. If she is hot. Just play the nice guy and dont act like all you want to do is fuck. Unless she is all over you like she wants to and that is what you want. There is nothing wrong with just talking to a girl if you find her interesting. Being stuck up is so unnatractive Acting to good. Pretty girls like nice boys. Not assholes. Be yourself and be happy!!
 
if your looking for a relationship or what i read what someone said above about getting laid then if you like the person turn it into something else. well if she has sex with you on the first night you meet her just think about all the other people she has done that with too if your looking for gf material. honestly if you want to get some thats fine have fun but i'd say dont mix getting laid and turning it into something serious. I find it funny when a friend will meet some girl who has sex with him the first night then ends up cheating on him or just is a crazy drama queen.
 
i haven't seen this one yet..

pick out only a select few girls in the club/bar/wherever. If girls see you talking to every single girl in the bar, this may make you seem desperate. So choose wisely.

Also, for me at least, sometimes its on. sometimes its not. I have gotten girls when that was the last thing i was thinking about. So i would say just relax, and have a good time, thats what your out there to do isn't it? Don't worry if you don't get a girl, or you are in a drought. Eventually, nature has a way of working it self out.
 
I'll just flick over a few pointers, cos your all competition lol!

1. Eye contact is incrediably important, its like touching the girl from across a room, you can confirm interest, you can let her know that you like her, it makes her notice you, and if you do it right it increases your chances.

Okay so you make eye contact, if she holds it for about three seconds there is a very good chance that she likes you, what you do now sets you apart from the rest, wink or wave, smile, stick your tongue out anything you like - be cheeky with it. Never hold eye contact for longer then 3 seconds without doing something, cos she'll think your weird.

2. Touching is also very important. Touch her, on her arm or shoulder at first... then when you are comfortable with each other move to her hip, lower back, hand, use your imagination guys.

Do this with saying something cheeky, or after making a joke, make eye contact smile, be nice generally... the most important thing is that it is natural, if you are feeling unconfident, nervous, this will show. Don't look where your touching her it has to be natural. So for example, make a joke or be cheeky or tease her, make eye contact laugh touch her arm, just like that.

3. As for conversation, generally think of openers to three or four other questions, I have three that I always use.

a. Who are you with? - Leads onto how she met her friends, onto work, onto holidays etc.

b. What do you do for fun? - Cheeky smile and a wink... she knows that you are refering to something to do with sex, but its not what you asked, you asked about sports or chess right? ;)

c. Do you come here often? - Yeah I know its a line, but use it a few minutes in after you have shown you can hold a conversation without lines. This leads onto what she thinks of the club, where else she has been etc...

Good luck, your on your own now guys.
 
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