i am 28 she is 26,we both have children i have a 5yr old girl she has a 5 yr old boy,actually she had the pills but had to wait untill the end of her menstral cycle to start taking them,but it was to late.she started having really bad cramps and went to the e.r and when they asked her if there was a chance she was pregnant she said no because i was on steroids,well they laughed and when they did blood work she tested positive for pregnancy.with both of us thinking there was no way she was pregnant we had been partying on weekends,drinking,smoking a little pot,and a few pain pills here and there.why take a chance on giving birth to a baby that could have birth defects.to me there would be more guilt trying to bring a child with defects into this world than having an abortion.that may sound selfish to some but i have a friend my age that is going through that shit right now,not knowing from one day to the next wether or not his child is going to live.thats guilt i would rather not have to live with.sure there is the chance it would be fine but thats not a chance we are willing to take.