in your case I don't think this was the issue, I just think you should of explained to her about AAS use and that there are a dozen myths out there (like it shrinks your penis, or it gives you roid rage, or it can kill you)... maybe you should of introduced her to it gradually?? or maybe showed her beastdrol which was (or is depending on the new law) legal. maybe tell her doctors prescribe testosterone to people who are low, or that they prescribe other AAS for other ailments. educate her more instead of just putting it on her plate so fast.
I tried that. She proposed the hypo of her telling me she was going to do coke everyday to stay skinny, and I told her it's not the same. I'm planning to do a calculated cycle that will end, and steroids are prescribed by doctors for various things and is only illegal if not prescribed, like all prescription drugs. Coke is illegal no matter what.
I think you're right that I put it on her plate to fast and said I'm doing this, instead of talking to her about it slowly, but the thing is I knew she was against it and no matter how slow I did it, she would say no and if you do it, we're done.