the first part was just me BS'ning with SD, the advuice was posted before that. sorry you missed it.
your correct in the age thing, but she also wrote that she was "scared" (I don't have the text in front of me) everytything that she wrote lended it's self to the fact that she was unsure, etc. If that the case, she needs to wait. I said an arbitrary 10 years, could be more-could be less, but never-the-less imo she needs to wait.
Being married does not limit having fun and seeing things? really You MUST make a really decent amount of money and/or we're not on the same plane of what "fun" or "seeing things" is. Also, another crux of her post was "family", we would HAVE to agree that having kids changes evertything. Money, time, none of it comes easy anymore.