getting married in 2011? maybe?

[crew9]

what happened? well besides the obvious ex part.lol

Long story made short.....We were together for 6 years. Shared all the same likes/dislikes. Were there for each other through a lot of good and bad times, on paper she is my perfect girl. Despite all of that I still had this doubt in the back of my mind. It only really showed itself when I thought about marriage or getting engaged. In six years I never went engagement ring shopping/looking. It's normal to have concerns and doubts about getting engaged but I think those should be easily outweighed by the excitement of getting to spend the rest of your life with that person. I didn't feel that for her. As much as I love her I didn't know if I was in love with her. After 6 years that is something I should have already known. So I broke up with her so we could both find that.

 

[*ebony*]

Long story made short.....We were together for 6 years. Shared all the same likes/dislikes. Were there for each other through a lot of good and bad times, on paper she is my perfect girl. Despite all of that I still had this doubt in the back of my mind. It only really showed itself when I thought about marriage or getting engaged. In six years I never went engagement ring shopping/looking. It's normal to have concerns and doubts about getting engaged but I think those should be easily outweighed by the excitement of getting to spend the rest of your life with that person. I didn't feel that for her. As much as I love her I didn't know if I was in love with her. After 6 years that is something I should have already known. So I broke up with her so we could both find that.

yea...i understand.

do you regret your decision?

 

[redshirt27se]

I want to dump a baby (sons only) in a chick at some point, but it's not any time soon. Not before I'm 30 at least..maybe 35.

 

[*ebony*]

I want to dump a baby (sons only) in a chick at some point, but it's not any time soon. Not before I'm 30 at least..maybe 35.

1-so elequently said.
2-whats wrong with girls?
3-Dont jinx yourself! I know a guy who was so set on only sons, had it all planned out. wifely was on special diet, they worked with their doc, and tried all kinds of techniques and methods. they have two kids and his wife just gave birth to their third daughter.lol

 

[crew9]

yea...i understand.

do you regret your decision?

Still have some up and downs with the situation but no.