getting married in 2011? maybe?

[cindylou]

They kinda do, rob

THANK YOU for admitting that! Everyone lies

 

[IrightI]

yes, i love him. he's become so ingrained into my life, that its hard to imagine my life without him. he's always there for me and he makes me feel like im the best thing thats ever happened to him, beautiful, wanted and needed. im happy when im with him, is that not love?

imagine marrying him, why yes sure i can and like i said, i don't know what i'd do with huge junks of my free time if he wasn't around because he's such a big part of my life.

loyal to him? as in cheating? I don't cheat. I would end it first. thing is i wish the sex was better, its okay, but nothing amazing. maybe it does get better with age?

at 24, your not the same person that you will be in a few more years, ( I'm going to paint with BROAD strokes, so NannyG indulge me, please, and know that this isn't advise to everyone, K.... huggs) amd neither is he. If you think that he's "the one", there's nothing wrong with living together for a few more years just to see where the relationship takes you. I noticed that you wrote that he makes you feel like YOUR the best thing that has ever happened to HIM, what about your feelings though. If he doesn't give you the "warm fuzzies/tinglies" when your together, I'd be paying attention to that. If you find that your eyes wander more often than you'ld like to admit, that's another thing that I would think about.
The sex, if it's ability, technique, sponteneity, types he won't try ie. oral/anal, you can deal with that by being just comming out and telling him. I NEED you to touch me like this and whene we do this, try and do this. When you are making love, when he does something that you really like, tell him " Oh Baby, I LOVE that" or "yes, just like that, it's drives me wild", he'll get the message loud and clear. It's positive reinforcement Ebs. If it's something physical, that's a little harder to deal with, he's too small/ large, your gonna have to get creative and work with what you have. Creativity is a GREAT thing and needs to be practiced throught the relationaship/marrage. I love steak, but I don't want it every meal. You've heard it before, "Variety is the spice of life", it's gonna be up to you to make the efforts, if he's got any sense, he'll catch on and start doing things for himself after that.

Please go back and read my original post early in your thread, I may have put some tongue-in-cheek stuff, but most of it was me being "for real".

 

[iggy]

at 24, your not the same person that you will be in a few more years, ( I'm going to paint with BROAD strokes, so NannyG indulge me, please, and know that this isn't advise to everyone, K.... huggs) amd neither is he. If you think that he's "the one", there's nothing wrong with living together for a few more years just to see where the relationship takes you. I noticed that you wrote that he makes you feel like YOUR the best thing that has ever happened to HIM, what about your feelings though. If he doesn't give you the "warm fuzzies/tinglies" when your together, I'd be paying attention to that. If you find that your eyes wander more often than you'ld like to admit, that's another thing that I would think about.
The sex, if it's ability, technique, sponteneity, types he won't try ie. oral/anal, you can deal with that by being just comming out and telling him. I NEED you to touch me like this and whene we do this, try and do this. When you are making love, when he does something that you really like, tell him " Oh Baby, I LOVE that" or "yes, just like that, it's drives me wild", he'll get the message loud and clear. It's positive reinforcement Ebs. If it's something physical, that's a little harder to deal with, he's too small/ large, your gonna have to get creative and work with what you have. Creativity is a GREAT thing and needs to be practiced throught the relationaship/marrage. I love steak, but I don't want it every meal. You've heard it before, "Variety is the spice of life", it's gonna be up to you to make the efforts, if he's got any sense, he'll catch on and start doing things for himself after that.

Please go back and read my original post early in your thread, I may have put some tongue-in-cheek stuff, but most of it was me being "for real".

this bro speaks the truth

 

[puddlemonkey]

They kinda do, rob

In general, women lie more than men. Padded bras, makeup, their whole damn existence is based upon lies. It's all they know.

 

[-SD-]

Women misrepresent, men lie.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Women misrepresent

aka - lie

 

[nangiggles]

at 24, your not the same person that you will be in a few more years, ( I'm going to paint with BROAD strokes, so NannyG indulge me, please, and know that this isn't advise to everyone, K.... huggs) amd neither is he. If you think that he's "the one", there's nothing wrong with living together for a few more years just to see where the relationship takes you. I noticed that you wrote that he makes you feel like YOUR the best thing that has ever happened to HIM, what about your feelings though. If he doesn't give you the "warm fuzzies/tinglies" when your together, I'd be paying attention to that. If you find that your eyes wander more often than you'ld like to admit, that's another thing that I would think about.
The sex, if it's ability, technique, sponteneity, types he won't try ie. oral/anal, you can deal with that by being just comming out and telling him. I NEED you to touch me like this and whene we do this, try and do this. When you are making love, when he does something that you really like, tell him " Oh Baby, I LOVE that" or "yes, just like that, it's drives me wild", he'll get the message loud and clear. It's positive reinforcement Ebs. If it's something physical, that's a little harder to deal with, he's too small/ large, your gonna have to get creative and work with what you have. Creativity is a GREAT thing and needs to be practiced throught the relationaship/marrage. I love steak, but I don't want it every meal. You've heard it before, "Variety is the spice of life", it's gonna be up to you to make the efforts, if he's got any sense, he'll catch on and start doing things for himself after that.

Please go back and read my original post early in your thread, I may have put some tongue-in-cheek stuff, but most of it was me being "for real".

See now you are spot on!

I must say I also noticed what Ebony wrote... how pretty much he does everything right for her.... but that doesnt mean you love him, honestly Ebony you really didnt mention a nice thing about him, just about him towards you.... of course I understand it's a post and not dissertation

if the sex is bad due to attraction then that kinda thing rarely improved, if it's technique or intensity that can be worked on....

 

[trex74]

yes, i love him. he's become so ingrained into my life, that its hard to imagine my life without him. he's always there for me and he makes me feel like im the best thing thats ever happened to him, beautiful, wanted and needed. im happy when im with him, is that not love?

imagine marrying him, why yes sure i can and like i said, i don't know what i'd do with huge junks of my free time if he wasn't around because he's such a big part of my life.

loyal to him? as in cheating? I don't cheat. I would end it first. thing is i wish the sex was better, its okay, but nothing amazing. maybe it does get better with age?

Its great you're happy with him, i'm sure you'll make the right decision. My grandmother gave me some advice that her father gave her- marry the man who loves you a little more than you love him.

 

[cindylou]

Its great you're happy with him, i'm sure you'll make the right decision. My grandmother gave me some advice that her father gave her- marry the man who loves you a little more than you love him.

that is great advice

 

[-SD-]

Its great you're happy with him, i'm sure you'll make the right decision. My grandmother gave me some advice that her father gave her- marry the man who loves you a little more than you love him.

What if the man got the same advice lol