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Friend having SWV problems, hellp.

string_bean00

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My friend is having girl problems. he started dating this girl a year ago and she used to be all over him and always go out of her way to impress him...but that never really lasts and it died down and things were still awsome and everyone thought they would last forever and always said it and and they were crazy about eachother.

he said she went through a phase where she started being a bitch to him but hes no chump so he called her out on it and she started to get better.

the thing about her is she gave up all her friends pretty much for him(partially cause she wanted to be with him in her free time and partially cause her friends were bad influences and generally sketchy people) and always wanted to spend every second on the weekends with him, and then he went to college and she was still in HS but he would come home almost every weekened to see her. she started to get depressed about it and would alwas be unhappy and jealous of him doing shit cause she would always just be waiting around for him.

she finally made new friends and started going out more and not being as depressed so things were good. she and her friend started to hang out with the same sketchy kids as before though but she said that they apparently got their acts together and shit.

things were still good but she started not calling him as much saying it was cause of homework and hes been back from college since last tuesday and shes only seen him twice so far, but seen her friends alot more. she normally bitches that he doesnt see her enough and now that hes finallyh home shes not taking the steps to want to see him.

he confrotned her about it but she says its that she loves him and wants to see him but has these new friends now and feels she has to please everyone and is scared to lose her friends and be depressed again when having to wait for him at college. - ps her friend is a manipulative bitch and is an asshole to his gf if she doesnt hang out with her and stuff

his gf isnt even hanging out with him on new years cause she said she told her friends shed hang out with them. he said she acted apologetically, but i think thats a big alarm there...

he said shes just not acting like she cares as much as she used to and hes worried if its not worth it or if her distancing herself is cause shes losing feelings or if she really feels torn between him and her friends.



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guy loves girl been with her for a year
shes starting to not want to see him as much
she isnt going to spend new years with him
he wants to know what is going on
 
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LOL @ "My Friend"

But besides who this person is....

The girl is cheating... and not in an EF way... she is, no doubt. She has withdrawn from the relationship... and is either to affraid to tell him because it may hurt him, or she doesn't want to let go of him just yet.

That's the way girls do it broley, they step carefully - set something up new and stable and start dogging out the old dood. Sounds like she may have had alot of security issues and ended up finding some security in someone else, and found it to be less stressfull - i.e. he is always there, she can keep an eye on him and therefore doesn't have to to worry about him cheating on her.

I say you simply call her out, and dump her.
 
sounds like she's checked out mentally.

Lay down some terms.

She's cheating on you strange_bang
 
oh yeah, and the distance thing?

Fuck that, it never works dude. If you're away in college you should be having fun with chicks that live 10 minutes away from you.
 
She's too young. She's scared of having to go thru the same situation waiting on him. Distance relationships don't work. Lots of insecurity issues - "presence" is 80% of a relationship. And she's young. Oh yea and she's female.
 
Well even if she's not cheating on you she is obviously interested in somebody else - Be it her friends or another guy. Her friends should never be anywhere as important as you if she really likes you. Dumper.
 
apparently she's become emotionally detached in some way... Distance can and will do this to people. From what you said, seems like she isn't quite ready to let go but isn't ready to move forward, (imo due to her being a bit immature and still in highschool) He needs to (gosh I can't believe I am saying this... lol ) ignore her, go out have a good time, spend time with old friends etc. The more this guy begs for her attention the more he elevates her on this make believe pedestal that boosts her ego and makes her feel that 'he needs her' ! Believe me, if he switches the script, doesn't answer the phone when she calls everytime, doesn't show a bother when she's not around or can't be around... she will come crawling back. Women love attention, (thats nothing foreign) and when they don't get it they completely change their whole attitude.
 
I disagree with the advice being given in this thread.

I say pull a pre-emptive strike and start seeing other girls. Once you find one you like distance yourself from this girl and only use her for sex. Also start making her pay for things such as your meals and dates.

Not only do you get a free ride with sex, but eventually she will get pissed and dump you thus keeping you from having to do it. You won't care however because you will have the other women lined up that you've been seeing behind her back.

Heck, basically you are only doing what females love doing to the guy, only you beat her to the punch.
 
alien amp pharm said:
I disagree with the advice being given in this thread.

I say pull a pre-emptive strike and start seeing other girls. Once you find one you like distance yourself from this girl and only use her for sex. Also start making her pay for things such as your meals and dates.

Not only do you get a free ride with sex, but eventually she will get pissed and dump you thus keeping you from having to do it. You won't care however because you will have the other women lined up that you've been seeing behind her back.

Heck, basically you are only doing what females love doing to the guy, only you beat her to the punch.
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This is how my life is lived from now on...
 
you guys are so hard core...


LOL
 
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alien amp pharm said:
Hush that trap and bring me and JH1 another beer, woman.

*slaps frisky on ass*
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you wouldn't have the balls to slap me on the ass... bwhahahahaha

now, shush and bring me and JH1 a damn beer and a sammich bitch.
 
alien amp pharm said:
why buy one when we got frisky and gymgurl giving it up freely?
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sad sad thing is... we aren't giving it up to you... don't hate bitch...

where is my sammich?
 
alien amp pharm said:
I disagree with the advice being given in this thread.

I say pull a pre-emptive strike and start seeing other girls. Once you find one you like distance yourself from this girl and only use her for sex. Also start making her pay for things such as your meals and dates.

Not only do you get a free ride with sex, but eventually she will get pissed and dump you thus keeping you from having to do it. You won't care however because you will have the other women lined up that you've been seeing behind her back.

Heck, basically you are only doing what females love doing to the guy, only you beat her to the punch.
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pussy,a real man would hit her with a truck,thats why you aint getting no ass. gotta make an example,then the rest of them will see your definately the alpha male,not b male betty and then you get the pussy.
 
theoak01 said:
pussy,a real man would hit her with a truck,thats why you aint getting no ass. gotta make an example,then the rest of them will see your definately the alpha male,not b male betty and then you get the pussy.
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LMAO!

Girls dig guys that run other bitches over with vehicles?
 
string_bean00 said:
=====evensteve notes---=
guy loves girl been with her for a year
shes starting to not want to see him as much
she isnt going to spend new years with him
he wants to know what is going on
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answer: teenager.

tell him to move on.
 
JH1 said:
What's the cutoff age, cause this is pretty much the same type of nonsense I experience with 22 y/o's....
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22 yr olds as well. honestly, and based on my experience and the experience of people I know, young relatinships do not last. anyone who is in high school or college is just not in a position to know who they want to spend the rest of their lives with ("they'll last forever" blah blah). if something is going on in a young relationship that is displeasing to one or the other, then move on. how many of us have taken these relationships too seriously, expected too much, let our emotions take over (and our nono spots), and been left with a WTF look on our faces?

the reality is, very few people in general are capable or interested in monogomous and lasting relationships. the younger you are, the less capable and interested you will be, whether you realize it or not. it/s like the cards are stacked against you because you havent even started living life as an adult yet, so how can you expect to have a fulfilling and successful long term relationship.

the most discouraging fact is that the majority of people never quite grow up on an emotional level.
 
Honestly, If I could go back (and I was exceptionally immature and clueless in high school and college) I would not take any relationship I had seriously back then. That goes for friends, lovers, fuck buddies, etc. Your perception totally changes (hoprefully) and what you think will last forever - simply does not.

Dont get tied down with emotional baggage at such a young age. You're waasting your energies.
 
you should probably quit school and come back home to hang out with this female full-time.

if she seems at all unhappy with your decision, don't worry, it's just her love for you which is overwhelming her.

also, try to complicate things as much as you can. for example, if she's doing something you don't like, try not to use a simple approach like "communication." that's right, don't tell her you're unhappy about something. way too basic, my man. instead, let it ride for a while...just brood over it. get pissed off. tell others...hell, tell EVERYONE. but not the girl.

find a reason not to take the straightforward approach.
 
Sounds like the typical highschool relationship.

Zero logic

Extreme sensitivity

Emotions running amuck (sp?)

Tell him to do what I did in highschool when I had girl troubles - throw on a tape of Bryan Adams' "Everything I Do", lock yourself in the basement, have a good 4-hour cry, get in your car, smoke a blunt, drink an OE, swing by the neighborhood fuckpig's house and autoerotic asphyxiate her until her cries/screams/wails outweigh yours.

Rinse, repeat.
 
KillahBee said:
Sounds like the typical highschool relationship.

Zero logic

Extreme sensitivity

Emotions running amuck (sp?)

Tell him to do what I did in highschool when I had girl troubles - throw on a tape of Bryan Adams' "Everything I Do", lock yourself in the basement, have a good 4-hour cry, get in your car, smoke a blunt, drink an OE, swing by the neighborhood fuckpig's house and autoerotic asphyxiate her until her cries/screams/wails outweigh yours.

Rinse, repeat.
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LOLOLOLLOLOOLOLlolol
 
UA_Iron said:
oh yeah, and the distance thing?

Fuck that, it never works dude. If you're away in college you should be having fun with chicks that live 10 minutes away from you.
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+1. Long distance at that age is just a waste of time. WTF is SWV?
 
she is cheating. protect your self and try and get ahead of the game by finding someone else. makes the hurt a little eaiser. trust this from my experience
 
KillahBee said:
fuck 33 I meant!!
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I admired everything in there besides the four hour cry.


Four hours? Fuck man


But you are fucked up. I like that.


on a sidenote, when there is a fuckpig there is often the clueless guy who dates said fuckpig for a bit before he realizes. He's funny.
 
string_bean00 said:
on a sidenote, when there is a fuckpig there is often the clueless guy who dates said fuckpig for a bit before he realizes. He's funny.
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advice I gave my (clueless) friend when he fell for a fuckpig in college - "you DO NOT marry the class whore"
 
string_bean00 said:
ive dated the fuckpig before, and all the pieces came together in my mind at the same time


i was just like "oh...."
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LOL... I did too... she was a hawt fuckpig, and I didn't realize it until after we broke up...

This was way after highschool and college though.. she was the coke fuckpig of STL..
 
JH1 said:
LOL... I did too... she was a hawt fuckpig, and I didn't realize it until after we broke up...

This was way after highschool and college though.. she was the coke fuckpig of STL..
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that'd be cool, I'd do A2M on her and throw some donkey punches.
 
JH1 said:
She was the one that was blowing me in the avatar picture that got me banned..
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awesome.

You do anything sexually deviant to her?
 
UA_Iron said:
awesome.

You do anything sexually deviant to her?
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Besides getting down with other girls, which was my wife's gig, she and I did anything, everything, and everywhere.... it was disgusting.

In fact... about 2 months ago one of my best buds reminded me of the time we had this huge group of people at a local winery... she drug me down into the woods and we furked our drunken brains out on the railroad tracks... the funny part is that as we walked back, everyone was cheering and hooting and hollaring... I can't think of a more disgusting public display.

Well... other than the time she blew me, both of us buck naked at 9am on a Tuesday morning... down town St.Louis... on the 23 floor of some high rise hotel... buildings all around us... right in front of the window. The front desk called and left a message for us to return their phone call ASAP, but we never did... we simply packed up our shit and left.

I can go on... and on... and that's just the public shit she loved to pull.....
 
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