Friend having SWV problems, hellp.

[string_bean00]

My friend is having girl problems. he started dating this girl a year ago and she used to be all over him and always go out of her way to impress him...but that never really lasts and it died down and things were still awsome and everyone thought they would last forever and always said it and and they were crazy about eachother.

he said she went through a phase where she started being a bitch to him but hes no chump so he called her out on it and she started to get better.

the thing about her is she gave up all her friends pretty much for him(partially cause she wanted to be with him in her free time and partially cause her friends were bad influences and generally sketchy people) and always wanted to spend every second on the weekends with him, and then he went to college and she was still in HS but he would come home almost every weekened to see her. she started to get depressed about it and would alwas be unhappy and jealous of him doing shit cause she would always just be waiting around for him.

she finally made new friends and started going out more and not being as depressed so things were good. she and her friend started to hang out with the same sketchy kids as before though but she said that they apparently got their acts together and shit.

things were still good but she started not calling him as much saying it was cause of homework and hes been back from college since last tuesday and shes only seen him twice so far, but seen her friends alot more. she normally bitches that he doesnt see her enough and now that hes finallyh home shes not taking the steps to want to see him.

he confrotned her about it but she says its that she loves him and wants to see him but has these new friends now and feels she has to please everyone and is scared to lose her friends and be depressed again when having to wait for him at college. - ps her friend is a manipulative bitch and is an asshole to his gf if she doesnt hang out with her and stuff

his gf isnt even hanging out with him on new years cause she said she told her friends shed hang out with them. he said she acted apologetically, but i think thats a big alarm there...

he said shes just not acting like she cares as much as she used to and hes worried if its not worth it or if her distancing herself is cause shes losing feelings or if she really feels torn between him and her friends.



=====evensteve notes---=
guy loves girl been with her for a year
shes starting to not want to see him as much
she isnt going to spend new years with him
he wants to know what is going on

 

[jh1]

LOL @ "My Friend"

But besides who this person is....

The girl is cheating... and not in an EF way... she is, no doubt. She has withdrawn from the relationship... and is either to affraid to tell him because it may hurt him, or she doesn't want to let go of him just yet.

That's the way girls do it broley, they step carefully - set something up new and stable and start dogging out the old dood. Sounds like she may have had alot of security issues and ended up finding some security in someone else, and found it to be less stressfull - i.e. he is always there, she can keep an eye on him and therefore doesn't have to to worry about him cheating on her.

I say you simply call her out, and dump her.

 

[UA_Iron]

sounds like she's checked out mentally.

Lay down some terms.

She's cheating on you strange_bang

 

[UA_Iron]

oh yeah, and the distance thing?

Fuck that, it never works dude. If you're away in college you should be having fun with chicks that live 10 minutes away from you.

 

[Sub-Zero]

i call BS

theres no way u have friends

 

[string_bean00]

gentle bump

 

[theoak01]

run her over with a truck for being a cheating whore

 

[Fender69]

gentle bump

Waz up trannie lover?

 

[Sassy69]

She's too young. She's scared of having to go thru the same situation waiting on him. Distance relationships don't work. Lots of insecurity issues - "presence" is 80% of a relationship. And she's young. Oh yea and she's female.

 

[jh1]

run her over with a truck for being a cheating whore

loolololololololll