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StickFigure

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Well, Feisty and I did hit it off very well when I went down there, but one night while I was talking to my kids on the phone, she decided that she did not want to be the reason that I moved away from my kids. She said she could not live with herself if it scarred my kids by me moving away.

As hard as it was to accept, I honored her wishes and we decided to put our relationship on indefinate hold. We both still love eachother very much and believe we have been given so much just by getting to meet!

Maybe someday, we can try again, but for now we have decided to be friends only. It is the hardest thing I have ever had to go through but it is for the best, at least for now.

Just wanted to let everyone know since I was getting so many asking how things went.
 
well it was fun while it lasted ...right?

and you have a good friend in the end
 
Much respect that the two of you to realize this. Glad you had a good time together though. Makes for fond memories.
 
I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out exactly as planned bro.

That takes a lot of balls to post this too, but since you guys were pretty open about your meeting and the high hopes, it makes sense. This way the rumors won't start and you won't get quite as many PMs.

You are a good bro, one of the best on this board, and I wish you the best. I hope the trip was still fun although it seems to have included some heartache as well. Sounds like you have a great family man, which is valuable in its own right.
 
File this under: Mature Relationships 101

Your both wonderful people and I am sure will find happiness given your great attitudes.
 
I am glad that you 2 at least are staying friends......its hard to be a friend when there is more intense feelings into the relationship. I wish you all the best and I hope its gonna work out the way its suppose to be at the end of the road
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I am thankful for having the opportunity to meet such a wonderful person. I have made a friend for life and I don't regret it at all.

:rose:


does this mean you are back on the market....





















J/K ...these are just jokes
 
jafo said:
well it was fun while it lasted ...right?

and you have a good friend in the end

We had a great time! She is the best thing that ever happened to me!! I don't think I will ever love anyone like I love her!
 
Two peeps that hooked up and kept it civil after (so far at least).....just makes me wanna cry. <sniff>
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I am thankful for having the opportunity to meet such a wonderful person. I have made a friend for life and I don't regret it at all.

:rose:

I agree! I have made the best friend a man could ask for and I will cherish the time we had forever!

:tulip:
 
jk.

thats excellent dude. you and fiesty seem like great people. maybe one day your paths will cross again.

she did give you a ride back to the airport right?
 
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spongebob said:
jk.

thats excellent dude. you and fiesty seem like great people. maybe one day your paths will cross again.

she did give you a ride back to the airport right?

Yup! She spent our last hour together with me in the airport, in my arms. It was all I had to let her leave.
 
Dial_tone said:
Two peeps that hooked up and kept it civil after (so far at least).....just makes me wanna cry. <sniff>

We have no reason to be un-civil. We still love eachother and that will never change!
 
StickFigure said:
Yup! She spent our last hour together with me in the airport, in my arms. It was all I had to let her leave.



HUMMMMMMMMM...so she gave you a ride to the airport ......




















ok that was in bad taste ...but funny
 
Big props STICK!!!!!

Classy!!!

Kids are the most important decision in a relationship where one or more have kids. Most are selfish and will move across the world for some punannie. (or dick)lol



(I am proud of you for hitting it also)
 
awittyusername said:
Big props STICK!!!!!

Classy!!!

Kids are the most important decision in a relationship where one or more have kids. Most are selfish and will move across the world for some punannie. (or dick)lol



(I am proud of you for hitting it also)

Thanks bro! LOL!!
 
Lestat said:
I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out exactly as planned bro.

That takes a lot of balls to post this too, but since you guys were pretty open about your meeting and the high hopes, it makes sense. This way the rumors won't start and you won't get quite as many PMs.

You are a good bro, one of the best on this board, and I wish you the best. I hope the trip was still fun although it seems to have included some heartache as well. Sounds like you have a great family man, which is valuable in its own right.

That's exactly what I wanted to avoid! When I got back here and saw all the relationship drama threads, I knew I had to make it public.

I mean shit, what were we gonna do, just pretend?? It was the most anticipated meet-up of the year for crying out loud! LOL! How were we gonna hide it?
 
StickFigure said:
Yup! She spent our last hour together with me in the airport, in my arms.

:note to self: ride to the airport = key to internet hookup success.
 
nycgirl said:
You just ruined our only chance to become a mod. Now we will have to wait even longer. :lmao:

C'mon now, Sistagurl. You know they would've just come up with another reason down the road to keep us down! :)
 
Dial_tone said:
C'mon now, Sistagurl. You know they would've just come up another reason down the road to keep us down! :)

It's just another plot by the Man to keep a brotha down! Homie don't play dat!!
 
I am so sorry to hear this. You both are great people.Although I am glad that you both managed to walk away being friends, that is important!
 
:rose:

To both of you.

I didn't get to meet you stick.. so sorry for that, sucks being a busy chick.

I'm proud of both of you for having eyes open and realizing that your children come first always.. though its not easy and i know it, been thru it myself. Time heals all wounds, and a friendship was formed. Who knows what the future holds.. right
 
Erzulie said:
:rose:

To both of you.

I didn't get to meet you stick.. so sorry for that, sucks being a busy chick.

I'm proud of both of you for having eyes open and realizing that your children come first always.. though its not easy and i know it, been thru it myself. Time heals all wounds, and a friendship was formed. Who knows what the future holds.. right

Thanks! Hopefully still get to meet you some day!

And you're right, you never know what's gonna happen down the road.
 
This was the perfect thread in light of everything going on around here. Cheers to some of my favorite people, on or off EF.
 
Another failed EF relationship. At least they tried.
 
It was one of the questions I posed to you and got no answer to on a previous thread. You are going to leave your kids behind? In the end, you couldn't do it. And neither should you have. Best wishes to both of you.
 
well the only really suck thing is stick didn't get my award winning Crawfish Casserole. Sucks to be him.. teehee
 
Erzulie said:
well the only really suck thing is stick didn't get my award winning Crawfish Casserole. Sucks to be him.. teehee
That sounds good right now.
 
Richards still doesn't compare to a home cooked southern meal suga... I'll boast and say my casserole rocks big time ;)

tee hee

wtf didn't she get you some crawfish from t-bob's ... wft.. they are the shit.. beats anything around here by far
 
Erzulie said:
Richards still doesn't compare to a home cooked southern meal suga... I'll boast and say my casserole rocks big time ;)

tee hee

wtf didn't she get you some crawfish from t-bob's ... wft.. they are the shit.. beats anything around here by far
I have to agree, nothing beats home cooked Southern meals. I'm gonna miss mom's cooking when I move to Baltimore.
 
Erzulie said:
Richards still doesn't compare to a home cooked southern meal suga... I'll boast and say my casserole rocks big time ;)

tee hee

wtf didn't she get you some crawfish from t-bob's ... wft.. they are the shit.. beats anything around here by far

We drove all the way out to T Bobs and they were closed. So we went over to Richard's. It was pretty damn good but I'm sure your cookin is better! ;)
 
stick, i didn't see this before- i'm sorry its not gonna work out and i commend you two for not letting your heart get in the way of your kids.

I wish a world of happiness for both of you.
 
You guys are good peeps, both of you.

I understand how you could have fallen in love and I also understand why you two decided it couldnt work... better than you know.

It's excellent though, that the two of you have remained friends. Says A LOT about your character.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
You guys are good peeps, both of you.

I understand how you could have fallen in love and I also understand why you two decided it couldnt work... better than you know.

It's excellent though, that the two of you have remained friends. Says A LOT about your character.

Thank you.....but your avi still scares me! :FRlol:
 
at the risk of being the asshole... sounds to me like they didnt hit it off as much as he thinks... but thats my opinion.
 
BLITZ99 said:
at the risk of being the asshole... sounds to me like they didnt hit it off as much as he thinks... but thats my opinion.

You dont sound like an asshole. You just sound like a man who doesnt have children.

The same thing happened to me several months back only he was not capable of remaining friends with me. Or maybe he thought it would be easier on me if he just cut things off. I'll never know and it doesnt matter much now anyway.

I miss him very much but he was right. It simply could not have worked. We just never expected to hit it off so well.
 
BLITZ99 said:
at the risk of being the asshole... sounds to me like they didnt hit it off as much as he thinks... but thats my opinion.

no prob. you are entitled to your opinion. but you're wrong. we hit it off extremeley well and she will and has verified that fact. she was respectful enough to take my kids into consideration instead of just being selfish and looking past them.

we will remain best friends and we still love eachother more than any other we have loved before.
 
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