Fiancee expects me to pay for her gas. Yes/no?

[bodybyjake]

well my fiancee got laid off a little while ago and has been looking for another job. she's blown all her savings on bills/living expenses since losing it and thinks i should pay for her gas.. A few times I put in without her even asking so I guess she got used to taht and started expecting me to do it... I didnt one time and she got upset and said "you're my fiancee, you should be doing that"
???? is she wrong???
we dont live together yet either.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

sure, why not, if you have the money

 

[RottenWillow]

depends on whether or not she cannot pay for her own gas anymore, or just doesn't want to. If it's a hardship for her, then she shouldn't even have to ask you. You should be volunteering.

 

[rnch]

as my father often said "feminine logic: a contradiction of terms if there ever was!"

 

[bodybyjake]

depends on whether or not she cannot pay for her own gas anymore, or just doesn't want to. If it's a hardship for her, then she shouldn't even have to ask you. You should be volunteering.

oh wow. then i am a thoughtless prick.. man...

 

[jackangel]

that's money you could be spending on your girlfriend. give her nothing.

 

[Raptorex]

wait till your married.

 

[nefertiti]

depends on whether or not she cannot pay for her own gas anymore, or just doesn't want to. If it's a hardship for her, then she shouldn't even have to ask you. You should be volunteering.

Agreed....she needs that car to go out and look for jobs. It doesn't sound like she's sitting on her ass all day expecting you to maintain her. If you have the means to do it I don't see why you wouldn't WANT to.

 

[Dial_tone]

depends on whether or not she cannot pay for her own gas anymore, or just doesn't want to. If it's a hardship for her, then she shouldn't even have to ask you. You should be volunteering.

True indeed, however "you're my fiancee, you should be doing that" implies she expects he'll be footing the bills whether she can afford her own or not. Her money will go to makeup, drinking with the girls, presents, etc. His money goes to the house.

 

[rnch]

wait till your married.

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