Feedback on this situation please

[Rachel...lol]

A little while ago, a guy that lives a street over with some buddies of his, texted me. I've been over there hanging out on a limited basis over the last several months. Played cards a couple times this summer,etc. So I get a text asking if I want to hang out later tonight, and since I've been sitting around alone for 2 days I said sure. Then he sends back what I thought was just a funny text - but I now I look at it and I realize he was actually probing.

After I said "sure", he responded with "R we allowed to cuddle? LOL" and I said "nope". He responded: "OK that was a lil mean haha" and I said "well I'm seeing somebody, just being honest."

this is the rest:

Gottcha. No reason to really hangout then if u have a bf

Okay fine I didn't realize you only wanted a piece of ass

LMAO you make some terrible assumptions

You're the one that said there was no point in hanging out

So u jump to assuming i wanted ass?

I don't understand what the correlation is then between me dating somebody and there being no point in us hanging out.

It makes zero sense to hang out with a girl who has a bf that I think is attractive while having a drink. But I like ur theory better. I'm a whore, ur awesome.



.... So now I'm going to spend another night hanging out by myself. I'm a little perplexed. The couple of times he and I hung out we may have done some sitting by each other on the couch, but have never hooked up. Sigh.

 

[lartinos]

What is surprising Rach? Every girl thinks that they are somehow different/interesting that a guy would want to hang out with them instead of their buddies. Once again this is another toolbag with no game. Just like the guy princesa knows he showed his hand. Not only that he covered his tracks in a shity way. My response if I fucked up and said that gay snuggle shit, " Well, you're so damn cute how could I not wanna snuggle ?"

 

[nimbus]

maybe he wanted to date you?

 

[Rachel...lol]

it's just that in the past he's made it pretty clear there was no interest in me.... and i'm not interested in him like that either. He's younger and not in good shape. I was invited over for Mario Kart and Drinking - wtf still can't play Mario Kart?

 

[lartinos]

it's just that in the past he's made it pretty clear there was no interest in me.... and i'm not interested in him like that either. He's younger and not in good shape. I was invited over for Mario Kart and Drinking - wtf still can't play Mario Kart?

His ego is bruised now. He may not like you at all. Guys bang girls who they just talk shit about to their friends after all the time.
Woman who have guys as all their friends almost always are just girls who like attention and get played. (many times without even knowing so.)
Mario Cart sounds like fun. I would have played with ya.

 

[nangiggles]

Clearly you and princesa have the same friend....

 

[uamaverick]

Why the fuck would any guy "hang out" with a girl? Of course he wants some ass.

 

[EnderJE]

This is a funny story and you have to move.

 

[-SD-]

what is up with EF chiks getting phagocytic texts

 

[princesa]

Lmao...your guy and my guy should hang out together and maybe read a book on how to communicate with women

A little while ago, a guy that lives a street over with some buddies of his, texted me. I've been over there hanging out on a limited basis over the last several months. Played cards a couple times this summer,etc. So I get a text asking if I want to hang out later tonight, and since I've been sitting around alone for 2 days I said sure. Then he sends back what I thought was just a funny text - but I now I look at it and I realize he was actually probing.

After I said "sure", he responded with "R we allowed to cuddle? LOL" and I said "nope". He responded: "OK that was a lil mean haha" and I said "well I'm seeing somebody, just being honest."

this is the rest:

Gottcha. No reason to really hangout then if u have a bf

Okay fine I didn't realize you only wanted a piece of ass

LMAO you make some terrible assumptions

You're the one that said there was no point in hanging out

So u jump to assuming i wanted ass?

I don't understand what the correlation is then between me dating somebody and there being no point in us hanging out.

It makes zero sense to hang out with a girl who has a bf that I think is attractive while having a drink. But I like ur theory better. I'm a whore, ur awesome.



.... So now I'm going to spend another night hanging out by myself. I'm a little perplexed. The couple of times he and I hung out we may have done some sitting by each other on the couch, but have never hooked up. Sigh.