Feedback on this situation please

[puddlemonkey]

Cindy holds out for marriage and at LEAST a carat on her bling bling ring...

you'd better get to savin'

 

[javaguru]

of course you'd want a clone of yourself

 

[just...v]

The same evolutionary factors that make men the sexual aggressors also make men the controller of the universe.

Deal.

What evolutionary factors?


If it's all my fault I want the keys to the effin kingdom, it's only fair.

 

[lartinos]

I saw that, after my post. My bad. Now I am pressing for more details. Being a chick with man friends, what should I look for to keep from getting "played"?

I think I generally have good instincts, but you never know.

Comes down to just being a good judge of character. I know who I can trust and rely on for the most part. I know what women want from me. I can tell that most women in my life are just as bad as guys. They only talk to me because there is small chance of maybe having sex at some point. People are shallow.. even if they don't admit it.

 

[-SD-]

I saw that, after my post. My bad. Now I am pressing for more details. Being a chick with man friends, what should I look for to keep from getting "played"?

I think I generally have good instincts, but you never know.

when they constantly want to hang out at either your place or their place by yourselves and it doesnt really seem like it fits.

 

[just...v]

Comes down to just being a good judge of character. I know who I can trust and rely on for the most part. I know what women want from me. I can tell that most women in my life are just as bad as guys. They only talk to me because there is small chance of maybe having sex at some point. People are shallow.. even if they don't admit it.

I agree with this.

I think I can pick out they guys that are waiting on the friend zone bench hoping to play someday. It's something about they way they look at you or touch you that gives them away. I stay clear of those types because it always comes out eventually and I'm pissed cause I wanted to be friends and they're screwing with my universe and thier pissed cause I ain't giving it up. So better to avoid the entire situation.

 

[SpyWizard]

it's fundamentally why a male cannot have a friend that is female.. unless he's gay..

 

[just...v]

when they constantly want to hang out at either your place or their place by yourselves and it doesnt really seem like it fits.

I know this trick.

 

[-SD-]

I know this trick.

then you know almost all you need to know, the rest is just details.

 

[iggy]

I agree with this.

I think I can pick out they guys that are waiting on the friend zone bench hoping to play someday. It's something about they way they look at you or touch you that gives them away. I stay clear of those types because it always comes out eventually and I'm pissed cause I wanted to be friends and they're screwing with my universe and thier pissed cause I ain't giving it up. So better to avoid the entire situation.

yeah, but what about the nice guys who are always in the friend-zone forever though with a lot of female friends?

or what if a girl is in a self-destructive relationship with some asshole and the bro is just trying to help the girl out when she constantly shuts him down and takes out all of her problems on him.... (that happened to one of my college roommates)
then in the end she realized that all the ex wanted was the sex, when the good bro wanted a chance at a relationship with her and liked her for her....

sometimes a bro has to make a move to get the point across that he likes the girl. what's life without risks anyway?

i'm not talking about the incidents with p and rach though.
those dudes were idiots.