Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even mean anything??

[calveless wonder]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

why would i lie... probally the no game part is true.. i usually get your too nice

too nice? that just means you don't spark the attraction in them. Your behavior automatically launches you into the friend zone.
you're still young bro, and you're in incredible shape...anyways,most people don't get that part of their handled till later in life. you have a huge advantage.

"too nice" is a problem. too nice = pushover....women want security and strength. strength means a ball buster...someone who challenges them and doesn't let them have their way and most importantly, doesn't need their approval. Doesn't mean you have to be a jerk, just means you have to put your foot down and really be comfortable with yourself and your identity and call a woman out if she's trying to cross that boundary.

All women want someone like their daddy...someone who they feel "Safe" around and someone who takes control and keeps them in check if they act up.

be that person and you will get laid many times over.

 

[Sub-Zero]

belive me i have tried... now i just gave up... i will try here and there but i mean fuck im like 0/10 0000

dont give up, but dont "try" either, thats my opinion at least.

just know you look fucking awsome, and dont let your lack of "success" make you think otherwise.

with me, iv always been a lil fatty, and had girls that were friends. people like me, and nobody ever says im "cute" or "too nice", because im a fucking asshole. some girls have sort of made an opening to me, but i didnt take them for various reasons (too ugly too date but a virgin who wouldnt give it up, way too drunk when i dont drink, etc)

i have zero balls, but at the same time dont really care much about anything. its weird and hard to explain. self esteem issues probably.

i have no trouble talking to girls in the right setting (parties and stuff even when im not drunk), but my physical acttraction isnt good enough, and my status, as a freshmen, probably didnt help. also i dont treat girls special, and treat them like i do guys so they slap me alot.

you have a weird first name dude. so do i. do you ever find that to be an annoying part of introducing yourself? i feel like my game is way less when you have to introduce yourself to someone and each time they say "what" oh okay and then say the wrong thing and ur like no no its < >, and spell it out for them.

now i usually just wait for people to introduce me, to others.

i have a friend who has a weird real name but just goes by jon. his pickup line for every girl is "hi, im jon".

 

[Faizakafez]

dont give up, but dont "try" either, thats my opinion at least.

just know you look fucking awsome, and dont let your lack of "success" make you think otherwise.

with me, iv always been a lil fatty, and had girls that were friends. people like me, and nobody ever says im "cute" or "too nice", because im a fucking asshole. some girls have sort of made an opening to me, but i didnt take them for various reasons (too ugly too date but a virgin who wouldnt give it up, way too drunk when i dont drink, etc)

i have zero balls, but at the same time dont really care much about anything. its weird and hard to explain. self esteem issues probably.

i have no trouble talking to girls in the right setting (parties and stuff even when im not drunk), but my physical acttraction isnt good enough, and my status, as a freshmen, probably didnt help. also i dont treat girls special, and treat them like i do guys so they slap me alot.

you have a weird first name dude. so do i. do you ever find that to be an annoying part of introducing yourself? i feel like my game is way less when you have to introduce yourself to someone and each time they say "what" oh okay and then say the wrong thing and ur like no no its < >, and spell it out for them.

now i usually just wait for people to introduce me, to others.

i have a friend who has a weird real name but just goes by jon. his pickup line for every girl is "hi, im jon".

i use to be a fatty from like grade 9-11 so when i talked to girls i got shot down HARD... so my confidence when down the shitter from there and still is there cuz i.e still cumming in a sock/tissue lol...

hmm i dont think any girl has opened to me... so +1 for ya...physical attraction is meh...average really im clothed most of the time so i godda depend on the face...

the name is Fez so introduce myself as fez it get some looks but it's not tooo bad...on the 0 balls part im there too i see alot of hot girls in my gym/school but i can't do shit a) dont no what to do b) out of my league c) fall flat on my face nad fuck it up even more...

so to answer your question yes i wil be your new e-friend LOL

 

[Sub-Zero]

i use to be a fatty from like grade 9-11 so when i talked to girls i got shot down HARD... so my confidence when down the shitter from there and still is there cuz i.e still cumming in a sock/tissue lol...

hmm i dont think any girl has opened to me... so +1 for ya...physical attraction is meh...average really im clothed most of the time so i godda depend on the face...

the name is Fez so introduce myself as fez it get some looks but it's not tooo bad...on the 0 balls part im there too i see alot of hot girls in my gym/school but i can't do shit a) dont no what to do b) out of my league c) fall flat on my face nad fuck it up even more...

so to answer your question yes i wil be your new e-friend LOL

see what us losers need to realize is:

C) fall flat on your face, and laugh it off. who gives a fuck? look stupid in front of a girl you dont know, u never have to see her again. in fact, if you fall flat on your face, and learn the confidence to play it off and smile about it without getting uncomfortable, then girls will like that EVEN MORE. (this is where my getting stripped naked into a speedo and starting conversations with people in the street comes in. builds confidence and knowing all that matters is yourself and a few good nuggas who would never judge you anyway)

B) there is no such thing as out of our league, unless we let them be out of our league. every girl is one stupid decision, and one good conversation from being on your dick. know this.

A) i feel like i dont know what to do either. when do i go in for a kiss? how do i know if she wants it? what if she slaps me or laughs in my face? we have to learn to not worry about these things. they dont matter. the only thing you need to know how to do is what YOU want. if you wanna kiss a girl, do it, if she doesnt like it, then oh well, you tried to go for what you wnated. if she lets you, who cares again, your getting what you want, but cause you took it. if she rejects and slaps and laughs in face, who cares? call her a bitch, or laugh it off, or make a witty joke in your head like "wow, i guess she wasnt as easy as she looked, but im still a fucking gorilla badass"

the trick is to hype yourself up and know your awsome, which is obviously hard as shit, otherwise i would be happy and laid.

but heres something you gotta think about: i saw this really fucking hot girl at a party, and was in an uncomfortable/awkward mood. i would like avoid her, and not look her in the eyes. this made her look at me just as uncomfortable and weird as i was feeling.

remember, girls are people too (just dumber and more annoying), and they get awkward and uncomfortable. if you act confident around them and talk to them, they will feed on that, beacuse if your not talking to them, they will just be in a corner thinking super insecure thoughts about how much they suck cause no guys are talking to them.

bottom line, girls WANT and NEED to be hit on, if you see a girl who looks like shes feeling awkward and doesnt know alot of people at a party or something, talk to her, and be confident. you will be the only reason she wont be feeling like a piece of loser trash, and you will sort of be her hero.

its amazing the stupid shit girls say that show that they feel just as insecure and loserish as us, like stupid pickup lines i hear by them, stupid comments they will make just to get a word in and feel like they have something to say. feed off that. we will both try our hardest.

as for your confidence, you have fuckin abs bro, go to a pool and take your shirt off girls will probably be checking you out alot, all u gotta do is make eye contact with em and smile, dont be scared to take what you want, if its a glimpse, a smile, a conversation, you have nothign to fear, cause in the end you go home and can lock yourself in your room and not worry about who judged you that day, since they will probably forget about anything "dumb" you did, by the end of the day

 

[javaguru]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

not for nothing...but i'm 5'8 and i've dated at least 7-8 girls between 5'10-6'2. most of them 5'9-5'11....

if you don't act intimidated by their height it means nothing.

oh yeah, and java? far as the height requirements? it makes a difference....but just like anything women "say" they want, if you make them feel a certain way the rest of the shit goes out the window. you can be 5'3 and walk around you're like yao ming. it's the energy you project. i do wish i was 6'0 or taller though..

You can project all the "energy" you want but unless you have cash or Brad Pitt's good looks you ain't getting laid.

 

[calveless wonder]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

You can project all the "energy" you want but unless you have cash or Brad Pitt's good looks you ain't getting laid.

well, that "energy" is confidence..and you of all people mr super slut, should know that goes a long way
assuming you look halfway decent and take care of yourself.

that statement seems to be completely different than your usual theories (which are usually on point)

 

[javaguru]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

well, that "energy" is confidence..and you of all people mr super slut, should know that goes a long way
assuming you look halfway decent and take care of yourself.

that statement seems to be completely different than your usual theories (which are usually on point)

I'm just saying that women have an irrational value when it comes to height. It may have made a difference 1k years ago but in our modern society where money is more important than brawn it makes no sense. Like I said, look at what women claim to want....it's based on evolutionary genetics. We're all still shaped by our primal desires whether or not we want to admit it. A fat girl who loves you unconditionally may be the best mate but we're still attracted to the skinny coke whores for a reason.....just like women prefer taller men. I've been rebuffed for being under 6'0" by women who are under 5'7"....

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

I'm just saying that women have an irrational value when it comes to height. It may have made a difference 1k years ago but in our modern society where money is more important than brawn it makes no sense. Like I said, look at what women claim to want....it's based on evolutionary genetics. We're all still shaped by our primal desires whether or not we want to admit it. A fat girl who loves you unconditionally may be the best mate but we're still attracted to the skinny coke whores for a reason.....just like women prefer taller men. I've been rebuffed for being under 6'0" by women who are under 5'7"....

even this virgin knows women have no idea what they want and they want what we make them think they want

 

[javaguru]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

even this virgin knows women have no idea what they want and they want what we make them think they want

If you understand women so well then why are you a virgin?

I know primal instincts only go so far. My friend Daryl could have been a GQ model, women hit on him, but yet he always chose to go out with me because I can carry a conversation.Women and men do understand the value of social skills and intelligence but we're still driven by primal desires......pleasure and pain....

 

[calveless wonder]

Re: Faizakafez- i guess i have a new e-friend? no hope for men? a 6 pack doesnt even

.just like women prefer taller men. I've been rebuffed for being under 6'0" by women who are under 5'7"....

meh...i don't doubt that but i've seen countless models or model types with short(er) dudes...and also speaking from my own experience.
i'm not short, but i'm not tall.

i really think it depends on what else you got going for you.

but sure, some girls will instantly be turned off by height or lack of, rather.