F-ing WOMEN!!! SHOW SOME GOD DAMN RESPECT, LADIES!!!!

[Norman Bates]

The problem is to tell when a woman is playing hard to get and when she is meaning really not interested.

Btw. , people not calling back isn´t limited to the fair gender.
I had the problem with guys ,too ( no, nothing sexuell) ; they didn´t want me along and for some reason were too impolite to tell.

 

[Finaject2001]

nobody said to be a bitch... i said to be honest...

"sorry, but i am not interested" is not being a bitch, its being a genuine person...

giving someone an excuse because you are so special it would devestate their lives to hear you say no... well, thats being a bitch, a stuck up one at that.

Give it up bro, she understands yet chooses not to.

 

[Q Modo]

giving someone an excuse because you are so special it would devestate their lives to hear you say no... well, thats being a bitch, a stuck up one at that.

Not that you asked, but I think you`re wrong.
Sometimes when I get asked out by a girl I don`t want to go out with, I make up an excuse simply because I don`t want to hurt her feelings. Really doesn`t matter what she looks like. Some people take it harder than I think they should. If I think she`s one of them, and I don`t want to go out with her(which can be completely unrelated to weither or not I`d like to), I come up with something I hope sounds on the level.
My experience is that women are more reluctant to risk another person`s feelings than a guy is. It makes sense that more of them would make up excuses to prevent hurting someone by rejection.

 

[Finaject2001]

Not that you asked, but I think you`re wrong.
Sometimes when I get asked out by a girl I don`t want to go out with, I make up an excuse simply because I don`t want to hurt her feelings.

No offense, but you sound like a bigger bitch than most women.

 

[Q Modo]

No offense, but you sound like a bigger bitch than most women.

Really? I guess I`ll have to work on that.

 

[Finaject2001]

Really? I guess I`ll have to work on that.

Actually, you just proved youre not. Sorry bro.

 

[Pamela]

If all else fails I ask them if they can fuck for four hours, nut four times and never lose thier erection once....

Usually does the trick!

Howya doin' Chesty?

BM - That shoud have done the trick!!




I told a guy that I wasn't interested and he kept on & on & on & on!!!!

It works both ways!

 

[big_bad_buff]

look, we guys are not like you girls.. we can handle truth.. our minds are not so petty that someone's not "wanting" us will cause us to go into emotional hell.. we dont cry for weeks on end because of one of you... we dont stop eating because some chick isnt interested....

GROW UP AND TELL THE TRUTH!!

if you dont like me, dont tell me "i'm busy that night".. that just leaves me to wonder.. well, what about another night???

tell me "NO THANK YOU, i'm not interested"... see how fucking simple that is???

if you dont want to see me after a few dates... "hey buddy, i'd rather not go out anymore"... dont tell me "i dont have the time right now to continue this relationship"...

THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!!!!

why dont you tell her this? and then punch her in her tooth.

 

[Bikini Mod]

The last seveal posts to this thread prove you guys are talking out of your assholes....

Qmodo first says that MB should give up because I get it but "choose not to", then he goes on to say that he does THE SAME THING sometimes, then for some strange reason (because he is accused of being a bitch) he gives a bitchy reply..... He is OK in the other guys's book.

No circular reasoning there.

Bottom line, YOU ASSUME peoples' intentions. I have never been called stuck up because I choose not to be a fucking bitch to people....

According to MB (and it seems most guys) that if is truthful but nice when declining an invitation she is:

A BITCH.

If she is brutal and nasty, well then she is:

A BITCH.

I get it now. All women are bitches, ALL THE TIME.

Thank you, it is so clear for me now.

 

[circusgirl]

Shit like this happens because many folks (men and women) lack assertiveness. Assertiveness is saying "no" when you mean no.

"no, I don't want to go on a date, there are cute chicks over there, try them".

"no, you can't borrow my chainsaw, coz you broke my lawnmower the last time you got it".

"no, I don't want another beer, I am driving home".

I have done an assertivenss course which teaches you to keep saying no until the person gets it. Westerners are taught that saying "no" is rude and you should always accede to a request. Therefore, they will make an excuse rather than say "no".

I had a roommate who was from Ghana and lots of folks thought he was rude. If he wanted something, he would ask, because Ghanians apparently don't have a problem saying "no". He asked me if I could fix his friend's computer, I said "no, I don't do fixing 'puters, because otherwise I would become the unofficial university computer technician, so you'll understand that I can't do this, plus, I'm crap at that". He was cool with this.

Folks who are naturally assertive have trouble understanding what the fuck is up with the excusers, however, it can take a bit of self-confidence to learn to say "no".

Many guys are this bad too - "I'll call you tomorrow" - yeah, right! Basically, people are spineless and many of them suck.