As you said, we all have to do what we feel is right, but I'm just waving a flag, particularly if Jboy finds himself repeating his actions. Having fun is one thing, going on a mindless rampage, another.
i've been on a few mindless rampages over the years. . .thank God those days are long behind me. . .but i remember them. . .and i remember that i didn't really put a lot of stock in what other people said or thought. . .i had to come to my own senses. . .glad it happened before my luck ran out.
that said, whenever anyone tells a story like that, for lots of people to see, they are obviously looking for opinions. . .yours, as always, was sensible and thoughtful