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[OMEGA]

Ok this is weird and I would not make a post about it but I cant figure it out.

I Joined a new Gym, high end, more $$, and just nice. It def a business kind place in all regards

There is a Spin instructor/ trainer who I have bumped into sporadically over the last 4-5 years, and maybe spoken may be all but 2 paragraphs but they were "there"

Now since I joined I see her there alot.

For some reason when are eyes meet we both are stunned, and look at each other more then normal, hell it throws me off,
There is just 'something" between us


WELL long story short, I came into the gym, and I knew I looked good that day dare I say "handsome"

She was with her boyfriend trainer but when he was not looking she was looking at me in spurts of intensity........ (she has done this before with me in the past)

The when he left she went to the kid care area and was playing with a kid ( one of here freinds kids) and while she was holding kid She kept looking at me for LITERALLY 3-5 minutes straight while I was working out, full on EYE / Face contact


There were no other people in that area of the gym so it was all me she was looking at

she was looking at me straight on with no let up, no faltering it was a 10 in terms of intensity. she just stared with intensity, obviously interest but no projection of any clear emotion

all i could do was stare back, I kinda smiled, but she was looking at me as if we were animal in nature, just pure attraction or something like that.


finally after like 3-4 minutes I made an overt embarrassed smile, and gesture and she ceased a bit, but still looked sporadically............then when her boyfriend came back she stopped almost all together.

I don't knwo what to make of it , other then it was hardcore LOL
Def something there, but women i ask what was it?

what should i do?

say something, nothing? I am puzzled

 

[cboogsrun]

I'd leave it alone. doesnt sound real loyal if she's eye fucking you when she had a bf

 

[BlueBird]

Were you squating with a bulging moneybelt?


No, seriously Omega, your description sounds like something I experienced once, and only once before. Striking up a conversation with her would not be a breach of decorum. Do it or you may regret not having done so for years to come (like me)

 

[OMEGA]

dood she stopped when he came back and tried to stop when he was there

so she satisfied the loyalty thing i think as best was possible.


I would never make a post abot this unless I were truly perplexed, and of course eager.

I am a dood but that was hardcore even for me lol

 

[curvymommy]

Whenever I am looking extra...handsome...I always do awesome squats. In her defense, it's a fun thing to watch ppl do!

Also, I am a major people watcher at the gym. I try not to make it too obvious becuase I mostly do it to study technique, form, for inspiration. But, when people catch me watching them I always use it as an excuse to strike up a converstation.

I would totally make friends with this person and maybe even her BF. That's because you are the new person there and it's a good time to do that. If you see her again and don't jump on the chance to at least talk about the weather then it becomes more awkward.

It's not like she's married!

 

[the_alcatraz]

dood she stopped when he came back and tried to stop when he was there

so she satisfied the loyalty thing i think as best was possible.


I would never make a post abot this unless I were truly perplexed, and of course eager.

I am a dood but that was hardcore even for me lol

OMEGA is a babe magnet!

 

[OMEGA]

Were you squating with a bulging moneybelt?


No, seriously Omega, your description sounds like something I experienced once, and only once before. Striking up a conversation with her would not be a breach of decorum. Do it or you may regret not having done so for years to come (like me)

we spoke intensely twice but that was 2 years ago
enough for her to know something about me

I let her know in words that I thought she was like a Panther ( I actually said that)

I never followed through cus of education opportunities that pulled me away right after


my gut says your right about it being something , this vibe is NOT common, its like lightening

I feel I have the slight upper hand in some ways in that she may be a bit more drawn to me

I just dont know what to do in this case


I am really bothered by it

 

[BlueBird]

we spoke intensely twice but that was 2 years ago
enough for her to know something about me

I let her know in words that I thought she was like a Panther ( I actually said that)

I never followed through cus of education opportunities that pulled me away right after


my gut says your right about it being something , this vibe is NOT common, its like lightening

I feel I have the slight upper hand in some ways in that she may be a bit more drawn to me

I just dont know what to do in this case


I am really bothered by it

If it truly is something special, do not approach with your attitude that you 'have the upper hand'. Smacks of insincerity. If there is a *spark*, you won't need to be calculating.

 

[cboogsrun]

Ok this is weird and I would not make a post about it but I cant figure it out.

I Joined a new Gym, high end, more $$, and just nice. It def a business kind place in all regards

There is a Spin instructor/ trainer who I have bumped into sporadically over the last 4-5 years, and maybe spoken may be all but 2 paragraphs but they were "there"

Now since I joined I see her there alot.

For some reason when are eyes meet we both are stunned, and look at each other more then normal, hell it throws me off,
There is just 'something" between us I don't know what it is other then that is it is "something"



WELL long story short, I came into the gym, and I knew I looked good that day dare I say "handsome"

She was with her boyfriend trainer but when he was not looking she was looking at me in spurts of intensity........ (she has done this before with me in the past)

The when he left she went to the kid care area and was playing with a kid ( one of here freinds kids) and while she was holding kid She kept looking at me for LITERALLY 3-5 minutes straight while I was doing squats.

There were no other people in that area of the gym so it was all me she was looking at

she was looking at me straight on with no let up, no faltering it was a 10 in terms of intensity.

all i could do was stare back, I kinda smiled, but she was looking at me as if we were animal in nature, just pure attraction or something like that.


finally after like 3-4 minutes I made an overt embarrassed smile, and gesture and she ceased a bit, but still looked sporadically............then when her boyfreind came back she stopped almosta all together.

I don't knwo what to make of it , other then it was hardcore lol
Def something there, but women i ask what was it?

what should i do?

say something, nothing? I am puzzled

Your a good bro, you know the difference between right and wrong. You don't come off as a selfish person. Persuing anything with her while shes with someone else is selfish and your selling yourself short.

 

[OMEGA]

If it truly is something special, do not approach with your attitude that you 'have the upper hand'. Smacks of insincerity. If there is a *spark*, you won't need to be calculating.

Great advice

I agree 1000% THANKYOU for saying that i needed to hear that

and to tell you the absolute truth I think she will pick up on that in second and I will be toast

i don't worry about being rejected I worry about not truly showing my self

how should i go about it then?

 

[OMEGA]

Your a good bro, you know the difference between right and wrong. You don't come off as a selfish person. Persuing anything with her while shes with someone else is selfish and your selling yourself short.

another VERY good point, thanks bro

 

[layinback]

omega,

there is obviously chemistry between the two of you.

it clearly eclipses what she has with her current bf.

if you are as intensely attracted to her as she is you,
be discrete and find out her level of contentment and
commitment with her current relationship.

follow your intuition and pursue \ retreat as indicated lol.

i'm not recommending breaking folks up or anything of the
sort. sounds like she aint serious about this dood and if they
are not in a committed relationship.........fair game, bro

 

[all the whey]

Tell her she has good form.

Nerf bought it.lolololoolololo

 

[all the whey]

 

[-SD-]

I would casually chat her up and look for the signs, you will know it when you see it. And I wouldnt make any real moves until you know that she either 1. doesnt have a bf or 2. she is so overt with her signals that any reasonable person would see that she wants you to make a move and 3. you are ok with making a move on a chick like that even if she has a bf because 4. shes cheating on you.

 

[Sub-Zero]

talk to her, dont be a pussy like i am.

that feeling you described is how i feel everytime i make eye contact with a girl.

but i dont make eye contact with guys even.

because im socially awkward.

hope that helped bro!

 

[-SD-]

talk to her, dont be a pussy like i am.

that feeling you described is how i feel everytime i make eye contact with a girl.

but i dont make eye contact with guys even.

because im socially awkward.

hope that helped bro!

How the hell do you function on a daily basis if you are getting charges of intensity from the usual eye contact of everyday life?

 

[OMEGA]

talk to her, dont be a pussy like i am.

that feeling you described is how i feel everytime i make eye contact with a girl.

but i dont make eye contact with guys even.

because im socially awkward.

hope that helped bro!

theres a Brazilians chick and then some barely out of hight shcool chick where there are some good bro-atte vibes

the Brazilian makes me smile like the Cheshire cat ( evil grin) the College chick is more like "awwww how neat"

This one I am talking about though is off the Riktor Scale, and it Bothers me to no end that this terrain perplexes me

I cant ignore her, I cant engage her overtly

i was thinking of just treating her as is and continue looking as she does me
till something changes

its going to be wired cus that was def hardcore the other day NOT normal by any means

 

[Sub-Zero]

How the hell do you function on a daily basis if you are getting charges of intensity from the usual eye contact of everyday life?

i dont dude, im a social misfit, an outcast, i kill everybody i see

 

[all the whey]

It does sound like you have a connection with her.

But, I would not even talk to her if she has a boyfriend.

 

[all the whey]

theres a Brazilians chick and then some barely out of hight shcool chick where there are some good bro-atte vibes

the Brazilian makes me smile like the Cheshire cat ( evil grin) the College chick is more like "awwww how neat"

This one I am talking about though is off the Riktor Scale, and it Bothers me to no end that this terrain perplexes me

I cant ignore her, I cant engage her overtly

i was thinking of just treating her as is and continue looking as she does me
till something changes

its going to be wired cus that was def hardcore the other day NOT normal by any means

Now you are talking!!!!!!!!

Brazilian chicks are the best. And, they love big gringos.


Seriously!

 

[OMEGA]

omega,

there is obviously chemistry between the two of you.

it clearly eclipses what she has with her current bf.

if you are as intensely attracted to her as she is you,
be discrete and find out her level of contentment and
commitment with her current relationship.

follow your intuition and pursue \ retreat as indicated lol.

i'm not recommending breaking folks up or anything of the
sort. sounds like she aint serious about this dood and if they
are not in a committed relationship.........fair game, bro

Eclipse is too strong
to stay humble I will say I have ruffled her feathers for sure
the guy is not on my radar or a concern but I can see what she is attracted to in him and wont drop him easily.

I feel like my interjection in HER environment has altered her instinct/feelings and IS doing something
Like I am a New card in the Deck that has to be dealt with


i don't knwo about talking, I will lay low and simple reciprocate the look she gives me ALL the time lol till something changes

fair game is about people being true

I would not pull here away from a guy actively

 

[layinback]

Eclipse is too strong
to stay humble I will say I have ruffled her feathers for sure
the guy is not on my radar or a concern but I can see what she is attracted to in him and wont drop him easily.

I feel like my interjection in HER environment has altered her instinct/feelings and IS doing something
Like I am a New card in the Deck that has to be dealt with


i don't knwo about talking, I will lay low and simple reciprocate the look she gives me ALL the time lol till something changes

fair game is about people being true

I would not pull here away from a guy actively

sounds like a plan.

being true is also being true to yourself.....not being with someone you don't want to be with.

hey, if it is to be......it will be

 

[OMEGA]

no I agree with you about Fair Game Being Fair game

I just might opt for waiting it out till something changes

 

[OMEGA]

It does sound like you have a connection with her.

But, I would not even talk to her if she has a boyfriend.

yeah that and the Ego thing BlueBird pointed out are the only road blocks

thanks guys typing all this out has helped alot

 

[chazk]

When you are making eye contact . You are stunned , she is like "will this dude stop staring me in the eye and just look at my breasts for god sake!!!"

 

[nimbus]

The boyfriend thing isn't even an issue until you're about to bang her. Everyone is fair game for getting to know better. quit making excuses

 

[puddlemonkey]

So she works there as a trainer/spin instructor? I'd definitely make sure to have a back up plan gym wise in case things don't work out. Nothing will kill a workout faster than having to deal with ex drama at the gym. So if there is another close to where you are, great. Other than that just keep in mind if she's with someone and looking to upgrade odds are she'll do the same to you. I think my biggest pet peeve are women who will stay in relationships they aren't happy with only to wait for something better to come along so they can jump ship without missing a beat.

 

[chazk]

So she works there as a trainer/spin instructor? I'd definitely make sure to have a back up plan gym wise in case things don't work out. Nothing will kill a workout faster than having to deal with ex drama at the gym. So if there is another close to where you are, great. Other than that just keep in mind if she's with someone and looking to upgrade odds are she'll do the same to you. I think my biggest pet peeve are women who will stay in relationships they aren't happy with only to wait for something better to come along so they can jump ship without missing a beat.

yea man good advice.
I lifted at a years ago and met a chick we dated and then broke up i had to listen to her tell the whole gym i am a roided out steroid monster that tried to get her to cycle roids ...
what a fucking joke I was on 200mg of test a week that was all i was running and that phyco bitch asked for some clen tabs...then told everyone I pushed steroids on her so she left me.
She made my life a nightmare . I was glad to change gyms

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i didnt read the other responses cos im in a rush, but in a nutshell, you need to eat some concrete and harden the fuck up chopper style and go get that girl

half embarrassed cute little smile = im a little boy and not sure of myself with women and despite my big muscles and handsome face the only thing im good for is a bit of eyecandy because i didnt respond to you crazy obvious invitation to approach me via all that staring

-versus-

walking up to her saying hi with a slow smile deep voice demonstrating that youre totally comfortable, competent socially, and no stranger to talking to beautiful women as someone who will actually LEAD = i am a man worth upgrading to, or at least, fucking

oh. boyfriend schmoyfriend. if shes straying (or wants to) then she isnt his. THE END.

k. going to go read the responses now

 

[GoldenDelicious]

k. read the responses. the ones that said "wait until something changes" bla bla bla are shit. the thing that is about to change is that once, there was no omega in her life, and now, there is going to be an omega in her life. "why did that girl break up with the trainer? what happened?" "omega happened".

Yeah.

 

[needtogetaas]

Take a pick of your cock on your sell phone. Walk up to her and say " I really want to show you this" then show it to her.

 

[OMEGA]

darn good advices

something will come of this,

In a Nut shell I will do :

~ as BlueBird Said , do show that Ego that could be viewed as insincere ( thats was huge) I felt that was a flaw in me in this instance

~ Show my intentions but stop short of stealing her from here boyfriend, let her come to me. But damn make it well known

~ GD , Layin Back I am heavily considering your opinion in term of strategy

~ needto lol

 

[BNG]

I think my biggest pet peeve are women who will stay in relationships they aren't happy with only to wait for something better to come along so they can jump ship without missing a beat.

This one is too true. In fact, my wife works with a woman that is testing the waters and yet she keeps saying she doesn't want a divorce! What does she think she's gonna get?

 

[GoldenDelicious]

This one is too true. In fact, my wife works with a woman that is testing the waters and yet she keeps saying she doesn't want a divorce! What does she think she's gonna get?

fucking HALF, thats what!!

 

[Kano]

dude she was starring at you and could not look away cause she was having orgasm after orgasm.. thats where the animal look came from ..

 

[all the whey]

So she works there as a trainer/spin instructor? I'd definitely make sure to have a back up plan gym wise in case things don't work out. Nothing will kill a workout faster than having to deal with ex drama at the gym. So if there is another close to where you are, great..

agreed 100%. I went out with a trainer. Of course, she said her SO was a jerk and I was special. I was a n00b and believed her. Drama x 99999. I had to goto a different gym.

Other than that just keep in mind if she's with someone and looking to upgrade odds are she'll do the same to you. I think my biggest pet peeve are women who will stay in relationships they aren't happy with only to wait for something better to come along so they can jump ship without missing a beat.

I also agree 100%.

 

[jerseyrugger76]

At the risk of not reading thru the 4 pages of e-advice you've already gotten, I'd say where you go from here boils down to one simple question: who's bigger? you or the boyfriend?

 

[all the whey]

At the risk of not reading thru the 4 pages of e-advice you've already gotten, I'd say where you go from here boils down to one simple question: who's bigger? you or the boyfriend?

She is.

 

[OMEGA]

At the risk of not reading thru the 4 pages of e-advice you've already gotten, I'd say where you go from here boils down to one simple question: who's bigger? you or the boyfriend?

nahhh I am not like that

 

[Kano]

Omega are you as ripped as goku?

 

[OMEGA]

no

 

[Kano]

no

He is one ripped fucker... lol

 

[Peterlumberjack]

This is simple OMEGA, u need a wing man. Im sure you were issued guest passes with your new membership. Have a good bro go with you and test the waters allowing him to absorb any of the social awkwardness. Have him ask her about one of her silly spin classes or training or something while he smoothly mentions that hes there trying out the gym on your guest pass. He will bring you back a plethora of information about her and her reactions that you can develop a better game plan from.

 

[ceo]

eye fuck her right back. Give her a little smile while you're doing it. Be as confident as you are when you're training someone or promoting your supps. This is your zone nigga! She should be drawn like a moth to the flame.

She got a man? I'm not tryin to hear that, see? What's her man got to do with me?

 

[all the whey]

eye fuck her right back. Give her a little smile while you're doing it. Be as confident as you are when you're training someone or promoting your supps. This is your zone nigga! She should be drawn like a moth to the flame.

She got a man? I'm not tryin to hear that, see? What's her man got to do with me?

Only a fellow Brian would get that.

 

[mountain muscle]

Think of her as the Omega project. 2.0

 

[heatherrae]

Ok this is weird and I would not make a post about it but I cant figure it out.

I Joined a new Gym, high end, more $$, and just nice. It def a business kind place in all regards

There is a Spin instructor/ trainer who I have bumped into sporadically over the last 4-5 years, and maybe spoken may be all but 2 paragraphs but they were "there"

Now since I joined I see her there alot.

For some reason when are eyes meet we both are stunned, and look at each other more then normal, hell it throws me off,
There is just 'something" between us


WELL long story short, I came into the gym, and I knew I looked good that day dare I say "handsome"

She was with her boyfriend trainer but when he was not looking she was looking at me in spurts of intensity........ (she has done this before with me in the past)

The when he left she went to the kid care area and was playing with a kid ( one of here freinds kids) and while she was holding kid She kept looking at me for LITERALLY 3-5 minutes straight while I was working out, full on EYE / Face contact


There were no other people in that area of the gym so it was all me she was looking at

she was looking at me straight on with no let up, no faltering it was a 10 in terms of intensity. she just stared with intensity, obviously interest but no projection of any clear emotion

all i could do was stare back, I kinda smiled, but she was looking at me as if we were animal in nature, just pure attraction or something like that.


finally after like 3-4 minutes I made an overt embarrassed smile, and gesture and she ceased a bit, but still looked sporadically............then when her boyfriend came back she stopped almost all together.

I don't knwo what to make of it , other then it was hardcore LOL
Def something there, but women i ask what was it?

what should i do?

say something, nothing? I am puzzled

Looking at people or flirting a little is one thing. Staring like that, though, sounds creepy.

 

[ceo]

Only a fellow Brian would get that.

lolol

"This is my world. You just a squirrel, tryin to get a nut!"

 

[ceo]

Looking at people or flirting a little is one thing. Staring like that, though, sounds creepy.

Every bitch that's ever eye fucked me like that was a tigress in the sack and crazy as hell to boot. Fun while it lasts though. Definitely not long term material. Shit I wouldn't even make one a girlfriend...unless she really spoiled me.

 

[all the whey]

Looking at people or flirting a little is one thing. Staring like that, though, sounds creepy.

I'm so upset with you I don't know what to do
You know my first impulse was to run up on you
And do a Rambo
I was about to jam you and flat blast both of you
But I didn't wanna mess up this thirt-seven hundred dollar lynx coat
So instead I chilled -- That's right chilled
I called up the bank and took out every dime.
Than I cancelled all your credit cards...
I stuck you up for every piece of jewelery I ever bought you!
Don't go lookin' in that closet 'cause everything you came here with is
packed up and waiting for you in the guest room. What were you
thinking?
You don't mess with the Juice!
I gave you silk suits, blue diamonds and gucci handbags.
I gave you things you couldn't even pronounce!
But now I can't give you nothing but advice.
Cause you're still young, yeah, you're young.
And you're gonna find somebody like me one of these days . . .
Until then, you know what you gotta do?
You gotta get on outta here with that alley-cat-coat-wearing,
punch-bucket-shoe-wearing crumbcake I saw you with. Cause you
dismissed!
That's right, Silly rabbit, tricks are made for kids, don't you know
that. You without me is like corn flakes without the milk! This is my
world. You're just a squirrel trying to get a nut! Now get on outta
here. Scat!

 

[all the whey]

lolol

"This is my world. You just a squirrel, tryin to get a nut!"

lololo

My favorite line as a kid....


You know my first impulse was to run up on you
And do a Rambo
I was about to jam you and flat blast both of you
But I didn't wanna mess up this thirt-seven hundred dollar lynx coat
So instead I chilled

 

[Kano]

Men are fucking dogs ..