Dream Interpretation?

[Padishar]

I know that I am going to get a wide range of suggestions here but I juts have to ask anyway

What would you do if your woman told you that she had a dream that you caught her cheating on you with her ex boyfriend. That you somehow had it video taped and confronted her with it
Then she moved to away to Denver

.....

Lifes a Bitch!

 

[cindylou]

Thats no big deal. I had a dream two nights ago that I cheated on my husband with an ex. That stuff happends. I have no desire to cheat on my husband ESPECIALLY with the ex in the dream . lol.

It could mean that she has unresolved issues with the ex...but that does not mean she still has feellings for him.

 

[Padishar]

Ya...pretty much what she told me word for word
Just curious on peoples take

 

[musclemom]

I know that I am going to get a wide range of suggestions here but I juts have to ask anyway

What would you do if your woman told you that she had a dream that you caught her cheating on you with her ex boyfriend. That you somehow had it video taped and confronted her with it
Then she moved to away to Denver

.....

Lifes a Bitch!

One of several things:

1. You're too possessive or act like you're jealous or insecure, or have made comments that made her think you are.

2. You feel threatened by her ex and again have said things to that effect.

3. Doesn't mean a damn thing, not all dreams have meanings, i.e., as Freud once said, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

It may be what Cindy says, but human psychology being what it is, if she had unresolved feelings about her ex I doubt if she would be telling you she's dreaming of banging him and getting caught by you. It's been my experience guys are kind of weird about dreams, they seem to think when a woman dreams she's having sex with a guy that means subconsciously she really does want to have sex with that guy. It almost never does, unless it's a guy she's currently involved with (or somebody famous).

 

[nangiggles]

There are many many theories on dream interpretation, some think it is a manifestation of your real/supressed desires, some believe it means nothing, personally I believe that most times they mean nothing and they happen mostly because of your daily interaction (example dreaming of a person you saw or spoke to that day, or maybe you even saw something that mildly tickled your brain to remember something related to them and that's enough to trigger a dream) the reason I believe they mean something is because you can't really control them you don't dream certain things purposely.... if you could control them I'd be dreaming about keanu reeves and me every night

 

[Padishar]

Makes sense
Her and I have had issues with this specific ex in the past
Thanks for the input

 

[SouthernLord]

One of my Ex's told me she had a "sexual" dream about one of my close friends. Not to long after that she left me and they're now married. She's a fucking whale so the whole situation is funny to me now.

 

[cindylou]

One of my Ex's told me she had a "sexual" dream about one of my close friends. Not to long after that she left me and they're now married. She's a fucking whale so the whole situation is funny to me now.

lol oh my god!

 

[musclemom]

There are many many theories on dream interpretation, some think it is a manifestation of your real/supressed desires, some believe it means nothing, personally I believe that most times they mean nothing and they happen mostly because of your daily interaction (example dreaming of a person you saw or spoke to that day, or maybe you even saw something that mildly tickled your brain to remember something related to them and that's enough to trigger a dream) the reason I believe they mean something is because you can't really control them you don't dream certain things purposely.... if you could control them I'd be dreaming about keanu reeves and me every night

Replay of the day is one type of dream; wish fulfillment/flights of fancy another; answers to (or nightmares) about shit that the dreamer is thinking heavily on, one more type; and the final type falls under the category of other, i.e., psychic phenomenon (including but not limited to precognition, astral/spiritual experiences, interaction on the astral plane with teacher, meeting people who have left this life, etc.)

All of the above assuming the dreamer is not under the influence of medications that have a side effect of impacting REM cycles.

 

[chris302001]

dreams don't mean anything. Period.

but they sure are fun sometimes......

 

[needtogetarmy]

I used to be into dream interpretation big. I kept a journal, experimented with GABA and other OTC supplements to accentuate my dreams, and mediated before going to sleep so I could control my dreams.

I agree with musclemom and nangiggles on this one.

Perception and interpretation is in the eye and the mind of the beholder.

 

[musclemom]

dreams don't mean anything. Period.

but they sure are fun sometimes......

Things that one does not pay attention to generally won't mean anything to that person. One rarely will see what one chooses not to see.

 

[chris302001]

Eclipses, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions and northern lights arent messages from the "gods," the earth is not flat nor at the center of the solar system, and infection is not spontaneously generated but caused by microorganisms we cannot see.... dream interpretation is just an archaic idea that was perpetuated by a coke head with homosexual tendencies.

of course thats my opinion.

 

[-Ariel-]

Eclipses, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions and northern lights arent messages from the "gods," the earth is not flat nor at the center of the solar system, and infection is not spontaneously generated but caused by microorganisms we cannot see.... dream interpretation is just an archaic idea that was perpetuated by a coke head with homosexual tendencies.

of course thats my opinion.

With ya on nontoesuckage...
here well, not so much....
Sides it was Jung not Freud who gave so much weight to Dreams...

THE coke head with homosexual tendencies...

Watch that movie I nag you and the wifey bout.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I know that I am going to get a wide range of suggestions here but I juts have to ask anyway

What would you do if your woman told you that she had a dream that you caught her cheating on you with her ex boyfriend. That you somehow had it video taped and confronted her with it
Then she moved to away to Denver

.....

Lifes a Bitch!

id dump her right then...depending on how she told me. sounds like a stupid c8nt

 

[musclemom]

Eclipses, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions and northern lights arent messages from the "gods," the earth is not flat nor at the center of the solar system, and infection is not spontaneously generated but caused by microorganisms we cannot see.... dream interpretation is just an archaic idea that was perpetuated by a coke head with homosexual tendencies.

of course thats my opinion.

And, of course, since you posit your opinions can be proven empirically and mine cannot, yours is the correct one. Which is why mundanes hopelessly bore me anymore, and this board's charm grows less and less as time passes. It's like trying to hold a conversation with a 2-year old. At least the child still has an imagination. Adult atheists reach a certain age and become so indoctrinated into their paradigms and cynical that there is no communicating with them. I'd almost rather talk to a fundamentalist Christian, at least they believe in something.

 

[jdynasty]

and, of course, since you posit your opinions can be proven empirically and mine cannot, yours is the correct one. Which is why mundanes hopelessly bore me anymore, and this board's charm grows less and less as time passes. It's like trying to hold a conversation with a 2-year old. At least the child still has an imagination. Adult atheists reach a certain age and become so indoctrinated into their paradigms and cynical that there is no communicating with them. I'd almost rather talk to a fundamentalist christian, at least they believe in something.

zing!

 

[JayC9]

mature cheddar before bed?

 

[nefertiti]

I've had some pretty whacky dreams of things I would never in a million years have any interest in doing in real life. I wouldn't overanalyze. If anything, her honesty about it should be encouraging.

 

[-Ariel-]

I've had some pretty whacky dreams of things I would never in a million years have any interest in doing in real life. I wouldn't overanalyze. If anything, her honesty about it should be encouraging.

I"m sure glad I don't overanalyze... that's for panzies...


hehehe

 

[nimbus]

all dreams come true