Do You Tell Your Kids You Juice?

[pgerardone]

I don't have kids and don't plan on it but if I did I would probably tell him if he was interested. So he got good information and not the bullshit you hear on tv.

 

[imprint516]

so this is what I have to look foward too? lol . at least im a way's off from this if children are in my future. Hey if thats true it sure as hell isnt in the near future.

 

[bigpun]

Why would a father tell his daughter about gear use? Do you think she really cares about how dad got his arms up to 17" instead of being stuck at 16"? What if she goes and tells her best friend Sally one day in passing and Sally's dad is a member of the local police department. I don't see any logic in admitting a felony to anyone, you're just shooting yourself in the foot, no matter close you are to your daughter.

In the next couple of years when she gets sexually active do you think she is going to share details about her sex life with dad- don't count on it. Some things are better left unsaid.

 

[DREXX]

I don't have children yet but I have thought about this before.

If my kids ask me if I take steroids I don't want to lie to them. I also don't want to tell them that I am a juice junky.

That is why I will stop using AAS when I get kids...

 

[Frankenizer]

All depends on your situation

Everyone is posting good points and bad points of telling.
It all boils down to the specifics of your situation. I am divorced man, therefore I wouldn't want my children saying to their mom and have it use that information in any bad way against me. However my relationship with my kids is wonderful. Maybe when they get old enough (21 +) and if they are curious I might bring it up. but for now it is all between me and my my workout body.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I would like to know what good things you are talking about.
The only one I can imagine is you might feel a sense of relief that it's no longer a secret. Whatever. That in know way helps her, that is SELFISH which is why you got in the position in the first place.

For clarification, let me state that I've never had an affair. And I do think it is one of the lowest things you can do to somebody that you supposedly love. Sure, affairs are selfish. I agree. But they're also symptomatic of deeper problems within a relationship.

Admitting to an affair is a major first step in leveling the playing field, being honest with your partner and (ideally) working towards restoration and growth in your relationship. Read more at: www.marriagebuilders.com

If you really want to talk about this, PM me or e-mail me.

 

[anabolic24/7]

I don't need a cousilor. lol. I'm happily married w/no affairs. You've read to much Cosmopolitan, I know women pretty well, and dragging up the past on a issue that is dead and buried will do your relationship more harm than good, on many issues not just flings. She may not be so forgiving, may not be able to cope with it, may leave you. If all that risk, not to mention the stress that will come to her because of your forthrightness is a good thing then I guess that's is one good thing I'll never experiance. There are things from my past that my wife wouldn't understand(you know the 2 girls at-a-time-thing), so I never would mention it even if she asked.
The underlying rule of thumb here is "Never admit to anything" be it AS use ect...
This is only my opinion based on 18 years of marriage divided between 3 wive's. LOL. The last 11 with the same one, and I plan on keeping it that way. Watch what you say to others, it can be used against you.Have enjoyed the banter Machine. Out

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Never read Cosmo -- only look at the pictures. lol.

I can't help but note the irony in the 3 wives thing and knowing women well, but I am glad you are happy now. I've been with my first (and only) wife for 12 years now. Glad you have found something that works for you and your partner. I still hold that radical honesty is the key to a successful relationship.

I likewise enjoyed the banter, and agreed with the essence of your argument about the kids/roids issue. Happy lifting.

 

[The Terminator]

I don't know about kids because I don't have any but I can tell you that my sister and her husband know about my use of steroids...and that was a big mistake. He is 37 and is now so busy telling me what a horrific decision I have made, and how I have ruined my health forever....meanwhile he is 6'0" about 235 with roughly 30% BF...and as he eats a couple of cheeseburgers with supersize fries and finishes it off with about a pack of cigarettes every day. I have now been outcast from visiting them until I am "off the cycle". He told me not to visit them again, and this is my fucking sister, telling them was one of the worst decisions I have made in the last couple of years. I will never tell anyone about it ever again. most laymen are so brainwashed from the media that they equate roids with cocain, heroin, etc...NEVER TELL, AND ALWAYS DENY.

 

[METALFLEX]

well i told my wife i was thinkin about using it and she looked straight at me with all the stare she could muster
and then she said to me ...... ok, what ever. dont get caught. and that was it. because my "job" depends on me being strong. not just physcially but mentally also.