Do you like kids

[biteme]

I think if a man was tricked into having a child and wanted nothing to do with that child, then that is his business... Parenting is not for everyone.

 

[all the whey]

how does your wife decide the rest of your life for you?

They discussed it. He said they were not ready for kids or financially ready.

I assume she stopped birthcontrol anyways.

I guess twice.

 

[all the whey]

I think if a man was tricked into having a child and wanted nothing to do with that child, then that is his business... Parenting is not for everyone.

True.

I have seen this shit before. Girl PURPOSELY quits birth control to keep man or just to have kids.

They just felt so screwed they either had nothing to do with the kid or took it out on the kid.

It is not the kids fault it is the selfish cunts. (in these situations)

I would sue a bitch for extortion if she did that shit to me.

 

[-SD-]

just when you think youve heard it all.

 

[avidinternet]

I think if a man was tricked into having a child and wanted nothing to do with that child, then that is his business... Parenting is not for everyone.

Not one but two...and parenting is one thing, not even communicating with them at all is another...

 

[biteme]

Not one but two...and parenting is one thing, not even communicating with them at all is another...

If I found out that I had a kid out there that I didn't know about. That person would be around 20 or older by now. If he or she was a nice person, I'd want some kind of relationship. If he or she was a shithead. I'd pass. I don't have time for assholes.

 

[avidinternet]

If I found out that I had a kid out there that I didn't know about. That person would be around 20 or older by now. If he or she was a nice person, I'd want some kind of relationship. If he or she was a shithead. I'd pass. I don't have time for assholes.

Check your K

 

[all the whey]

I must admit, I have very little tolerance for kids and yet my b/f has two. Our disagreements center a lot around the kids. They are being raised by other ppl and I have no say.
I chose never to have kids nor do I want them, but I met the most amazing person who has them, and I need to learn how to be tolerant.

Mark thinks "tolerant" is the wrong word.

 

[AMGETR]

Hope to have kids some day in the future. Maybe in 8 years.

 

[blueta2]

I think some of you are way too hard on OLDANDCONFUSED.
We are all allowed to make choices. Men get the short end of the stick when a woman gets preggies.
Some will say "well then he should have left it in his pants". That's silly!
Accidents happen all the time. A women is lucky enough to make the choice on abortion, the man, well should he not have a choice? His "abortion" was to walk away.
Does that make him selfish, of course it does, but it doesn't make him evil or a bad person.
Imagine if you will if he decided to care for his kids, but he was angry and bitter about it and just a horrible dad b/c of this anger, do u think these kids would be better with or w/out him?!
It was his ex's choice to have kids, so the onus should be on her to take care of them, not his.
There was a time I got pregnant and I did not want to have a kid, but the guy that got me pregnant did. He said he was going to get a lawyer to stop me from having an abortion. I respected that he wanted a kid, but it was MY choice, not his. Just like if I wanted the kid and he didn't, I would not have held him responsible for his choice. Was I a selfish person for having an abortion? Yep, but my life, my choice