Do you like kids

[BOWTECH]

Im running out of k....to all you guys and girls...lol...thanks for the replys....

 

[stilleto]

Some normally non-judgmental people in here swinging the gavel like crazy.

guilty as charged and not ashamed of it.

sorry, i don't have sympathy for a man who abandons his kids and never wants to see them or hear about them again.
think about the respect you'd feel for your own dad if he did that to you.

 

[captainahole]

guilty as charged and not ashamed of it.

sorry, i don't have sympathy for a man who abandons his kids and never wants to see them or hear about them again.
think about the respect you'd feel for your own dad if he did that to you.

He did! He chose my step monster over me at age 11 threw me out of the house. and the circle comes around.

 

[stilleto]

He did! He chose my step monster over me at age 11 threw me out of the house. and the circle comes around.

well good.
you had the chance to be a better man than him and instead, you did the same to your own kids. they must have deserved it as much as you did.

bravo.

 

[jnevin]

guilty as charged and not ashamed of it.

sorry, i don't have sympathy for a man who abandons his kids and never wants to see them or hear about them again.
think about the respect you'd feel for your own dad if he did that to you.

He kind of did and my mom beat us almost every night until I was in 8th grade. You love your kids, and I think that's more amazing than anything in the world. From how I came up, not being a part of their lives is better than taking away from it in other ways. I almost feel more uncomfortable in really close family situations than I do in distant ones. Maybe that's why I go home to see family every 5 years, I don't know. It's probably why I stuck with a dog instead of kids too. Personally, I won't have them until I know I can be perfect. i won't do what my mom did.

 

[puddlemonkey]

You sound angry stilleto

 

[captainahole]

well good.
you had the chance to be a better man than him and instead, you did the same to your own kids. they must have deserved it as much as you did.

bravo.

So the result of a woman deciding the rest of a life for a person affects 2 others.
I don't carry any guilt about it. I laid my cards down and that's the way it is.

 

[digimon7068]

He kind of did and my mom beat us almost every night until I was in 8th grade. You love your kids, and I think that's more amazing than anything in the world. From how I came up, not being a part of their lives is better than taking away from it in other ways. I almost feel more uncomfortable in really close family situations than I do in distant ones. Maybe that's why I go home to see family every 5 years, I don't know. It's probably why I stuck with a dog instead of kids too. Personally, I won't have them until I know I can be perfect. i won't do what my mom did.

the fact that you already recognize that the way you lived was not right, is about 90% of the battle imho. . .

 

[captainahole]

He kind of did and my mom beat us almost every night until I was in 8th grade. You love your kids, and I think that's more amazing than anything in the world. From how I came up, not being a part of their lives is better than taking away from it in other ways. I almost feel more uncomfortable in really close family situations than I do in distant ones. Maybe that's why I go home to see family every 5 years, I don't know. It's probably why I stuck with a dog instead of kids too. Personally, I won't have them until I know I can be perfect. i won't do what my mom did.

Well said.

 

[BOWTECH]

Where are all the haters....lol This poll is falling to those who love kids.....JK Everybody has their own opinion THATS THE BEAUTY OF FREEDOM OF SPEECH.