Do you like kids

[blueta2]

Sorry but you should adopt.

well I did date a younger guy, so technically, I already did ;-) He grew up and moved on

 

[jh1]

I have 2 from my first marriage at no choice of mine. I have no contact with them though there adults anyway. I never wanted them and have never denied
not wanting them. They were a great inconvenience in my younger years and put me way behind the 8 ball financially because of it. Bitter your damn right.

Jesus....

Were you present around them after birth for any period of time? If so, how long?

I call bullshit on the 'no choice' part... you did fuck her voluntarily, correct?

 

[stilleto]

I never wanted them and have never denied
not wanting them.

i'm sure they're living happy and healthy lives, knowing this. It's nice to see you have your priorities straight though.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I call bullshit on the 'no choice' part... you did fuck her voluntarily, correct?

probably one of those bishes that claim she's on the pill.


But twice?


wtf dude?

 

[jh1]

probably one of those bishes that claim she's on the pill.


But twice?


wtf dude?

And married.

 

[puddlemonkey]

And married.

Maybe they got married after the first pregnancy? Because of the pregnancy?

 

[captainahole]

you sound like you were forced into procreating.

she decided for us after a long discussion about waiting until we are more financially secure and our careers are on track.

I'm not a part in their life I was for 9years for my daughter and 6 years for my son. No I never treated them badly or they didn't do without but I was very bitter and still am.

No she got pregnant after we were married.

 

[jh1]

she decided for us after a long discussion about waiting until we are more financially secure and our careers are on track.

I'm not a part in their life I was for 9years for my daughter and 6 years for my son. No I never treated them badly or they didn't do without but I was very bitter and still am.

Dang. Not trying to be an ass, but that seems cold. You never really connected with them? Bonded with them, had love for them?


I didn't want kids or plan it, but I do have a girl and she melts my heart almost daily.

 

[stilleto]

she decided for us after a long discussion about waiting until we are more financially secure and our careers are on track.

I'm not a part in their life I was for 9years for my daughter and 6 years for my son. No I never treated them badly or they didn't do without but I was very bitter and still am.

No she got pregnant after we were married.

so when they were 9 and 6, you just left them?

on your deathbed, will you look back at your life and feel it was filled with love, or regret and lonliness?

 

[BOWTECH]

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