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Do you like hugs?

curvymommy

curvymommy

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IF not, to what lengths will you go to not be hugged?

I'm a huge hugger with people who I know are receptive. I don't force it on people who I don't know well and I think I'm appropriate about it. For instance, I will never try to hug my Father-In-Law. That's not cool cause I scare him, lol! He's reserved!



Yes, Smurfy, you spurred this question on with your other post! :artist:
 
It depends who the person is if they are family, close friend, or a hottie It's cool! If a stranger tried to hug me I would take them to the ground unless it was a hot woman then I still might.
 
Beachboy6294 said:
It depends who the person is if they are family, close friend, or a hottie It's cool! If a stranger tried to hug me I would take them to the ground unless it was a hot woman then I still might.
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Ewww!

Stranger Danger! I agree! Friends, family or quick friends I made in one evening out somewhere and we really connected.


Sweaty gym hugs are also OUT. Even if I haven't seen them in a month! LOL!
 
I'm not sure how I feel - I can think of one person that I want the huggies from but I'd rather give than get but I don't mind getting - I know that's weird.

I will only hug people when I get te feeling they need one or with close friends that I know are "huggy" types.

My best friend in high school taught me all about the hugging (LOL - I remember being like OH OK is that what you're doing - yeah it was weird) it wasn't something that happened in my house growing up.

I tried hugging my father once and he was stiff as a board and clearly glossly uncomfortable so that was the first and last time. Sometimes I wonder WTH their parents did to them to my parents so fubar.

:whatever:
 
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curvymommy said:
Ewww!

Stranger Danger! I agree! Friends, family or quick friends I made in one evening out somewhere and we really connected.


Sweaty gym hugs are also OUT. Even if I haven't seen them in a month! LOL!
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I don't think I've ever hugged anyone in the gym and I worked in one for 2yrs!! I use to go out to dance clubs and all these people would be on x and try to come hug you and tell you they love you. I'm like I don't know you!
 
I hug my kids and my wife. I also hug my brother and make ga-ga eyes when he's trying to be all cool and a player in front of his chick.
 
Friends. But that's it. I really don't like being touched.

(Thank god there's millions of lines of fibre between me and you knuckleheads!)

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I love hugs. I grew up in a very unaffectionate household. But in my case I think physical affection is part of my nature so I kind of feel like I am trying to make up for the lack in my childhood.

Of course I do it in a very awkward way but I try.

I chose carefully when I picked Smurfy. I married into a very affectionate family.

Smurfy, of course, has some kind of anti-affection virus. I don't see why people waste so much money on cancer and AIDS, someone cure my wife.
 
Lumberg said:
I love hugs. I grew up in a very unaffectionate household. But in my case I think physical affection is part of my nature so I kind of feel like I am trying to make up for the lack in my childhood.

Of course I do it in a very awkward way but I try.

I chose carefully when I picked Smurfy. I married into a very affectionate family.

Smurfy, of course, has some kind of anti-affection virus. I don't see why people waste so much money on cancer and AIDS, someone cure my wife.
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Lol...
 
i think that i asked you this before, but when my wife wraps her legs around my hips and squeezes me into her, this counts as a "hug", no??

if so then, yes. . .i'm a real big fan. . .
 
pretty customary in hispanic culture to hug and kiss on the cheek when meeting somebody/saying goodbye.....

so yeah, just kinda a standard thing.

it's pretty funny when a white girl or whatever(happened with a few arab girls before) doesn't know what's going on when you go to kiss them on the cheek when meeting them
 
Lumberg said:
I love hugs. I grew up in a very unaffectionate household. But in my case I think physical affection is part of my nature so I kind of feel like I am trying to make up for the lack in my childhood.

Of course I do it in a very awkward way but I try.

I chose carefully when I picked Smurfy. I married into a very affectionate family.

Smurfy, of course, has some kind of anti-affection virus. I don't see why people waste so much money on cancer and AIDS, someone cure my wife.
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lol, keep fighting the good fight! I finally have my husband broken in real nice. His family are NOT huggers. I think when he turned 3 his mama cut him off from hugs, :( Making up for lost time is fun though.
 
calveless wonder said:
for my niggas though i give them a little "dap".

you know, like the halfway thug hug
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LOL! That is a VERY popular hug here with the men in my life! I love that. The whole hand shake/slap>pull close>slap back>while exclaiming loudly about how great it is to see eachother.

I approve.

I grew up around a ton of Mexicans, blacks, & church so maybe that has something to do with my hugginess too. who knows!
 
I am not crazy about hugs, only while I make sheet music. I try to shake people's hands if they want to hug me. But if I know the person and they like hugs, then I greet with a hug. I try to read people. But I totally don't care much for physical touch. I am more of a words person. Now my wife on the other hand is vary physical touch, so I am sure to hug her. Later.
 
curvymommy said:
lol, keep fighting the good fight! I finally have my husband broken in real nice. His family are NOT huggers. I think when he turned 3 his mama cut him off from hugs, :( Making up for lost time is fun though.
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Good to know if we ever bump heads at a meetup, a hug is de rigeur.

I had major culture shock when I moved to Latin America as a 5th grader. There, if you meet a girl for the first time, you kiss them on the cheek. It's the equivalent of a handshake.

OMG the awkwardness! Luckily most people wrote it off to being a gringo.
 
Lumberg said:
I love hugs. I grew up in a very unaffectionate household. But in my case I think physical affection is part of my nature so I kind of feel like I am trying to make up for the lack in my childhood.

Of course I do it in a very awkward way but I try.

I chose carefully when I picked Smurfy. I married into a very affectionate family.

Smurfy, of course, has some kind of anti-affection virus. I don't see why people waste so much money on cancer and AIDS, someone cure my wife.
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bad bro material!
 
The most awkward hug situation happend to us not long ago. Here's how it went down.

Two couples had gotten together for dinner.
The end of the night they stood together in a circle saying bye and talking.
Me and my friend leaned in for a hug.
Our husbands went for a handshake as they stood across from eachother.
It resulted in a handshake-hug-cop-a-feel sandwitch foursome!

It was awkward to say the least!
 
Im' not a big hugger

only when im drunk then i hand them out like crazy

but I really dont like being touched unless it my husband , and i love cuddling and hugging him for some reason
 
Depends on who is doing the hugging. If I get the feeling that someone is just being creepy or it in any way feels like fake affection, I don't like to be touched.

I HATE when men try to give me massages! It is so artificial, and I know that they are just trying to segway into foreplay. It makes me want to hit them. I would rather they just be honest and touch me the way that they want to instead of giving me a damn "massage."
 
heatherrae said:
Depends on who is doing the hugging. If I get the feeling that someone is just being creepy or it in any way feels like fake affection, I don't like to be touched.

I HATE when men try to give me massages! It is so artificial, and I know that they are just trying to segway into foreplay. It makes me want to hit them. I would rather they just be honest and touch me the way that they want to instead of giving me a damn "massage."
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I prefer to massage the inner walls of the female colon
 
I don't do hugging unless I'm falling down drunk (hugging in the sense that I need a couple people to prop me up) or playing sports, in which case a pat on the arse or a quick manly arm round the neck / mock punch to the chest are perfectly acceptable.
 
heatherrae said:
Depends on who is doing the hugging. If I get the feeling that someone is just being creepy or it in any way feels like fake affection, I don't like to be touched.

I HATE when men try to give me massages! It is so artificial, and I know that they are just trying to segway into foreplay. It makes me want to hit them. I would rather they just be honest and touch me the way that they want to instead of giving me a damn "massage."
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I think it's cos they're insecure and feel an increased need to sneak up on it still.

I don't know if these are first-timers so it's way not cool, or if you've ever had a long-term guy use this strategy. Have you ever been swayed between the beginning and end of a massage?
 
Lumberg said:
I think it's cos they're insecure and feel an increased need to sneak up on it still.

I don't know if these are first-timers so it's way not cool, or if you've ever had a long-term guy use this strategy. Have you ever been swayed between the beginning and end of a massage?
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yes!!!
 
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