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[wootoom]

who bombed u bro

 

[Bikini Mod]

With all due respect Bikinmom, you sound very insecure!
You're always tooting your own horn on here and talk "tough"! I am sure you are a super person, but there is no need to try to prove it.
I am 40 and have had very drama filled moments in my past too, but I learned from them, not became bitter.

Actually quite the opposite. Sorry you get that impression but it's more projecting than anything else.

I have exposed so many weaknesses publicly I am astonished that you get that impression.

Bitter? LOL

Not by a longshot.

With all due respect to you, just because you dont see me posting up umpteeumpth posts about how I think I am too fat or need more work on this area of myself or that does not mean that I am not 100% self-aware. I have been forced to face reality in ways that very few have had the chance to experience. So if you read that as being "tough", that is your assessment and you are entitled to it.

Most just find me to be confident. Some are irritated by it. Bully for all. I dont change my candor to suit the whims of anyone because I am not trying to "be" anything for anybody. I am just me flaws, strengths and everything in between.

In short, just because I dont care to dwell on my weaknesses that does not mean that I am not aware they exist.

What is wrong with saying that I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another woman?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh my, does your Mother know you talk like this?..hehe!

Actually yes she does. But seeing as how we rarely speak, it rarely upsets her. LOL

 

[needtogetaas]

who bombed u bro

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[blueta2]

Actually quite the opposite. Sorry you get that impression but it's more projecting than anything else.

I have exposed so many weaknesses publicly I am astonished that you get that impression.

Bitter? LOL

Not by a longshot.

With all due respect to you, just because you dont see me posting up umpteeumpth posts about how I think I am too fat or need more work on this area of myself or that does not mean that I am not 100% self-aware. I have been forced to face reality in ways that very few have had the chance to experience. So if you read that as being "tough", that is your assessment and you are entitled to it.

Most just find me to be confident. Some are irritated by it. Bully for all. I dont change my candor to suit the whims of anyone because I am not trying to "be" anything for anybody. I am just me flaws, strengths and everything in between.

In short, just because I dont care to dwell on my weaknesses that does not mean that I am not aware they exist.

What is wrong with saying that I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another woman?

Very cool of you to respond with class......I have not read all of your posts (of course), so was not trying to judge or analyze you, was simply making an observation to what I have seen thus far.

Confidence and cockiness are not the same. You can portray your confidence with brilliance and not cockiness. There is nothing wrong with saying you will ever compete with other women, but if you are confident you don't need to relay that.
I have a friend who always has to reiterate how much she loves her husband, and really her and her hubby are miserable. Self reassurance is usually is a sign of low self confidence.
I just find it hard to palate when strong women have to talk crude to get a point across.....
Again, thanks for replying maturely...there is a lack of that on this board.

 

[Bikini Mod]

The crudeness is a running joke with the board. LOL

You see when I say that I refuse to compete with another woman all I am saying is that I am wise enough to realize that if a man isn't REALLY into me, then why should I bother? (Feel me on the "I think to highly of myself to compete" thing?)

I refuse to jump through hoops for a guy who isn't all that into me - why should I?