Divorced peeps

[nangiggles]

Nice non reproducing lives

Thanks, I take pride in it lololol

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[WoodyO]

With millions of women who arent going through a divorce with kids, why the hell would you date one that is?

Fucking waste of time trying to "make it work" when you are starting with a huge handicap before the race even starts

I think that fucker is dating my ex wife.

 

[kx250rider]

I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore, so I told her I was leaving, and that I'd continue to pay her way for awhile or longer, if she didn't do things to cause me trouble. Honestly it was mixed emotions for me to make that decision, because along with the issues which were so bad, there were good things about her (honesty, good to live with, good cook, etc). But none of that was worth feeling bad about myself all the time, and never quite making the grade with her. And sex had stopped happening too.

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles

 

[stosstruppe]

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles

Why exactly ?

 

[pdaddyII]

I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore, so I told her I was leaving, and that I'd continue to pay her way for awhile or longer, if she didn't do things to cause me trouble. Honestly it was mixed emotions for me to make that decision, because along with the issues which were so bad, there were good things about her (honesty, good to live with, good cook, etc). But none of that was worth feeling bad about myself all the time, and never quite making the grade with her. And sex had stopped happening too.

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles

Holy fuck what's wrong with you

 

[Dial_tone]

I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore....

My ex had that along with depression, agoraphobia, OCD and slightly bi-polar. What a mess she was.

 

[jnevin]

My ex had that along with depression, agoraphobia, OCD and slightly bi-polar. What a mess she was.

I'm assuming the sex was good?

 

[mistaballoonhands]

I'm assuming the sex was good?

This is what I was thinking

 

[mrplunkey]

This is what I was thinking

Weird how that can happen to us men, isn't it?

It's an ugly reminder that we're a relatively new brain wrapped in a 160,000 year old core that still calls more of the shots than we'll ever admit.

I personally believe that our new brain spends a disproportionate amount of its energy rationalizing what comes out of our old brains. We like to think that we're objective and rational now, but there's a mountain of empirical evidence that suggests that isn't the case.

If women ever figured out how to completely leverage our old brains against us, we'd be screwed.

 

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