Here's a story for you from my 87 year old grandmother. She worked with a lady who was a so called 'medium'. They supposedly can communicate with the dead. My gm was invited to dinner over at the lady's house one night. The lady's son was there and also a supposed medium. My gm laughed at him and said she didn't believe in that nonsense. A few weeks or so later, my gm had dinner with them again. THe man looked at her across the table and said,'Betty, who's Ralph?" My grandmother said she didn't know anyone named Ralph. The man said, "Think Harder" My gm said that the only Ralph she knew personally was her cousin and that he had died several years ago. THe man looked her in the eye and said, "I know and he's trying to communicate something to you now." My gm said she got up and left immediately as it freaked her out. She said there's no way he could have known about him because he had died when they were children and he wouldn't have been able to get that info. Interesting. I still think the rat bastard somehow found out.