Dating Multiple People

[Big Johnson]

This is getting old. Why do women say they don't care when they really do? Its always the same, "I just want to have a good time with no strings or BS," but then before you know it they are freaking out and coping a tude' when you have other plans. I hate hidden agendas. Why do people make life so difficult? Just tell the truth about what you want and we can deal with it.

 

[MrMakaveli]

Word to Mutha. I've actually found a girl who is real about what she wants, quite amazing actually.

 

[Big Johnson]

Word to Mutha. I've actually found a girl who is real about what she wants, quite amazing actually.

That's a keeper, bro

For some reason, women feel the need to keep the words, "Hey, I'm getting emotionally involved and want to know if you want to take this to another level," out of the conversation. But that doesn't stop them from treating you like an asshole if you don't read minds.

WOMEN, STOP THE INSANITY! If you have something to say, say it! Now is the time. Don't wait until you've driven us mad to express yourself.

 

[Y_lifter]

Been there
Done that
Had the T-Shirt ripped off my back.

 

[Bikini Mod]

It goes both ways my brotha.... It goes both ways.

 

[the nature boy]

from a financial standpoint dating multiple people is costly. I used to date as many broads as I could thinking it would boost my ego which in turn would boost my self esteem. That didn't work. First, as I said it was expensive. Second, it was like a full time job. I couldn't hang out with my friends. It was also pretty hard hanging out with these women/girls because deep down I really wasn't that interested in them from a personality perspective. I liked having sex with them and I liked the fact that they liked me (how fucked up is that?). I would end up resenting them because I was sick of being with them, and then I'd be upset with myself for hanging out with women I didn't like, some of which were very annoying (but smokin' hot).

I did get some great stories to tell my buddies, and some great sex. But that was about it. My self esteem issues were still there, and I was getting broke, and wound up with some angry bitches because of how I went about dumping them.

It's more healthy to date someone you really like, IMO.

 

[Moe]

It is less about being honest with others than it is about being honest with yourself.

 

[muscle_geek]

from a financial standpoint dating multiple people is costly. I used to date as many broads as I could thinking it would boost my ego which in turn would boost my self esteem. That didn't work. First, as I said it was expensive. Second, it was like a full time job. I couldn't hang out with my friends. It was also pretty hard hanging out with these women/girls because deep down I really wasn't that interested in them from a personality perspective. I liked having sex with them and I liked the fact that they liked me (how fucked up is that?). I would end up resenting them because I was sick of being with them, and then I'd be upset with myself for hanging out with women I didn't like, some of which were very annoying (but smokin' hot).

I did get some great stories to tell my buddies, and some great sex. But that was about it. My self esteem issues were still there, and I was getting broke, and wound up with some angry bitches because of how I went about dumping them.

It's more healthy to date someone you really like, IMO.

I would agree with all of this. I feel exactly the same way. After my divorce I began picking up women like crazy. I was good at getting them and not so good about keeping them. I was dating seven women at once. It was a nightmare. The phone was ringing constantly. I would get voices and previous conversations mixed up. You know that at least two of the seven were having some kind of major issues that I had to deal with. And don't even get me started about the money. Here is the biggest problem with dating multiple women. You get really tired of all the headaches and you end up really just wanting one and you end up accepting someone that really isn't right for you just because your tired of everyone else.

 

[velvett]

Oh just grow up already BJ and get this fucking around with as much pussy as you can out of your system.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Honestly, I am trying to figure out how you can really date more than one at a time... or more than two. Maybe it is just me.

I get A LOT of solicitations. I rarely respond positively (and I am not talking about being bitchy and about all these guys being quality inquiries - because THEY ARE NOT.) and when I do, I may have one telephone conversation to MAKE a date. I nearly always cancel the date. If I do FORCE myself to go on the date, I am usually thinking to myself within 10 minutes, "What THE HELL am I doing here with this guy when I could be home alone - SLEEPING?!" and there is RARELY a second date, not by circumstance, but BY MY CHOICE. In the last year there has only been a second date TWICE - one was a man that I loved very deeply (still do) and the other ended up being a very good friend to me.

How ON EARTH could you find so many women that you could possibly stomach for more than 15 minutes?

 

[MFMan]

word

 

[2Thick]

from a financial standpoint dating multiple people is costly. I

Amen brother!! Karma for you!