Damn niggaz, some chickenhead I was diggin just got engaged

[Bikini Mod]

I wasn't refering to KB's case as law. But I have known way to many people who would rather stay miserable than enact change. I'd also say that 90% of the people I have known to do this were female. I probably find it even more loathsome when a guy tries to stick out a terrible situation, since it is typically easier for men to break emotional attachments.

And how is it polite to lead someone on by saying that you're settling for someone else than dating them? That's actually about as cruel a thing as I can imagine. Or maybe I'm just so blatantly honest in life that I don't consider anything but a straight forward "I'm not interested" statement.

I also just can't grasp why people are so afraid to be alone for any lenth of time. I personally really enjoy it.

Cheers,
Scotsman

I don't know of very many females who realized they were settling (because they were too young to think more of themselves) at the time and I dont know of ANY that would say this to a guy over dinner that only wanted to fuck them if that woman allowed it other than to try to not bruise his delicate ego. I mean, YOU KNOW you aren't going to go to bed with the guy so why not make him *think* he had a chance if things were different (which they are NOT). It may not be 100% honest but there are many women who feel that to be THAT DIRECT, especially with a man who already knows you are into someone else but wont take no for an answer anyway (happened to me a few weeks before I married. I told the guy STRAIGHT UP - I am marrying the Old Grump but that didnt stop him from trying LMFAO and we are BIG TIME GROWN). Why not massage his ego a bit? If it gets him off your cock then what is the harm, right?

I agree, that settling just to avoid being alone isn't fair to either of the parties. That is why I waited so long and dated so many before I even *thought* to remarry.

And I was not the only woman to automatically assume this about the situation as the thread proved out.

...WE could be totally off, but then again so could the men. What difference does it make in the grand scheme of things? KB was rejected by yet another *chickenhead*.

 

[Scotsman]

Scots - dude, that turbo cougar (GREAT line by you, btw) gives massages right next to the gym!!!

Fucking awesome you should totally go. I still think she maybe the first successful head transplant in history.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[jnevin]

Turbo cougar is a great name.

lol

 

[heatherrae]

Yep. She even told me she knew she was settling. But that's the world we live in - it's better to be miserable and with someone than alone and have to face yourself.

She would rather "settle" than be with YOU.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I guess that "pussy" actually "ran" away from KB's "unsheathed beast."

How could this be?

Can't you read you old broad?

She would have been fucked by him, chickenhead she is, BUT she wanted to *settle* for some loser who wanted to make her his WIFE.

 

[KillahBee]

Turbo cougar is a great name.

lol

Seriously. Credit to scots on that one.

And this chick defined it

 

[Bikini Mod]

She would rather "settle" than be with YOU.

Very succint counselor.

Too bad we are all on ignore. LMFAO

 

[heatherrae]

Can't you read you old broad?

She would have been fucked by him, chickenhead she is, BUT she wanted to *settle* for some loser who wanted to make her his WIFE.

go figure!

 

[jnevin]

I do think it's funny that things like this:

This message is hidden because heatherrae is on your ignore list.

This message is hidden because BIKINIMOM is on your ignore list.

keep KB's threads going and going when he can't read a goddamn thing the post stalkers are saying. Now please, reply to me so I can not know what you bored, tired geezers are saying to me.

 

[jh1]

I do think it's funny that things like this:

This message is hidden because heatherrae is on your ignore list.

This message is hidden because BIKINIMOM is on your ignore list.

keep KB's threads going and going when he can't read a goddamn thing the post stalkers are saying. Now please, reply to me so I can not know what you bored, tired geezers are saying to me.

Can u add me to your Foe list as well?