Yep that def. sux. I am overly burnt out *TOTALLY* on this death thing. I really feel sorry for you. Way too young but when it's your time......
Within the past month my wife lost both her parents, in separate cases. Old age and health problems. Her mom died here at the houise two weeks ago. She held on for 6 days w/o food or water waiting for another daughter to show up and died 5 hours after her arrival holding my wifes and sisterinlaws hands as I stood watching.
And as far as the birthday thing..........Mt. St. Helens blew up on my wifes birthday, her brother died on her bd 2 years ago at 39, and her dad was burried on her birthday last month. Next year when that date rolls around im hiding in the bomb shelter