confused on how to talk to girls

[immebz]

i jus got out of a 4 year relationship, and now im trying to enjoy being 19 while i can. I am a serious guy and im sarcastic too. But i know when to talk and when not too. I jus moved in with my brother and nephew, hes 16 17 in december. So a lot of the times im with him im also with 16, 17 year old girls.

They are so IMMATURE. i like to have nice intellectual talks, and it seems like if i ever tried they would think im weird. I dont care, everyone is weird but they make it seem so weird. Anyway i need to know how to talk to them like im 16 or 17, i jus wanna hook up with them not date. BUt ive always been too nice when it comes to talking to girls, cuz i respect them. But its so hard to relate to younger girls when they think everything is so funny. what do these girls like to hear? im so confused

 

[Arabian]

i jus got out of a 4 year relationship, and now im trying to enjoy being 19 while i can. I am a serious guy and im sarcastic too. But i know when to talk and when not too. I jus moved in with my brother and nephew, hes 16 17 in december. So a lot of the times im with him im also with 16, 17 year old girls.

They are so IMMATURE. i like to have nice intellectual talks, and it seems like if i ever tried they would think im weird. I dont care, everyone is weird but they make it seem so weird. Anyway i need to know how to talk to them like im 16 or 17, i jus wanna hook up with them not date. BUt ive always been too nice when it comes to talking to girls, cuz i respect them. But its so hard to relate to younger girls when they think everything is so funny. what do these girls like to hear? im so confused

You are fine!... Everyone goes through that stage in life.Just remember, be yourself and I promise you will find someone special and be able to speak with them on an even kiel... good luck to you

 

[immebz]

You are fine!... Everyone goes through that stage in life.Just remember, be yourself and I promise you will find someone special and be able to speak with them on an even kiel... good luck to you

i know, it just seems like none of thjese younger girls understand life like i do, and whenever they talk to me its so immature, like all i can doi is smile and i really dont have anything to say. I know people all have different personalities, but i guess im asking how to get girls since im not used to being in the game haha. confidence and maturity is what i would usually tell myself, but it seems like these girls dont have a clue on maturity. I wanna not be such a deep talker when im only looking for a hookup, ya know?

 

[Arabian]

i know, it just seems like none of thjese younger girls understand life like i do, and whenever they talk to me its so immature, like all i can doi is smile and i really dont have anything to say. I know people all have different personalities, but i guess im asking how to get girls since im not used to being in the game haha. confidence and maturity is what i would usually tell myself, but it seems like these girls dont have a clue on maturity. I wanna not be such a deep talker when im only looking for a hookup, ya know?

I feel your pain, however unless you change friends, Im afraid you will continue to be caught in the middle.. Perhaps you should broaden your horizons and try and find a more educated group of people to socialize with? I would probably try the more educated groups at school, church etc: I hope this helps you ... btw ,,, welcome to EF...

 

[Razorguns]

Easy. Stop talking to jailbiat 16 y/o's. Unless you're great discussions on Hannah Montana, boyfriends or Justin Timberlake. Focus on the adultworld that's coming up. When I was a teen, I hated other teens!

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[nimbus]

i jus got out of a 4 year relationship, and now im trying to enjoy being 19 while i can. I am a serious guy and im sarcastic too. But i know when to talk and when not too. I jus moved in with my brother and nephew, hes 16 17 in december. So a lot of the times im with him im also with 16, 17 year old girls.

They are so IMMATURE. i like to have nice intellectual talks, and it seems like if i ever tried they would think im weird. I dont care, everyone is weird but they make it seem so weird. Anyway i need to know how to talk to them like im 16 or 17, i jus wanna hook up with them not date. BUt ive always been too nice when it comes to talking to girls, cuz i respect them. But its so hard to relate to younger girls when they think everything is so funny. what do these girls like to hear? im so confused

get them wasted and then start making fun of them

 

[ponyfitness]

Start talking to older women. If you want good conversation you have to look 25 or higher. If you want drunk hookups by quoting what happened on the Hills last week then talk to 17 year olds.

 

[nimbus]

Audrina is such a whore

 

[mustang_00]

who needs chix when you can get a fleshlight

 

[Smurfy]

i feel sorry for people who waste their high school years in a "relationship". i know it feels right at the time, but damn. teen years are for playing the field as much as possible. i mean, its not technically even a real or lasting relationship but it has all the constraints of a marriage practically lol. why do that to yourself.
ah hindsight is 20/20.