? concerning guys and porn

[takniteasy]

Okay, here is my dilemma. My S/O downloaded a ton of porn over the w/end. And while I was asleep. However, I woke up and startled him while he was viewing a video, which he very quickly turned off. Now I don't have a problem with him looking at porn, that's a guy thing. He told me that it was a very private thing for a guy to watch porn. I feel uncomfortable with him keeping that secret from me. Is this normal for men who are in "committed" relationships? Does it make the guy any less committed? I am absolutely head over heels in love with this guy and I dont want my silly emotions over this to ruin our relationship. I just want to know if it is true that guys like to keep their porn private.

 

[WODIN]

Ssssssshhh..

It's no fun if you can't keep it a secrete. After my wife found my collection it has turned into "her" Peter North Gallarey.

Peter North does this, Peter North does that, blah blah.

She starts taking it up the ass then I well talk...

Oh about that issue of yours...LEAVE HIS PORN ALONE!!!!

 

[supersizeme]

depends on what you saw on that video. if you saw some other male getting anally violated by another man or possibly taking a small to medium sized animal from behind then i might be concerned. but you have come to the right place because this is like a big underground support group for all that hidden behind the facade of a bodybuilding chatboard.

email [email protected] or [email protected]

seriously...don't let it bother you. every man watches porn and enjoys it. it has nothing to do with his feelings for you, nor does it point to the notion that he may want to cheat on you. it's normal guy behavior regardless of whether or not he's in a relationship. we're visual creatures. let the poor man get his porn on and just make it clear to him that you don't want to be around or know when it's going on.

 

[WODIN]

I see ssme or [email protected] has weighed in on your issue with a solid piece of advise.

 

[acuraman]

I love to watch porn but my S/O does not she thinks it is dirty. I would love to be able to watch it with her. You should talk to him and tell him you don't mind him watching porn and maybe if your up for it you could watch with him he might get a kick out of it

 

[takniteasy]

I have offered to watch with him. It is kinda exciting in a way. But nothing has ever come of it. I just want to understand this guy thing, so that I dont mess up a good thing with silly woman thinking.

Thanks for the replies!

 

[havoc]

Whats crazy is that those websites actually work.

 

[WODIN]

Whats crazy is that those websites actually work.

Well so do

http://www.havocindrag.com, http://www.havocspumpsfetish.net, and http://www.havocandpumpgirlsdrill.org

WTF is that last one about?

 

[takniteasy]

So, why does a guy like to keep it "private" if his S/O is okay with it?

 

[frorider6]

So, why does a guy like to keep it "private" if his S/O is okay with it?

Because it's more fun that way. Maybe he kinda gets off on the feeling that he's getting away with something naughty. Probably very voyeuristic.