appreciate all the help everyone.
fortunately, i suppose, i havent been able to have a television for quite some time now, maybe two years. And my cupboards are pretty bare lol, there is not much to throw away. I do have a diet forum thread if anyone cares to criticize it. Once it is approved by experienced people with diet i intend to only keep those foods in the house... although i despise coffee, but thank you for the input.
I was thinking of trying to join a soccer team or a boxing class or something fun, on top of cardio and weights. I need to maybe put in a month or so of cardio first to get my body used to it, before i add even more exercise. I am a bit of a wobbily fellow for the time being. I am gonna buy a ledger and fill out my activities and gym time/routine for the week before hand every week. I find I am alot more motivated and kind of like it is more official once it is written down. If i dont write a grocery list I wont buy it, if I dont write a to do list I wont do it, so I am gonna write down my plan so I can see it everyday.
Once again, thank you everyone!
Wynter
Bro I was in a similar situation. This time last year I was 30%+ bf.I was lifting but not much else and my diet was crap. I started by eating less, then slowly increased my workload. Now I'm training 5 days per week 2x per day some days including a 90 minute kickboxing class 1-2 times per week and I recently made the British team. Not bad for a year's work. You're definitely on the right track. You mentioned an interest in boxing. I'd highly recommend it, fat will melt off you with good boxing training, it'll be tough at first no matter what your level of fitness and I'd recommend just going to a boxing gym to see how you get on. Most places I've trained at take your current level of conditioning into account when you start training.