Cheap Ass Friends

[Bikini Mod]

Dude, listen to your wife. Sounds to me like you need some new friends.

My husband and I are very generous and we LOVE to entertain/socialize and we don't EVER expect a thing in return but if we feel that anyone is taking advantage then we just stop socializing.

 

[timtim]

Dude, listen to your wife. Sounds to me like you need some new friends.

My husband and I are very generous and we LOVE to entertain/socialize and we don't EVER expect a thing in return but if we feel that anyone is taking advantage then we just stop socializing.

yea, some real good outside opinions in this thread.

i cant give out any more karma today, reached my max right as i went to hit magilicuti. ill get you all back within 24 hours. thanks.

 

[blueta2]

my wife is PISSED. she has been saying this for a few months now. tomorrow is definately it, but i feel bad. this is a close, good friend. his woman is the reason for all this we feel. she hates my wife and i. my other very close friends wife actually said something in a joking/non-joking way about how they have never hosted us for anything and he laughed it off, like it was funny - but it wasnt.

don't assume someone hate you or your wife. There are reasons for everything.

I stopped having people over. I'm sure peeps think I hate them, but in reality, I'm in a bad place in life and just don't want to socialize.

 

[Arabian]

Dude, listen to your wife. Sounds to me like you need some new friends.

My husband and I are very generous and we LOVE to entertain/socialize and we don't EVER expect a thing in return but if we feel that anyone is taking advantage then we just stop socializing.

I agree with BM ,,, you should listen to her...

 

[timtim]

don't assume someone hate you or your wife. There are reasons for everything.

I stopped having people over. I'm sure peeps think I hate them, but in reality, I'm in a bad place in life and just don't want to socialize.

true, but they have her friends over for small things 1 or 2 times a month.

 

[stosstruppe]

I think it's sad your mate doesn't think enough of his 15 year friend ship to spend a few quid bringing over the booze and desserts & other trivial shit that goods friends reciprocate.

I read on here a lot of older members that gradually phase out friends when time shows them to be fucking lousy.

 

[Bikini Mod]

true, but they have her friends over for small things 1 or 2 times a month.

Didn't you say that they were supposed to bring desert to a gathering and brought a freaking entenmann's crumb cake? That would have been IT for me.

This isn't about money. This is about manners and class.

 

[cindylou]

I have a couple like this in my life too

there will always be people like this, I always just pay anyway

they offer more to me with their friendship and i just want them around to make things more fun

i just want them with me. i dunno.

 

[rnch]

...This isn't about money. This is about manners and class.

or lack of....

 

[timtim]

Didn't you say that they were supposed to bring desert to a gathering and brought a freaking entenmann's crumb cake? That would have been IT for me.

This isn't about money. This is about manners and class.

my wife was bent out of shape that night big time.

everyone here has valid points.

stosstruppe, ive been thinking the same lately.

thanks all. i do have somethings to think about.

i read somewhere that people come in and out of your life as you need them or vice versa. i wonder if this is the beginning of the exit here. i love the guy too. its funny though, this is the 4th person, my brother included, who has been completely changed by a serious relationship.