Cheap Ass Friends

[timtim]

when he asks about why he's not invited to couples stuff, then reply and tell him about how his wife obviously does not care for you and your wife, explain, tell him how you know its not his fault

and then wallah - either he bitches at his wife and things change and she gets better - or - the more than likely you will just hang with him solo minus the wife

sometimes i get the feeling he knows.

my wife set up a little shopping day for the girls. he says she cant go because she doesnt like to shop. she had over 30k in debt from shopping prior to their getting together. she doesnt like to shop?

my wife set up a passion party (those dildo and sex toy parties), she was the only rsvp no out of 16 hoes.

she, my wife, tries for me because she realizes how good of friends i am with this guy but she is tired now. its bullshit really. we feel like we are kissing ass when in reality, who the fuck needs her. shes a wet mop.

 

[cindylou]

sometimes i get the feeling he knows.

my wife set up a little shopping day for the girls. he says she cant go because she doesnt like to shop. she had over 30k in debt from shopping prior to their getting together. she doesnt like to shop?

my wife set up a passion party (those dildo and sex toy parties), she was the only rsvp no out of 16 hoes.

she, my wife, tries for me because she realizes how good of friends i am with this guy but she is tired now. its bullshit really. we feel like we are kissing ass when in reality, who the fuck needs her. shes a wet mop.

yeah. this is obviously a brush off from the wife. I wonder what her deal is? Most people want to be friendly and nice and have more friends in their life. I wonder what your friend saw in her. She only wants to hang with her own friends and makes no effort with his.

if you two drift apart, I guess it will be his fault not yours. You tried.

I'm not sure if its the fact that they are cheap. Sounds like she's a crappy friend and the guy is clueless on how to hide it.

Tough deal.

 

[rnch]

this is a very true and sad phenomenon. my wife is going through this with her cousin right now who is about to be married. he is a whipped pussy (very cool and nice) and she has set up bombs with the family. we never see him anymore. this is all before she has the ring, after that he will be gone forever. i never understood the phenomenon but it is real.

yes, So Sad when this happens!

i lost my closest, best friend to marriage. this guy was a strong weight lifter, awesome beer drinker, ace pool player, NASCAR fan, cool car guy,...the LAST guy i thought would turn into a pussy wipped wimp. we chased frisbees and gals on lakeshore drive all thru college and even after. we both worked at the same retail store during college; i briefly worked at his post college job when i graduated. people thought he and i were brothers. we were THAT close. when his mother died i held in in my arms as the ambulance carried her to the morgue. he spent more time with me than his future wife at his mother's funeral and after during his grieving period. i was best man at his wedding, in spite of his future wife's wishes. he was someone whom i thought would be a part of my life forever.

gradually, a few months after the marriage, he faded away. he stopped coming by my house on his way home from work. i tried to keep the freindship alive, calling him at work, stopping by his/their house when her mini-van wasn't there.

when it got to the point that we had to stand in the garage door to talk (somehow i got banned from the inside of his/her/their house) i accepted what was happening.

i haven't heard from him in over 6 years; even though he/she/they lived within 4 minutes of my house.

 

[timtim]

yes, So Sad when this happens!

i lost my closest, best friend to marriage. this guy was a strong beer drinker, ace pool player, NASCAR fan, cool car guy,...the LAST guy i thought would turn into a pussy wipped wimp. we chased frisbees and gals on lakeshore drive all thru college and even after. we both worked at the same retail store during college; i briefly worked at his post college job when i graduated. people thought he and i were brothers. we were THAT close. when his mother died i held in in my arms as the ambulance carried her to the morgue. he spent more time with me than his future wife at his mother's funeral and after during his grieving period. i was best man at his wedding, in spite of his future wife's wishes.

gradually he faded away, stopped coming by my house. i tried to keep the freindship alive, calling him at work, stopping by his/their house when her mini-van wasn't there.

when it got to the point that we had to stand in the garage door to talk (somehow i got banned from the inside of his/her/their house) i accepted what was happening.

i haven't heard from him in over 6 years; even though he/she/they lived within 4 minutes of my house.

thats just fucked up. i can see things playing out similar for me. the writings on the wall.

 

[rnch]

thats just fucked up. i can see things playing out similar for me. the writings on the wall.

yeh, dude........you can't fight "the primacy of pussy".

 

[Bikini Mod]

I'm not sure if its the fact that they are cheap. Sounds like she's a crappy friend and the guy is clueless on how to hide it.

I think that cindylou hit the nail on the head. So what is the big deal if the friendship fades? With friends like that who needs enemies?

I mean, ok maybe the guy was different before he married. But accept the reality of the situation - HE IS LIKE THAT NOW.

Move on... should be no skin off your nose.

 

[gonelifting]

If he's that good a friend, I would sit him down alone and tell him what's going to happen. If he wants to change things, it will change. If not, then he heard it from your mouth and will know from now on what the deal is when he's not seen you in 2 years or whatever.

Why have him guessing at things a year from now. You know with his wife by his side, it won't sound pretty. YOU will be the bad guy. But if you sit him down (if he's a good friend) and explain... then things may be different, whether you hang with him or not.

15 years deserves a good sitdown.

good luck. Give me k.

 

[Smurfy]

GOODLIFTING knows what he's talking about. he always gives the absolute best advice out of anyone on the interwebs (all forums included)

 

[canadianhitman]

I think it's sad your mate doesn't think enough of his 15 year friend ship to spend a few quid bringing over the booze and desserts & other trivial shit that goods friends reciprocate.

It's also sad that your friend can't put his wife in check as per respecting his friendship with you and your wife. He should come over and socialize with you two and leave her ass home...she'll get the message.

 

[EnderJE]

I'm sure peeps think I hate them, but in reality, I'm in a bad place in life and just don't want to socialize.

Really? I thought it was because you're a bitch...




...but in a nice way.