Cheap Ass Friends

[Bikini Mod]

I have a couple like this in my life too

there will always be people like this, I always just pay anyway

they offer more to me with their friendship and i just want them around to make things more fun

i just want them with me. i dunno.

We have friends that can't afford a lot of the things that we can so we don't mind treating in that case. For example, we went out the other night to a concert and my husband upgraded all our seats to the VIP section. Now this couple makes good money but still, they would have been happy to just stand downstairs with everyone else who paid the regular admission tickets. Ya'll don't even want to know what that cost but my husband volunteered because the couple is very good friends of ours. We got pretty obliterated because he got some really difficult news so we wanted to have a memorable night and say FUCK YOU to cancer...

It isn't always about money. But from timtim's posts is seems there is something more going on here and if you aren't feeling appreciated by your friends then I am thinkin they aren't really your friends.

 

[drsketch]

our other friends are polar opposite. its this one couple. tomorrow is it. we never expect anything, but i would never show up for a party without a dessert or bottle of grey goose/ketel one.

this same couple was in charge of dessert for a big christmas party we had. we catered it but asked for pot luck in the form of alcohol and he said he got the desserts. we had about 30 people over. motherfucker showed up with an entemans crumb cake. my wife threw it out in front of him and in front of about 8 people told him when you take responsibility for dessert for a party you dont go jew style and spend 4 bucks.

haha your wife sounds cool! haha

 

[silverstar1025]

Sounds like you need to drop those friends. I HAD a couple of friends like that. I don't expect things in return from people, but I don't like to be taken advantage of either.

 

[cindylou]

LOL I didnt read about the crumb cake

the dude's wife should have known better

what it sounds like is that she does not like you guys and has left the man to deal with the parties that involve his friends

him, being a guy, does not know the ettiqute maybe she probably refused to make a dessert and he just picked something up on the way. he's a guy. lol

i say dont do the couple's thing with them anymore, but still keep in touch with your buddy

i wouldnt say anything either

just quit having them over together.

 

[timtim]

my wife has said the same thing about i can hang with him, but fuck the couples stuff. problem is, when we have couples over, we are all friends, how do i not include 1 couple? this is going to be an ongoing issue now. i feel it in my boner, i mean bones.

 

[rnch]

sadly, i have lost a couple of good bros to marriage....unless ya'll are also HER pre-marriage friends the new wife views you as a threat to her marriage.


AKA "feminine logic".

 

[Bikini Mod]

my wife has said the same thing about i can hang with him, but fuck the couples stuff. problem is, when we have couples over, we are all friends, how do i not include 1 couple? this is going to be an ongoing issue now. i feel it in my boner, i mean bones.

... esay, just don't invite them over.

 

[cindylou]

my wife has said the same thing about i can hang with him, but fuck the couples stuff. problem is, when we have couples over, we are all friends, how do i not include 1 couple? this is going to be an ongoing issue now. i feel it in my boner, i mean bones.

when he asks about why he's not invited to couples stuff, then reply and tell him about how his wife obviously does not care for you and your wife, explain, tell him how you know its not his fault

and then wallah - either he bitches at his wife and things change and she gets better - or - the more than likely you will just hang with him solo minus the wife

 

[rnch]

when he asks about why he's not invited to couples stuff, then reply and tell him about how his wife obviously does not care for you and your wife, explain, tell him how you know its not his fault

and then wallah - either he bitches at his wife and things change and she gets better - or - the more than likely you will just hang with him solo minus the wife

or--more likely--he will dump you and your wife to make HIS wife happy.

 

[timtim]

sadly, i have lost a couple of good bros to marriage....unless ya'll are also HER pre-marriage friends the new wife views you as a threat to her marriage.


AKA "feminine logic".

this is a very true and sad phenomenon. my wife is going through this with her cousin right now who is about to be married. he is a whipped pussy (very cool and nice) and she has set up bombs with the family. we never see him anymore. this is all before she has the ring, after that he will be gone forever. i never understood the phenomenon but it is real.