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hey just...v, u could send me boob pics and not have to feel like a sloot cause im not married jus sayin

then you're not her type. sorry!
 
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So I had lunch with this friend today and tried to tactfully express my concerns.

Long conversation short, she pretty much said she's a bit unsure about it, but that she loves her fiancé so she wants try. Apparently, when he brought it up, she told him she was a little unsure/uneasy about it, but that he pretty much told her that's the type of relationship he sees himself having with his future wife, period. She beat around the bush and said it more nicely, but that's the gist.

Now I'm more concerned because she doesn't even seem to want this. It seems like she's just doing it bc she's afraid to be without him, and since he probably knows that now that she agreed to do this, I can only imagine this decision is a slippery slope to a life of being taken advantage of and probably inappropriate punishments.

Her life now = fail
 
Maybe during their vows, he'll slap her as a vow of what's to come.

Maybe instead of kissing the bride, he will spank the bride?

So do they have to wait til they are married before they start spanking
 
I read up on this and it sounds a little kinky. Looks like some people miss the good ol' days of Sodom.
 
why are they getting divorced?

She's world's absolute shittiest wife ever...and not just by his standards.

I gave her some tough love for months at least a year ago telling her she was a horrible wife, and so did her mom and sister. We all told her if she loved him as much as she says she does that she better get it together and quick, and she never did.

I honestly felt bad for the guy even knowing this about him, like I was on his side on this one even having been best friends with this girl for a good 10 years now.
 
She's world's absolute shittiest wife ever...and not just by his standards.

I gave her some tough love for months at least a year ago telling her she was a horrible wife, and so did her mom and sister. We all told her if she loved him as much as she says she does that she better get it together and quick, and she never did.

I honestly felt bad for the guy even knowing this about him, like I was on his side on this one even having been best friends with this girl for a good 10 years now.

how was she a shitty wife?
 
She's 27, and she's gained 70lbs since the wedding 3 years ago, and by her own admission doesn't clean the house or cook or take care of the dogs or shave her legs or have sex with him or lose the weight she says she's going to or advance her career the ways she swears she will.

She apparently does nothing after work but come home and sit on the couch watching tv til she goes to sleep. We all told her it was unacceptable, and he told her straight up he couldn't be attracted to someone who does absolutely nothing, including put any effort at all into their life and marriage. I don't know when she got *that* fucking lazy. I couldn't be with her either if that were me. She says herself he does everything for her and she does nothing for him back.

And she just sits there and tells me she knows she's doing everything wrong and she can't find the motivation to fix any of it even though she knows she needs to.

...yet she's so heartbroken about this because she "loves him". I don't see how, if you can't find it in yourself to get off the couch for your man.

I'm kiiinda disgusted by it, and she's not even my wife. Like I said, I don't really blame him on this one.
 
I think he's just too disgusted with her to care at this point. I told her this would happen over a year ago - that if she stopped putting effort in, eventually he would too.

For months now apparently even the couple times she has tried to have sex he doesn't even want to with her anymore.
 
Sucks for the guy.

I know I would have an extremely hard time with physical attraction if my wife gained 70 lbs.

She needs professional help. She's likely deep in depression.
 
this guy is a pussy...I thought he was doing that CDD shit?



I would've tied her ass up to the bed and fed her dick for 2 weeks.
 
I think it started out with her just getting comfortable and lazy as fuck, then she gained the way and her laziness took a real toll on the relationship and she became depressed.

I know she's depressed now, but I'm having a hard time feeling sorry for her because at least from what she's told me, she brought it on herself by putting her marriage ok the fast track to shitsville...because she even said when she started doing less and less her husband was still fighting to keep things good and doing a lot for her and she was still doing nothing back.
 
this guy is a pussy...I thought he was doing that CDD shit?



I would've tied her ass up to the bed and fed her dick for 2 weeks.

Lol I didn't ask if he's punished her for it but I kind of think he probably did at first but doesn't bother anymore cuz he's probably been mentally over the relationship for a minister now.
 
Neverrrrr. He never will.

Someone entertain me while he's at the gym.


I know..we new some entertainment other than guys calling each other fgt.

Somebody tell us a story!
 
You're one up on me. I'm sitting here thinking about making dinner! lol
 
There's a Vietnamese place a block away that does take out but the last time I went, I seriously wondered about the authenticity of the "chicken"
 
Woo hoo! Be right over!

We can talk psychology. I'd love to hear about your studies.
 
She's 27, and she's gained 70lbs since the wedding 3 years ago, and by her own admission doesn't clean the house or cook or take care of the dogs or shave her legs or have sex with him or lose the weight she says she's going to or advance her career the ways she swears she will.

She apparently does nothing after work but come home and sit on the couch watching tv til she goes to sleep. We all told her it was unacceptable, and he told her straight up he couldn't be attracted to someone who does absolutely nothing, including put any effort at all into their life and marriage. I don't know when she got *that* fucking lazy. I couldn't be with her either if that were me. She says herself he does everything for her and she does nothing for him back.

And she just sits there and tells me she knows she's doing everything wrong and she can't find the motivation to fix any of it even though she knows she needs to.

...yet she's so heartbroken about this because she "loves him". I don't see how, if you can't find it in yourself to get off the couch for your man.

I'm kiiinda disgusted by it, and she's not even my wife. Like I said, I don't really blame him on this one.

Sounds like me 3 years ago, my issues with hubby started when I was thin and vibrant, I took care of myself back then. When sex went down hill I started asking myself WTF am I even trying, he doesn't give a fuck, why do I give a fuck? Problem is that once we patched shit up I still have all this fucking weight I'm battling with.... fuck :(
 
I'm on it, I had lost like 30 pounds and then shit hit the fan at work, out of almost 60 case managers there are 15 of us left, I'm working 12-14h day some days so I gained all the shit back, 07/01 we get new staff to help us, I'm hanging on to sanity.
 
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