Can the ladies explain this to me?

[Smurfy]

IMO any woman who trash talks her man makes herself look like a complete and utter moron for being with him in the 1st place.

I'm lucky to have a great husband and I want others to know how much I appreciate him. However, if the tables were turned, and my husband was an asshole, well I certainly would not be jumping at the chance to tell people because it only reflects poorly on me

 

[Smurfy]

Besides, there is almost nothing more annoying than a woman trash talking her man/men. Bitch bitch bitch moan moan moan but do nothing about it. Fucking do something or shut the fuck up with your whining!

 

[bicepts101]

My ex-wife used to trash talk me to her co-workers who didn't know me. Those who met thought I was a stand up guy. Those who never met me would comment to her, "Why are you with that loser, you can do better..I have a friend..." Then she ended up defending me against the accusations she made!

unfuckin beleivable bro....my dad always tought me think before u act...

 

[nycgirl]

OH, they won't. Because then they will be lonely.

I'm tired of female acquaintances approaching me saying they are going to leave their boyfriends, ask for my help/advice, waste my fucking time, and then stay with the same asshole they bitch about.

I don't even want to help or hear any bitchin' any more.

Smurf, you're right, either put your foot down and do something, or shut up.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

My ex-wife used to trash talk me to her co-workers who didn't know me. Those who met thought I was a stand up guy. Those who never met me would comment to her, "Why are you with that loser, you can do better..I have a friend..." Then she ended up defending me against the accusations she made!

This is why I hate gossip. No outsider knows the full story, so they have no business even commenting on such.

I have to laugh at those love and relationship "experts" on tv, radio, etc that answer the people's questions who write or call in. The jilted lover will give some half ass explanation (usually one sided) of what the problem is, and he or she will lay it out for them saying this is how it's going to be, and these people treat that advice like it's scripture.

Nothing in love is that cut and dried.
How many people know how to think for themselves anymore?

 

[bicepts101]

This is why I hate gossip. No outsider knows the full story, so they have no business even commenting on such.

I have to laugh at those love and relationship "experts" on tv, radio, etc that answer the people's questions who write or call in. The jilted lover will give some half ass explanation (usually one sided) of what the problem is, and he or she will lay it out for them saying this is how it's going to be, and these people treat that advice like it's scripture.

Nothing in love is that cut and dried.
How many people know how to think for themselves anymore?

HUH!!!????

...but.........i thought Dr. Phil had the answers to everything??!!....this is bullshit!!

 

[javaguru]

My ex was shocked when the marriage therapist didn't "take her side." It was always about her "being right." She's a good person and we were best friends..she just had "unreasonable" expectations from marriage.

 

[Frisky]

I've done that a time or two, more of a, I don't want to like someone and then get hurt type of thing though. I've had a few men i just clicked with right off, everything perfect but In my eyes.. i was setting my self up for some major disappointment. So I bailed and quick.

You guys aren't supposed to be perfect, tee hee.. that just sets off an alarm

 

[Spartacus]

my ex used to trash talk about me at her work
a month or so after the divorce me and some buds were at a restaurant
our waitress used to work with shannon
dude told her "he's shannon's x husband"
she "I'm so sorry"

 

[javaguru]

I've done that a time or two, more of a, I don't want to like someone and then get hurt type of thing though. I've had a few men i just clicked with right off, everything perfect but In my eyes.. i was setting my self up for some major disappointment. So I bailed and quick.

You guys aren't supposed to be perfect, tee hee.. that just sets off an alarm

OMG..I've been called "The perfect Guy" by women I dated...Actually, I took a personality survey meant to match you up with others. I got back," No major personality flaws were noted, you may want to develop some because not having personality flaws may be viewed as a flaw." WTF!