Can the ladies explain this to me?

[javaguru]

I'll probably purchase a cheap stand for my camera to make it easier next time I take pics.

 

[Spartacus]

I didn't break up with a woman before V-day
and I had decided on my course of action late january
I took her daughter and her friend to the mall and bought them nice leather jackets
hell it was a good sale and got one for myself and my gal
then on V-day she went all-out on gifts
I felt bad as she wasn't too comfortable wealth wise and had 2 children w/o benefit of child support
I learned my lesson
don't carry a dead relationship into february

 

[javaguru]

I think one of the worst things to happen to male-female interaction was the popularity of "The Rules" type books. Basically, telling women to adopt the behavior they hate in men to manipulate a man into "liking" them. I always thought it was funny that not one of the bitch's who wrote book were even close to marriage. The minute I feel I'm being "gamed" i dump the chick; Do they really think I'm that stupid? I even tell them upfront I don't play games and will not tolerate it.

 

[nycgirl]

I think one of the worst things to happen to male-female interaction was the popularity of "The Rules" type books. Basically, telling women to adopt the behavior they hate in men to manipulate a man into "liking" them. I always thought it was funny that not one of the bitch's who wrote book were even close to marriage. The minute I feel I'm being "gamed" i dump the chick; Do they really think I'm that stupid? I even tell them upfront I don't play games and will not tolerate it.

Oh, it goes deeper than that. I blame the feminist movement for a lot of things. I'll save that rant for later.

I never read any of those books, because I can't relate to them at all (for many reasons).

 

[bicepts101]

Do things ALWAYS have to be dramatic for women?

yes indeed....its gets their pussies wet

 

[Smurfy]

There ARE NO fucking rules. It's human nature. These things cant be explained in chapters.

Jav, the way I see it is, you have WAY more going for you off the bat than most people do (men and women combined) so you are actually at an advantage. You need to find someone who appreciates and respects you (and vice versa of course). Thetr ARE people out there who will, too.

 

[javaguru]

There ARE NO fucking rules. It's human nature. These things cant be explained in chapters.

Jav, the way I see it is, you have WAY more going for you off the bat than most people do (men and women combined) so you are actually at an advantage. You need to find someone who appreciates and respects you (and vice versa of course). Thetr ARE people out there who will, too.

Got any suggestions for specific people....I'm at a loss..

 

[bicepts101]

I think some people just don't want to be happy. They say they do but find some sort of amusement in being miserable.

i agree

i also think that some women accually think they want to be happy. but when they find that perfect man for them they ignor the signs of a soon or distant break up and fuck it all up. when they could have reflected on past confrontations and tried to fix it. after they tell their freinds how much of an asshole he was and all that mumbojumbo. (i speak of women cause i dont care what men do cause i dont date them)

 

[bicepts101]

dont worry. youre smart and hot. you have a million opportunities. why waste mental effort on someone who cant or wont see that?

exactly but at the same time i understand him....he just cant figure out why these "good dates" arent "good dates" if u know what i mean. it would be eating at me also

 

[javaguru]

i agree

i also think that some women accually think they want to be happy. but when they find that perfect man for them they ignor the signs of a soon or distant and fuck it all up. when they could have reflected on past confrontations and tried to fix it. after they tell their freinds how much of an asshole he was and all that mumbojumbo. (i speak of women cause i dont care what men do cause i dont date them)

My ex-wife used to trash talk me to her co-workers who didn't know me. Those who met thought I was a stand up guy. Those who never met me would comment to her, "Why are you with that loser, you can do better..I have a friend..." Then she ended up defending me against the accusations she made!